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I'm visiting New York soon and thinking about hiring for the first time. I found lots of great advice from searching this forum, but I have a couple of questions that I couldn't find answers to.

  1. How far in advance would you recommend to contact escorts?
  2. Is it unusual to ask an escort to shower at the start of a session? I feel like he might not be completely fresh arriving at an outcall during a NYC summer.
  3. Have you ever taken photos during a session? I can imagine escorts might not want any photos including their face but would some be open to having body pics taken?
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A week or two, if nothing else just to verify that  they will be available, to check their rates and establish a contact.  That gives you time to discuss what you are looking for, especially if you are looking for  longer time.   I would think that most escorts will be generally clean but you could offer more than ask.  Even when you set it up, ask if he will want to start with a shower.  As to pictures, ask,  all they can do is say not.  Some might not care, even a face shot if they are really out, others no way.  

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Good advice from others, in addition to making initial contact ahead of time I would  reconnect at t-1 days and a few hours before.

Asking for a shower is fair game, in fact what hotter way to start a session - get in that shower with him!   Just remember that is time on the clock.

I have found providers to be 50/50 on taking pictures/vids.  Agree you should ask this in advance.

Have a blast!

 

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I sweat a lot walking around no matter the time of year, so taking a shower with a hire first off is something I have done a bit if they aren't into sweaty men. I doubt there are any escorts who would decline a shower at the beginning, but what do I know?

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I think the question of offering a shower should be played by ear. If he arrives at your hotel or home looking wilted and sweaty, then offer the shower. I would say, would you like to take a quick shower?

If you only have an hour appointment, you don't want him lingering there for 15 minutes. After 5 minutes, if he is still in there, join him there and say something like you must be having fun, can I join in?

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Of all of the men I've seen over the years, I've had two or three escorts who've asked me if it was all right to take a shower prior to our playing.  I always consented, and they did not decrease their time spent.  

Two or three years ago, I went to the apartment of an escort.  He had failed to shower prior to my arrival and took time to do it after I'd arrived.  I was not a happy camper as a result of his lazy ass. 

Unfortunately, this man did not play well with me, for I'd taken two hits on a very strong joint that he'd offered and was quite euphoric within two minutes.  This man did not care about me in any way; as I descended his wooden steps outside,  I had difficulty descending his stairs, and he offered zero help to me.  My being rather stoned (something that I had not expected) left me wandering the streets of San Francisco (in a not so savory area) prior to my reaching my hotel.  It was one hell of a frightening experience.  Since the escort received a very poor review (in my head), I chose NOT to write one for RentMen and for Daddy's Reviews.

3 hours ago, Luv2play said:

I think the question of offering a shower should be played by ear. If he arrives at your hotel or home looking wilted and sweaty, then offer the shower. I would say, would you like to take a quick shower?

If you only have an hour appointment, you don't want him lingering there for 15 minutes. After 5 minutes, if he is still in there, join him there and say something like you must be having fun, can I join in?

 

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I think a shower is the best way to start a session.  If provides a very erotic place to get naked and explore each others bodies.  Rubbing soap all over someone hot body and exploring every crevice is hot AF.  A shower provides the perfect start to a session since it has the dual benefit of ensuring you BOTH are as clean as could be, which should be a relief to both parties. 

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