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I couldn't find anything on here about this. 

I've always masturbated lying prone using a pillow to rub against. I'm 49 now. I've only seen a few articles about it, most negative. So I asked my family doctor about it. He said as long as I wasn't having any urinary problems that it wasn't an issue. Any opinions? 

I should add that not sexually active and won't be. 

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I have been a “prone masturbator” since my early teens when I discovered the joys of self-play, @dixietony, and I don’t have any problem. I do not use a pillow: I rub my hard dick against the mattress and enjoy the ride. Mmmmmmmm

However, I got curious and I googled the topic. There are indeed some articles advising to stop this “abnormal” practice, claiming it is harmful and can lead to “serious” psychological and physical issues, including the inability to get pleasure using “normal” hand masturbation techniques; increasing penis insensitivity due to excessive pressure, and even causing erectile dysfunction. Scary, but not my experience at all. 

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When I first started jerking off as a young kid I loved doing it prone - I would slide my cock against the pillow.   My pillow became so stained and crusty with cum.  When I grew older I discovered the joys of fucking my palm, but now and then, when I do, the prone position still makes me cum buckets.  I think its because my nipples are simultaneously stimulated as my glans that way, and my orgasms are therefore stronger. 

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Unfortunately I started prone masturbation when I was quite young (6 years old) lying on my stomach with my soft penis pointed down and rubbing the top of my cock to completion - this was intensely powerful and it kept being my mode of masturbation until someone finally explained the facts of life and I realized I was doing it wrong (around age 16.) It took me another eight years (years filled with backsliding due to an overwhelming libido) to even approximate a normal ejaculation with an erect penis... and the manipulation effort was enormous and totally unfulfilling - when ejaculation finally came I actually felt nothing.  I moved to Los Angeles in my twenties and found a gay mecca that welcomed me with open arms (I was handsome and muscular and intelligent) only to reject me time and time again when my performance abilities failed. And I didn't blame them.  If someone had only told me the facts about masturbation and sexuality when I was younger it might have made a difference.  I'll never know.  I'm in my late 70s, I've had a successful career, and many friends who care for me.  I consider my life a success.  But I've never known sexual pleasure.  I've worked with doctors and therapists and every type of sex toy you can imagine.  Sometimes the universe just says no!

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I can only cum laid on my back tighting my legs. Otherwise I don't. It's been a problem when I'm topping or getting oral because I have a hard time cuming unless I'm extremely horny (which doesn't happen as much anymore). Someone told I should try bottoming. My dick has lost its sensitivity  lately. 

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I used to do this into my 30's when I had read similar articles. Gradually switched over when internet porn started to be a thing. Made things way easier beating off to porn. Up to that time I had only occasional sex and found it hard to reach orgasm without prone masturbation. After switching to using the hand it helped with regular sex too. Problem was prone masturbation would give more intense orgasms.

I switched over by waiting longer between ejaculations. Not sliding back and beating off to porn. Prone masturbation was so good I didn't need porn to get off. Using lube also helps. Are you finding problems getting to orgasm during partnered sex?

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2 hours ago, Jeff Meuller said:

I used to do this into my 30's when I had read similar articles. Gradually switched over when internet porn started to be a thing. Made things way easier beating off to porn. Up to that time I had only occasional sex and found it hard to reach orgasm without prone masturbation. After switching to using the hand it helped with regular sex too. Problem was prone masturbation would give more intense orgasms.

I switched over by waiting longer between ejaculations. Not sliding back and beating off to porn. Prone masturbation was so good I didn't need porn to get off. Using lube also helps. Are you finding problems getting to orgasm during partnered sex?

With partnered sex frottage is what gets me off the best, perhaps because I love the sensation of prone masturbation so much.  Also, the position allows deep kissing which is essential to push me over the edge when I am with someone. 

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2 hours ago, Yellowrod said:

With partnered sex frottage is what gets me off the best, perhaps because I love the sensation of prone masturbation so much.  Also, the position allows deep kissing which is essential to push me over the edge when I am with someone.

As a card-carrying prone masturbator, in partnered sex I have the most intense orgasms by having my partner cum on his belly, and then using his load as lube to rub my hard dick against him while kissing him intensely and feeling his dick teasing my ass. Sublime. 

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