Escort as dinner companion

[+ Charlie]

14 hours ago, nycman said:

Charlie…you ignorant SLUT!

I raised you better than that! Agree to terms up front you fucking whore! Then put out and get out.
Lord, you were playing "footies for free"?!?! WTF….I’m gonna slap you! Then you got had for the price
of a slice of cheesecake?!?!….you cheap little tramp!

 

Alas! I was very young then, and the Internet wouldn't be invented until several decades in the future, so I didn't have a community of tribal elders whom I could discreetly ask for advice.

[+ nycman]

1 hour ago, Charlie said:

Alas! I was very young then, and the Internet wouldn't be invented until several decades in the future, so I didn't have a community of tribal elders whom I could discreetly ask for advice.

Ahhhh, the good old days, when us young ones where left to fend (often poorly) for ourselves.

[BaronArtz]

On 9/26/2021 at 9:42 PM, sjmuktop said:

Lately, I've been thinking about hiring a guy to be my dinner companion, with no sex involved either before or after the dinner date. I guess I just fancy doing something different. I enjoy hiring guys for sex and I love the physical and emotional intimacy and affection that sometimes goes with that, but I just fancy a change. 

I'm currently thinking about what restaurant I'd like to go to, how long I'd like to spend with the guy, and which guy I'd like to choose.

There is a guy I'm looking at on RentMen who I really like the look of, I've been keen on him for a long while now. He's a very beautiful young lad from Brazil and seems a very nice guy judging by how he comes across in his WhatsApp messages to me. But if his messages are anything to go by, he doesn't speak English well. Perhaps I should call him to speak with him on the phone first before making a decision on whether to ask him if he'd come to dinner with me?

I was wondering whether anyone could advise me on whether guys normally expect payment up front for this, or whether they will accept payment at the end of the date? I don't like the idea of paying up front, because I have visions of the guy excusing himself from the table to go to the toilet and then not coming back. I also worry about the guy being distracted by his phone a lot during the date and not paying much attention to me. I worry that making conversation may be tricky (maybe we have nothing in common, no similar interests to discuss, him not speaking good English etc.) and this will lead to a really awkward atmosphere. I worry that he might get up and leave early, that he might not enjoy the food or something.... so many concerns going around in my mind. 

So I'm looking for some advice from my fellow clients who have previously hired an escort to be their dinner companion. Any input would be very much appreciated. Advice on things to avoid and on etiquette would be particularly welcome.

Cheers. 

 

I don't have the pleasure of knowing you, but you seem to be a kind-hearted person and a real gentleman.  Anybody you invite to have dinner with you should feel priviliged.

Instead of hiring a total stranger, why not use this as an opportunity to reward your favorite escort?  The guy (I assume it is a guy) has proven himself already to you.  It takes away the awkwardness of meeting a total stranger with potential communication issues.  And it is just ... a nice thing to do.

On 9/26/2021 at 9:42 PM, sjmuktop said:

Lately, I've been thinking about hiring a guy to be my dinner companion, with no sex involved either before or after the dinner date. I guess I just fancy doing something different. I enjoy hiring guys for sex and I love the physical and emotional intimacy and affection that sometimes goes with that, but I just fancy a change. 

I'm currently thinking about what restaurant I'd like to go to, how long I'd like to spend with the guy, and which guy I'd like to choose.

There is a guy I'm looking at on RentMen who I really like the look of, I've been keen on him for a long while now. He's a very beautiful young lad from Brazil and seems a very nice guy judging by how he comes across in his WhatsApp messages to me. But if his messages are anything to go by, he doesn't speak English well. Perhaps I should call him to speak with him on the phone first before making a decision on whether to ask him if he'd come to dinner with me?

I was wondering whether anyone could advise me on whether guys normally expect payment up front for this, or whether they will accept payment at the end of the date? I don't like the idea of paying up front, because I have visions of the guy excusing himself from the table to go to the toilet and then not coming back. I also worry about the guy being distracted by his phone a lot during the date and not paying much attention to me. I worry that making conversation may be tricky (maybe we have nothing in common, no similar interests to discuss, him not speaking good English etc.) and this will lead to a really awkward atmosphere. I worry that he might get up and leave early, that he might not enjoy the food or something.... so many concerns going around in my mind. 

So I'm looking for some advice from my fellow clients who have previously hired an escort to be their dinner companion. Any input would be very much appreciated. Advice on things to avoid and on etiquette would be particularly welcome.

Cheers. 

 

I don't have the pleasure of knowing you, but you seem to be a kind-hearted person and a real gentleman.  Anybody you invite to have dinner with you should feel priviliged.

Instead of hiring a total stranger, why not use this as an opportunity to reward your favorite escort?  The guy (I assume it is a guy) has proven himself already to you.  It takes away the awkwardness of meeting a total stranger with potential communication issues.  And it is just ... a nice thing to do.

On 9/26/2021 at 9:42 PM, sjmuktop said:

Lately, I've been thinking about hiring a guy to be my dinner companion, with no sex involved either before or after the dinner date. I guess I just fancy doing something different. I enjoy hiring guys for sex and I love the physical and emotional intimacy and affection that sometimes goes with that, but I just fancy a change. 

I'm currently thinking about what restaurant I'd like to go to, how long I'd like to spend with the guy, and which guy I'd like to choose.

There is a guy I'm looking at on RentMen who I really like the look of, I've been keen on him for a long while now. He's a very beautiful young lad from Brazil and seems a very nice guy judging by how he comes across in his WhatsApp messages to me. But if his messages are anything to go by, he doesn't speak English well. Perhaps I should call him to speak with him on the phone first before making a decision on whether to ask him if he'd come to dinner with me?

