Friendship

[Maximiliam]

Is it possible to become friends with a client if you guys have good vibe . I am interested in forming a friendship with my provider in the future. What do you guys think ? ?

[big-n-tall]

Not an escort... but yes, it's possible to become true friends with an escort. It tends to happen naturally over time.

 

However, reading some of your other posts you seem to want to force a relationship with an escort you're seeing. I don't know if all your other posts "Sharing info" and "Communication" are about the same escort you speak of in this post. If so, just relax. If a bond of friendship is meant to happen it will. Trying to force the relationship may end in resentment for either or both parties involved.

Edited December 11, 2020 by big-n-tall

[+ 7829V]

Yes... but you cannot buy friendship. You cannot force it. If you need friends, rentmen is not the place.

 

I’m friends with a young provider. He doesn’t advertise anymore but we still meet. And we have even traveled together and I just pay his expenses, he doesn’t charge for “his time” during the travel. He’s a good guy. I enjoy his company. And I want to believe that he also enjoys mine. it doesn’t happen overnight... don’t force it. It should develop organically. And there should be a real personal connection besides the money transaction.

[Maximiliam]

Not an escort... but yes, it's possible to become true friends with an escort. It tends to happen naturally over time.

 

However, reading some of your other posts you seem to want to force a relationship with an escort you're seeing. I don't know if all your other posts "Sharing info" and "Communication" are about the same escort you speak of in this post. If so, just relax. If a bond of friendship is meant to happen it will. Trying to force the relationship may end in resentment for either or both parties

 

I totally agree, Thanks for the advice ? ?

[Lazarus]

You should ask them if this means you are ”going steady” now that you have seen them.

[marylander1940]

Not an escort... but yes, it's possible to become true friends with an escort. It tends to happen naturally over time.

 

However, reading some of your other posts you seem to want to force a relationship with an escort you're seeing. I don't know if all your other posts "Sharing info" and "Communication" are about the same escort you speak of in this post. If so, just relax. If a bond of friendship is meant to happen it will. Trying to force the relationship may end in resentment for either or both parties involved.

 

@Maximiliam is also pretty young compared to most clients and he might even be younger than some escorts. A friendship is more likely to happen even though most gay men have younger friends.

[D21howie]

I am friends with some escorts from Rentmen. A lot of times I find out we have a lot in common.

[Maximiliam]

I am friends with some escorts from Rentmen. A lot of times I find out we have a lot in common.

How long it took to b friends?

[+ Pensant]

Let’s just say I’ve become quite fond of more than a few and we’ve gone hiking, mountain-biking and skiing and other things. I’m apparently an interesting and entertaining person, or so many of them say.

[D21howie]

How long it took to b friends?

We hit it off after a few times together.

[CuriousByNature]

Let’s just say I’ve become quite fond of more than a few and we’ve gone hiking, mountain-biking and skiing and other things. I’m apparently an interesting and entertaining person, or so many of them say.

Just wondering, when you are hiking etc, is that off the clock, or is the provider still compensated for their time? Who initiates these get togethers, you or the provider?

[Maximiliam]

Just wondering, when you are hiking etc, is that off the clock, or is the provider still compensated for their time? Who initiates these get togethers, you or the provider?

Yes I'm interested to know too

[+ Pensant]

Yes I'm interested to know too

Generally, they’re part of long weekends together. These providers love the outdoors, as I do.