Setting up a meet or appointment

[xyz48B]

I don’t mean to sound like I’m whining. Perhaps it’s a (dys)function of the written medium. I’m actually trying to highlight what I see as hypocrisy. And to understand the logic of those responses here that are assigning the blame wholly to me. 

Hey. Maybe the problem is me. I just have always thought that every relationship or communication, no matter how superficial, is a two-way street at minimum. I have a hard time believing the problem is all me, but maybe it is. The collective wisdom of so many folks couldn’t be wrong. And no – I don’t consider myself a victim. The provider doesn’t know enough about me for me to be his victim…

[rn901]

36 minutes ago, xyz48B said:

I don’t mean to sound like I’m whining. Perhaps it’s a (dys)function of the written medium. I’m actually trying to highlight what I see as hypocrisy. And to understand the logic of those responses here that are assigning the blame wholly to me. 

Hey. Maybe the problem is me. I just have always thought that every relationship or communication, no matter how superficial, is a two-way street at minimum. I have a hard time believing the problem is all me, but maybe it is. The collective wisdom of so many folks couldn’t be wrong. And no – I don’t consider myself a victim. The provider doesn’t know enough about me for me to be his victim…

I was pretty immediate in saying that it was bad communication on the provider's part wasn't I? Others made good points about the potential context on his end as well though. That perspective is important. No one said it was all you. It isn't black and white one is all wrong or all right. However, there was a problematic mindset on your end in the beginning of this and it still seems to persist, which was/is my main issue.

"Maybe some providers are fine losing the business, but it seems to me if making money or, as so many providers advertise, providing a phenomenal experience for the client is the goal"

Again, this reeks of the entitlement that was present in the beginning of this and shows the failure to see this as a two way transaction where the provider is given bargaining power and ample autonomy in deciding who they meet. The sooner you realize that, the sooner it will help you. 

Further, it is worth examining what you can do differently or how to look at things differently. As stated repeatedly, there seems to be two options here. Bashing escorts gets you no where, taking a new perspective and approach on the other hand can only help. Unfortunately, such a proposition is treated as way outside the realm of what is acceptable by some on here.  I don't see what is difficult to understand about any of this? Very unfortunate that something so basic and fundamental is met with such animosity. It's very immature. 

Edited September 28, 2021 by rn901