I was wondering whether anyone could advise me on whether guys normally expect payment up front for this, or whether they will accept payment at the end of the date? I don't like the idea of paying up front, because I have visions of the guy excusing himself from the table to go to the toilet and then not coming back. I also worry about the guy being distracted by his phone a lot during the date and not paying much attention to me. I worry that making conversation may be tricky (maybe we have nothing in common, no similar interests to discuss, him not speaking good English etc.) and this will lead to a really awkward atmosphere. I worry that he might get up and leave early, that he might not enjoy the food or something.... so many concerns going around in my mind. 

So I'm looking for some advice from my fellow clients who have previously hired an escort to be their dinner companion. Any input would be very much appreciated. Advice on things to avoid and on etiquette would be particularly welcome.

Cheers. 

 

I don't have the pleasure of knowing you, but you seem to be a kind-hearted person and a real gentleman.  Anybody you invite to have dinner with you should feel privileged.

Instead of hiring a total stranger, why not use this as an opportunity to reward your favorite escort?  The guy (I assume it is a guy) has proven himself already to you.  It takes away the awkwardness of meeting a total stranger with potential communication issues.  And it is just ... a nice thing to do.

[BaronArtz]

On 9/26/2021 at 9:42 PM, sjmuktop said:

Lately, I've been thinking about hiring a guy to be my dinner companion, with no sex involved either before or after the dinner date. I guess I just fancy doing something different. I enjoy hiring guys for sex and I love the physical and emotional intimacy and affection that sometimes goes with that, but I just fancy a change. 

I'm currently thinking about what restaurant I'd like to go to, how long I'd like to spend with the guy, and which guy I'd like to choose.

There is a guy I'm looking at on RentMen who I really like the look of, I've been keen on him for a long while now. He's a very beautiful young lad from Brazil and seems a very nice guy judging by how he comes across in his WhatsApp messages to me. But if his messages are anything to go by, he doesn't speak English well. Perhaps I should call him to speak with him on the phone first before making a decision on whether to ask him if he'd come to dinner with me?

I was wondering whether anyone could advise me on whether guys normally expect payment up front for this, or whether they will accept payment at the end of the date? I don't like the idea of paying up front, because I have visions of the guy excusing himself from the table to go to the toilet and then not coming back. I also worry about the guy being distracted by his phone a lot during the date and not paying much attention to me. I worry that making conversation may be tricky (maybe we have nothing in common, no similar interests to discuss, him not speaking good English etc.) and this will lead to a really awkward atmosphere. I worry that he might get up and leave early, that he might not enjoy the food or something.... so many concerns going around in my mind. 

So I'm looking for some advice from my fellow clients who have previously hired an escort to be their dinner companion. Any input would be very much appreciated. Advice on things to avoid and on etiquette would be particularly welcome.

Cheers. 

 

I don't have the pleasure of knowing you, but you seem to be a kind-hearted person and a real gentleman.  Anybody you invite to have dinner with you should feel privileged.

Instead of hiring a total stranger, why not use this as an opportunity to reward your favorite escort?  The guy (I assume it is a guy) has proven himself already to you.  It takes away the awkwardness of meeting a total stranger with potential communication issues.  And it is just ... a nice thing to do.

[sjmuktop]

@BaronArtzThank you for your nice words. I think you're right - much better to go with a guy I already know. I think I will ask my favourite escort and see if he is willing to do a dinner date; he does have a boyfriend though, so hopefully he doesn't think I'm trying to pursue something I know isn't on offer nor possible by asking him to a 'date'. Then again, the transactional nature of the occasion should remind him that that isn't the case.

[Alex93108]

9 hours ago, sjmuktop said:

@BaronArtzThank you for your nice words. I think you're right - much better to go with a guy I already know. I think I will ask my favourite escort and see if he is willing to do a dinner date; he does have a boyfriend though, so hopefully he doesn't think I'm trying to pursue something I know isn't on offer nor possible by asking him to a 'date'. Then again, the transactional nature of the occasion should remind him that that isn't the case.

Personally I would combine this with a sex date after , to get the most from the experience 

[Alex93108]

@sjmuktop Please let us know how the dinner date went. I am considering something similar with someone in the UK also when I am back there next month.  

I can get past the thought of paying someone to fuck me, I am still not quite there yet with paying someone to eat with me.  This boy that i am considering  is nice to talk tho though, and has some social appeal to me.

Edited October 5, 2021 by jetlow

[+ BritSD]

I grabbed lunch with one after we developed a small friendship. It was nice since we regularly caught up via text. 

[Phlmuscle]

Try lunch first if you feel as though you only want to eat out. Not as expensive, and usually doesn't last too long. If all goes well then you can go for dinner.

[robberbaron4u]

Escorting is a business enterprise. Compensation is expected for companionship, even dinner

Edited October 7, 2021 by robberbaron4u

[Alex93108]

7 hours ago, robberbaron4u said:

Escorting is business enterprise. Compensation is expected for companionship, even dinner

Thank you for clarifying that! No one works for free- myself included. 

Edited October 5, 2021 by jetlow

[Islesguy]

I think any good "escort" should be able to be a good companion for a meal, show, etc. While I do enjoy the sexual aspect of hiring, I get more enjoyment out of the conversations I have before or after the play. In fact, the one mediocre experience I had was with someone who was gifted at giving head but lacked in the more important area.