Jeff Meuller

Once when visiting London, I sent out a number of inquires for the next few days. Out of say 3, 2 responded and I was able to book them for the day and next. For 3rd day I sent out 2 more inquires. 3rd guy finally responds after >24hours. I politely mention I have plans already as I had responses to my second batch inquires. Guy freaks out saying I'm wasting his time even though I only had sent out one enquiry and had waited >24 hours and had moved on. Usually in a city like London I find I get about a 30% non response rate. Some legit say a few days later that they were out of time. I apologize then saying I was only in town briefly so maybe next time. Next visit to London I'm only in town for 2.5 days. Wondering what's too soon to book ahead?

When travelling in Australia, my Australian friends would insist that we do not tip in restaurants. Part of this is the real fear that American tipping culture would take hold locally. American's I know typically protest and don't feel they are doing any wrong and part of the tipping process is to make themselves feel good/generous even in places where it really isn't expected. When I have have interacted with locals in Italy, Germany and Spain, they really aren't tipping that much, just a little round up sometimes if you are eating outside of tourist areas that are not frequented by Americans. I usually spy the checks at tables of locals next to us and usually confirm there isn't much tipping (a Euro here and there). And in places like France, some nicer places will say on the bottom of the menu "Service compris" and no tip is expected. I find it interesting that so many online "guides" are written by self serving people in the industry who may upcharge what tip is expected. That's why you are seeing American "guides" saying the correct tip at restaurants these days is 20-25% when the average is closer to 18% Tipping average USA Today. Another source at the Motley Fool says the average American tips 15%. It's a little harder to ask local clients of European providers if they tip (except maybe in this forum) but I suspect that since tipping culture hasn't really penetrated in most aspects of life in European countries (eg hair dressers, delivery, taxis, hotels etc) that it isn't expected in providers either. Of course "it's appreciated", I would be too if someone gave me free money, but the other part of me feels that this is an import of an American custom that ultimately isn't a good thing. My Australian friends say they don't like the custom spreading as it might incentivize employers to pay less since their employees are now getting tipped. Plus we can see the dystopia of tipping culture in the US and want to stop it heading in that direction in our countries. I'm old enough to remember a time that tipping housekeeping in Canadian hotels was not a thing (still isn't in most of Asia). Especially since hotel staff in the big international chain hotels in Canada tend to be unionized with union contracts.

A few times. I've hired a few porn stars and they get into it. I'm also into uniforms and cowboy gear which the providers find hot and sometimes want a photo. There was a guy who had a whole studio set up with remote camera that I could trigger. That was hot as I would create bondage scenes.

I've had them be inactive for a period and then reactivate. I can still see those that I have hired in my buddy list, sometimes for years inactivated. Those I pretty sure have left the business and have forgotten about their profiles. Other's do delete their profiles. I wonder if it's difficult to delete or there's a cost involved? I hang on to a few profiles in my buddy list, like Wade Wolfgar, hoping they are only taking a break. He still seems active in his Only Fans and X accounts.

His most recent pictures were from 2017 or so but I always found him hot in his porn days as Freddy Wolfe. Anyone tried him recently? FredNordic - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in London, United Kingdom | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in London, United Kingdom - FredNordic: TALL HUNG HAIRY HANDSOME

Were you masked? So many OF videos have the non owner of the OF masked.

I have had a few providers that asked me to take their photos cause get them into uniforms or dress as cowboys. Hottest scene was a guy who had a whole studio set up with lighting and remote control for the camera which allowed for high shutter speed shots! We both kept mementos of that encounter which I jack of to frequently. I also see so many amateur videos where there's camera phones. No wonder there's so many leaks. There probably will come a time with this generation where leaks wouldn't cause a bat of eyes.

With the ready availability of camera phones these days do providers find their clients are asking to take photos or videos for mementos? Is this becoming more common in people's daily sex lives? I have asked in the past with providers who have explicit photos on their ads or are already porn actors and most don't decline. Occasionally I have had some hide their face (the non porn stars). I'm wondering if this is becoming a common request ask I find it somewhat awkward to ask and potentially get rejected before things heat up and spoil the mood.

I had one do this recently in Berlin. Guy was hot, my type and was highly rated. It's a pain for me to find a suitable picture so usually I am not motivated to comply but this time I did. He was very good, no attitude and met all expectations. I had to meant to ask him why he asked for a photo but forgot about it in the moment.

Yep hired him twice. He's a lot of fun. Only issue I had was he was late both times I hired him. He gave me updates. I suspect it's because he's giving such a good time at a prior engagement which is why he ends up being late.

Are these numbers anywhere close to reality? I'm into size too and have measured a few providers in the past. Rare to hit 8 inches. 8 1/2 plus? Probably less than 2% of my total of many years of hiring!

His rate is way lower than the local going rate. I would be suspicious of that. Anyone with that nice of a body should be able to charge more.

I'm a top so I didn't test him on that. Unfortunately he didn't bottom that day.

A few years back I hired https://rentmen.eu/hotblondmagnus. Was at his place and it was a bit of a pain as we needed to be quiet because he didn't want his flat mates to know what was going on. He's big all over with a thick cock. Would consider rehiring again but as an out call.

Sounds like him. I'm pretty sure he wasn't on Rentboy/Rentmen. It was likely Craigslist or Backpage. One of the pictures was him coming out of the shower. He was super nice and hot. Hired him a few times.

Bump!

I think I hired him. He's place was out in the burbs? He was great!

Yeah. Saw his ad up again and though, haven't I seen these pictures before, way before the pandemic? It's interesting to see the reviews he has. Many of the client reviewers have profile pictures and they have been only giving multiple 5* reviews for years. Anyone hiring that prolifically and posting reviews must have had a few duds or at least 3 or 4 star experiences.

I used to do this into my 30's when I had read similar articles. Gradually switched over when internet porn started to be a thing. Made things way easier beating off to porn. Up to that time I had only occasional sex and found it hard to reach orgasm without prone masturbation. After switching to using the hand it helped with regular sex too. Problem was prone masturbation would give more intense orgasms. I switched over by waiting longer between ejaculations. Not sliding back and beating off to porn. Prone masturbation was so good I didn't need porn to get off. Using lube also helps. Are you finding problems getting to orgasm during partnered sex?

I messaged him an he wanted $400 which was outside my budget. LA's standard rate was $300.

He used to advertise in rentmen for a long time. I can't remember if I had contacted him but I believe he's straight identified and would only top so eliminated him from my choices. I had heard some positive experiences of him though. Checking through your preferences have you tried https://rentmen.eu/RyleyVancouver? I'm considering him in the future.

https://rent.men/RedneckCowboy His website says you have to pay upfront. But the effort he put in to his website and business plan tells me that he's legit and in this for the long run. Looks hot and meets my cowboy fantasy.

Facial and body hair and tats have become the norm. Probably why Sean Cody etc have to recruit from the Midwest Farm types.

He's hunkier now than when he first started out. I hired him when he lived in LA. It was okay but I would love to try again.

Hired him back before he bulked up. Would do it again if given the chance.