Overnight

[Luv2play]

I = me/other typical escort

 

Q: What exactly is an "overnight" session?

A: We meet at some point in the evening, usually have dinner and then it's off to the races. I spend the night and then in the morning after some interaction we shed tears and bid our fond farewells until next time.

 

Q: We'll spend the entire night doing... what?

A: It won't be having sex, if that's what you're asking. You wouldn't want that, and I can't do that (and most escorts can't either), so imagine having a guest over for 12 hours and what you might do to fill the time.

 

Q: I'm currently in touch with this guy who I want to hire, and he suggested the "overnight" option...

A: Imagine 12 hours of fun with a friend, because you guys know things about each other, share things in common, communicate well, and so on. Now imagine 12 hours of awkward silence punctuated with brief bursts of single-word answers to your questions, followed by however long you'll be filled with regret for paying for that 12 hours. Now imagine talking on the phone for 15-30 minutes getting to know someone to see if A or B is more likely (which should have already given you insight into how your first question should be answered).

 

Q: Are we suppose to have some fun but he will eventually expect some "off time" to get some rest?!

A: It depends on how you define "off time." When I did an overnight with a client, the only off-time I had was being asleep because I was a guest. A guest for 12 hours doesn't get "off-time," and I didn't want off-time. I agreed to do an overnight because they seemed fun. If you're defining "off-time" as a break from a particular activity, that doesn't mean your escort should go trot his ass into another room to answer emails or phone calls or have some "me" time. You guys can talk, laugh, eat something, watch tv, etc.

 

Q: ...say 11 pm

A: This is too late in the evening to get started for an overnight.

 

Q: ...say 11 pm, and we will spend the entire night doing what "I want" or rather "what I hired him to do"

A: In my opinion, you don't want an overnight as much as you want an extended late-night session for 3-4 hours. If an escort is trying to convince you to hire them for an overnight that starts at 11pm, here's what will happen.

 

11:30 pm

You: Well that was amazing!

Escort: Yes, it was. I'm sleepy. Good night!

 

There are a gazillion threads on this forum and just as many opinions on what an overnight is, and what an overnight should be. IMHO, sex is one component but not the only one. You'd be amazed at how quickly you can get bored with someone you don't know in less than 90 minutes.

These are great answers and generally resonate with me. Over the last couple of years overnights have been my preferred option in hiring escorts. Several of them have been repeats but others one-offs. Some of the one-offs have involved the participation of a second escort for part of the evening to spice things up.

 

I agree 11pm in not a good time to start the date; far too late, especially for older clients who normally go to bed at that hour. If all you are going to experience is a sexual experience of less than an hour or so in the late evening and a morning wake up call to action, you would be better off having a two or three hour evening session and getting all the satisfaction you need or enjoy (If this is the scenario, make sure your date is capable of quick recovery for a second go-round.) 2 to 3 hours should cost only half or so of an overnight.

 

Several times when an overseas escort has visited me, instead on an overnight, we have done two 4 hour sessions in two consecutive evenings For the same fee. Always includes dinner and 2 or so hours of fun, ending around mid-night. Works for us both.

 

I’ve had several escorts visit me for a weekend at my home, which is really only 1 day and two nights, 2 evenings. The nights take care of themselves but what to do during the day in between? I always have a plan, geared to the interests of the escort. This could include visits to museums or other sights, going for a swim, doing something he enjoys that I also can share in, and preparing food together or going to some nice restaurants. This last 7 months, it’s been preparing meals together, which is fun (it helps to know the escort is a foodie).

 

Finally, one of the best parts of overnights is the cuddling after the main events, the holding and caressing of another guy that you have shared the most intimate experiences with, as you drift off to sleep. And then waking to the same warm body.

 

Writing this makes me want to plan the next overnight. It’s been over 3 weeks since my last.

[sincitymix]

I = me/other typical escort

 

Q: What exactly is an "overnight" session?

A: We meet at some point in the evening, usually have dinner and then it's off to the races. I spend the night and then in the morning after some interaction we shed tears and bid our fond farewells until next time.

 

Q: We'll spend the entire night doing... what?

A: It won't be having sex, if that's what you're asking. You wouldn't want that, and I can't do that (and most escorts can't either), so imagine having a guest over for 12 hours and what you might do to fill the time.

 

Q: I'm currently in touch with this guy who I want to hire, and he suggested the "overnight" option...

A: Imagine 12 hours of fun with a friend, because you guys know things about each other, share things in common, communicate well, and so on. Now imagine 12 hours of awkward silence punctuated with brief bursts of single-word answers to your questions, followed by however long you'll be filled with regret for paying for that 12 hours. Now imagine talking on the phone for 15-30 minutes getting to know someone to see if A or B is more likely (which should have already given you insight into how your first question should be answered).

 

Q: Are we suppose to have some fun but he will eventually expect some "off time" to get some rest?!

A: It depends on how you define "off time." When I did an overnight with a client, the only off-time I had was being asleep because I was a guest. A guest for 12 hours doesn't get "off-time," and I didn't want off-time. I agreed to do an overnight because they seemed fun. If you're defining "off-time" as a break from a particular activity, that doesn't mean your escort should go trot his ass into another room to answer emails or phone calls or have some "me" time. You guys can talk, laugh, eat something, watch tv, etc.

 

Q: ...say 11 pm

A: This is too late in the evening to get started for an overnight.

 

Q: ...say 11 pm, and we will spend the entire night doing what "I want" or rather "what I hired him to do"

A: In my opinion, you don't want an overnight as much as you want an extended late-night session for 3-4 hours. If an escort is trying to convince you to hire them for an overnight that starts at 11pm, here's what will happen.

 

11:30 pm

You: Well that was amazing!

Escort: Yes, it was. I'm sleepy. Good night!

 

There are a gazillion threads on this forum and just as many opinions on what an overnight is, and what an overnight should be. IMHO, sex is one component but not the only one. You'd be amazed at how quickly you can get bored with someone you don't know in less than 90 minutes.

lol if i do an overnight that escort is going to get milked dry and leave looking like a dehydrated shadow of a man.. like all his vitality and youth was sucked out of him.. ?

[Luv2play]

lol if i do an overnight that escort is going to get milked dry and leave looking like a dehydrated shadow of a man.. like all his vitality and youth was sucked out of him.. ?

You must be a bottom LOL

[sincitymix]

You must be a bottom LOL

your guess would be right and i love to put my mouth to good use