rentmassuer and rentmen?

[LTN]

Are these sites safe and legal. Would love to use, but worry about sting operation or entrapment.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

I would hope so, because we’ve been paying to be on those sites all this time.

[GTMike]

I've operated under the assumption that just like an automobile is deemed "safe" and guns are "legal", the sites themselves have adapted and changed to protect themselves legally to be fine and the risk to an individual is though an actual specific illegal act itself rather than if the sites were used improperly to facilitate an activity. ( just my unprofessional opinion.)

[+ Just Sayin]

I am always hesitant to respond when an escort asks "what are you in to?" while either texting or on the RM website; I recommend you not discuss specific acts and just say something innocuous like "I love intimacy."

[MikeBiDude]

Are these sites safe and legal. Would love to use, but worry about sting operation or entrapment.

Welcome to the message site. Spend some time looking around and you’ll learn a lot.

[Chad Constantine]

lol

[+ Keith30309]

Are these sites safe and legal. Would love to use, but worry about sting operation or entrapment.

Legit question from a new member. (Welcome)

Create a profile there that describes what you have enjoyed doing in the past.

In a text discussion I wouldn’t say “When we meet I want you to breed me while I wear my mothers wedding gown” but rather ”in the past I have thought about lots of mutual oral and have fantasized about... whatever“. Remember that you’re truly paying for someone’s time and you should ensure in advance that your interests are aligned with those of your companion or you’ll both be unhappy with the outcome.

I have yet to meet a companion who can read minds and if you don’t commuicate your interests you‘re likely to be disappointed.

[down_to_business]

My best advice is to never enter into a conversation about specific acts and compensation. Not by email, phone, messenger, tweet.. not even in person.

[orville]

Lol, then what do you call them?

"Fantasy" instead of "Sex Act"?

And "Donation" instead of "Compensation"?

Just looking to confirm...

[down_to_business]

Lol, then what do you call them?

"Fantasy" instead of "Sex Act"?

And "Donation" instead of "Compensation"?

Just looking to confirm...

 

 

No the terminology isn't the issue, it is any discussion of tying specific actions to value.

I see no issue having a conversation (oral or written) with someone about what they or you are into, enjoy doing, etc. I even think its ok to ask if the into section of someone's profile is accurate. I also think it is probably ok to have a separate conversation about the rate for someone's time.

 

Where I believe the trouble starts is if the conversation heads to combining the two.

client: what is your rate?

escort responds: what do you want to do?

RUN don't walk away from this.

 

Likewise completely avoid asking things like this:

Does kissing cost extra?

 

Again, just my humble opinion.

[MrMattBig]

Lol, then what do you call them?

"Fantasy" instead of "Sex Act"?

And "Donation" instead of "Compensation"?

Just looking to confirm...

No the terminology isn't the issue, it is any discussion of tying specific actions to value.

I see no issue having a conversation (oral or written) with someone about what they or you are into, enjoy doing, etc. I even think its ok to ask if the into section of someone's profile is accurate. I also think it is probably ok to have a separate conversation about the rate for someone's time.

 

Where I believe the trouble starts is if the conversation heads to combining the two.

client: what is your rate?

escort responds: what do you want to do?

RUN don't walk away from this.

 

Likewise completely avoid asking things like this:

Does kissing cost extra?

 

Again, just my humble opinion.

If I may also ad, avoid phrasing in terms of what you and another will do together specifically.

For example " I am into kissing and bottoming, do you think we will get along well? If so let me know when you are available and what an hour of your time will cost." Instead of " Into kissing and you topping me. Will you cum? Rate?"

Besides the legality factor, phrased the first way an escort is more likely to take you seriously and reply promptly, the second way you are more likely to be given less priority over other inquiries or ignored all together.

[orville]

No the terminology isn't the issue, it is any discussion of tying specific actions to value.

I see no issue having a conversation (oral or written) with someone about what they or you are into, enjoy doing, etc. I even think its ok to ask if the into section of someone's profile is accurate. I also think it is probably ok to have a separate conversation about the rate for someone's time.

 

Where I believe the trouble starts is if the conversation heads to combining the two.

client: what is your rate?

escort responds: what do you want to do?

RUN don't walk away from this.

 

Likewise completely avoid asking things like this:

Does kissing cost extra?

 

Again, just my humble opinion.

And I totally respect as you probably have hired much more than me but I think that is too much paranoia and leaves open doors to misinterpretations of the kind "Oh! You wanted this? We never discussed it, sorry, I don't do this", hence loss in value of the service. Also my humble opinion. I have specifically clarified what I want by text message or phone call what I want and have never had bad experiences but I suppose we are all separate cases.

[harlow]

lol

I’m on the floor laughing ?

[harlow]

Here’s my 2 cents....use this forum for a while until you get your feet wet. Back in the day (15-20yrs ago) it really was a risk meeting with a provider. You never knew what you were walking into. These days it’s much easier because forums like this have tons of information about a provider from clients that actually met him. Find somebody you like on RM/RM and paste their name here in the search box. 9 outta 10 times someone on here has met them or knows details about him. Use the forum members to your advantage until you’re more comfortable taking risks...and there’s always a risk. We actually love talking to each other about our experiences. That’s why we’re on here.

 

I ask other members all the time for recommendations. I just did it yesterday and trust me it will save you a lot of time and most importantly MONEY. Experienced forum members know how to spot a fake. As for RM being left I say it is and it kinda gets around U.S. law because it’s hosted in Europe. I’m sure all of us remember what happened to US based sites like Rentboy and Men4Rentnow. It’s sucked but because they were based in the US they got seized and shut down by the FBI.

Edited February 2, 2021 by harlow