Sex in the time of COVID-19

[Lchnsf]

I’m ready to take the plunge. I have not had sex since the middle of March when or lockdown started (and frankly for some time before that). I have also pretty much stayed home except for solo bike rides, grocery shopping and necessary activities.

 

I don’t think I want to try an escort or massage therapist as they are seeing clients, but rather find another person who has been isolating. I have opened communication with some people who are game who have also quarantined. We are looking at a safe encounter with masks (I will miss kissing).

 

Has anyone tried this yet?

How did it go?

Any tips and keeping it exciting?

[+ 7829V]

I’m ready to take the plunge. I have not had sex since the middle of March when or lockdown started (and frankly for some time before that). I have also pretty much stayed home except for solo bike rides, grocery shopping and necessary activities.

 

I don’t think I want to try an escort or massage therapist as they are seeing clients, but rather find another person who has been isolating. I have opened communication with some people who are game who have also quarantined. We are looking at a safe encounter with masks (I will miss kissing).

 

Has anyone tried this yet?

How did it go?

Any tips and keeping it exciting?

Based on some comments I’ve read in here. It would be also very safe to meet someone that already had covid-19. Since they’ll have the antibodies for at least 3-6 months.

[KrisParr]

I don’t mean to be snarky at all, but how does one validate that the person indeed had it? A note from their doctor?

[rustyrex]

Hey I totally understand, do what's best for you. I actually shed a tear when I had someone I know do the deed with me. It was insane, I had so much pent up desire that I got emotional. I wouldn't have thought something like that would've happened at all but there I was shaking, practically screaming, and the tear. It was that fucking good! It was a tender moment, he was even sweet about it and we held each other for a little bit. We didn't kiss and had masks on the whole time.

[MaybeMaybeNot]

There's a guy I chat with online who has taken Covid very seriously. He literally saw no one, even socially, during quarantine. He started to have sex with a few guys, quizzing them on mask-wearing, social isolation practices, and hand-washing. He asked if they worked alone or in groups. The only guy he kissed was one who had been tested.

 

When I drove across the country to visit family and then drove home, I had not cum in over 3 1/2 weeks. I took a play out of his book and began looking for someone in a small county on my way back, a county with very low Covid numbers. I found one guy who seemed perfect. He even had a farm where we could be outside, I could sit back, spread my legs, and get some relief. As I was about to seal the deal, I asked more about his work. He worked in a factory. I had to turn him down because he worked with large groups of people.

 

When I stopped for a quick drive-through lunch in one town, a greeting popped up on Scruff. I found a guy who was taking all the precautions and headed over to his garage. No kissing, I kept my mask on, and I was literally weak in the knees after shooting a big load. I regretted it afterwards, but all was fine.

 

I am not saying I recommend these steps, but that's what I did and how I came up with the plan.

Edited September 8, 2020 by MaybeMaybeNot

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I've not tried it yet, but if you are going to keep on masks, how about role playing a medical scene? Two doctors giving each other physicals?