Desert stake out fantasy

[Guest]

I've always wanted to be staked out spread eagle in the desert sun, like the old cowboy and indians movies. It's been on my bucket list since I was a teenager but I've never had luck finding anyone who would be into it or who knew of a safe remote spot. Anyone else have this fetish?

 

Are there any providers out there who could make this happen? Obviously willing to travel and know that this would be a premium session.

 

[+ MysticMenace]

is there a season when one can do this comfortably? wouldn't the desert sand just be scorching hot during the summer? maybe spring or fall?

[Guest]

is there a season when one can do this comfortably? wouldn't the desert sand just be scorching hot during the summer? maybe spring or fall?

 

There are definitely a lot of safety issues to consider in this scene. You're correct fall or early spring would be best depending on the location as summer would probably be deadly. You also have to consider sunburn, dehydration, and the hot sand. But your body pressed against the hot sand would be part of the experience. The Dom also has to make sure there's not threatening wildlife like snakes, etc. But seeing vultures/buzzards circling over head would make it more intense for the sub.

[+ azdr0710]

there are many areas in the southwest US where this can be done.....it's easy to find a private spot out here with lots of public land and no relevant restrictions.......may need a capable vehicle and, depending on the length of time you'll actually be tied up and the location aspect, some sort of friend on the lookout for approaching people/vehicles.......your first picture is obviously on a large dry lake bed, which are common and usually public in accessible areas of southern California well east of the LA area (check out Google Earth for options!!)

 

the desert is typically warm in the day and cold at night (low humidity does this).......fall and spring would be best......the ground will not be too hot except in the summer......winter can be cool on some days, but very comfortable on others......

Edited November 19, 2020 by azdr0710

[Mjonis]

Hmmm. Intrigued by the "public" aspect of it, but not so much the tied on the ground part. Maybe if there was a blanket/mattress, LOL.

Or one of those cross thingies they show. Damn, now I'm getting hard.

[Guest]

Hmmm. Intrigued by the "public" aspect of it, but not so much the tied on the ground part. Maybe if there was a blanket/mattress, LOL.

Or one of those cross thingies they show. Damn, now I'm getting hard.

 

I go to a couple of gay campgrounds here in the midwest who have outdoor BDSM areas with the cross/X you mentioned. Very public and very acceptable. Haven't done anything there yet but hope to. As for being staked to the ground that's part of the peril/fantasy. Naked body pressed into the sand/dirt left to struggle, exposed. Not into the public aspect of it, into the idea of being left alone in nature struggling to survive.

[+ azdr0710]

just to clarify my post #4, I only meant "public" lands out here in the west, not any kind of public viewing of the goings-on mentioned!......Westerners will know there are millions of acres of land that are "owned" by one government jurisdiction or another and are open to the public without restriction, unless posted in some way.....the proposed stake-out can be done on these lands without any prior permission, but the participants may want to find a hidden area in which no law-enforcement, campers, hikers, hunters, explorers et al may happen upon the scene.....

 

 

[+ poolboy48220]

That's one of my favorite fantasy positions. I went to a Body Electric BDSM workshop where I talked about that, logistically it would've been difficult (nothing really to stake me out spreadeagled to) so I settled for hogtied.

 

On the whole, I'd much rather be spreadeagled on a bed (and have done that more than a few times).

Edited November 20, 2020 by poolboy48220

[+ Charlie]

And in your fantasy, what happens after you have been tied spread-eagled naked on the sand?

[Guest]

And in your fantasy, what happens after you have been tied spread-eagled naked on the sand?

 

The basic scene would be left to struggle in the hot sun for awhile hoping I don't get found by a hungry predator, eventually to be set free by a hunky cowboy who I will gratefully reward him (yes sexually). An advanced scene would have the dom pour honey all over the sub's torso and thighs telling him it's to attract predators or ants letting it bake onto his skin while he struggles.

[+ poolboy48220]

you didn't ask me, but mine would be that the guy teases me while I can't resist, getting me aroused while I struggle against it.

[+ Charlie]

Some fantasies are best left as fantasies. If you do try to go through with this, make sure you are dealing with a very reliable escort, and have someone you can trust (not an associate of the escort) be aware of what is going on, and if possible actually monitoring the adventure. I was acquainted with a crazy escort who engaged in a similar kind of desert fantasy a number of years ago with a client who requested it. It did not go well for the client, according to the homicide investigators.

[Guest]

Some fantasies are best left as fantasies. If you do try to go through with this, make sure you are dealing with a very reliable escort, and have someone you can trust (not an associate of the escort) be aware of what is going on, and if possible actually monitoring the adventure. I was acquainted with a crazy escort who engaged in a similar kind of desert fantasy a number of years ago with a client who requested it. It did not go well for the client, according to the homicide investigators.

 

YIKES! Very good advice and I agree 100%. I'm curious to hear the details of what happened with the crazy escort. It's definitely something that requires someone who's very skilled in BDSM and professional. Not something for the inexperienced!