SHARE YOUR ENCOUNTER WITH YOUR FIRST ESCORT!

[Guest CURIOUS35]

but it's also a little creepy. I mean,

>would you like it if it had been an out-call and Casey had

>arrived early to your place to take a secret look at you in

>advance (maybe spot you taking out the trash or walking the

>dog or just getting home from a long day at work) and decide

>whether or not to take the job? Now, I guess I understand

>those escorts who are reluctant to give out their home

>address! :o

 

 

 

:-) :-) :-) :-)

 

Actually, I thought of that at the time I did it. I was debating whether it was worth it or not.But the sense of a first time adventure is a great catalyst in the decision to take a peek! (We are all guilty of peeking!) I am sure you post your pictures because you know... most if not all people peek!

 

I understand escorts who are reluctant to give out their addresses! Believe me I dont insist! And I do not entertain the idea of finding out his location or digits! That simply is not me!

 

Perhaps you understand, the experience was related to show my state of excitement in having to meet my choice escort for that life breaking trend! No, I am not rationalizing... I am just stating matter of factly!

 

And don't forget, that in essence the escort review pages are there for us--- people who want to take a peek but do not want to be discovered yet! Think of it in that terms! People are by nature curious!

 

By the way, I did tell Casey at that time, when we began to relax and relate stories to each other... that I came in much earlier than the appointed time. He mused and told me... he was also by the window, hoping to take a look at me... just in case I decide to come early!

 

May I asked if you have hired your first escort yet?

 

 

 

 

 

:-) :-) :-)

[Guest CURIOUS35]

>collecting material for a dissertation?

 

 

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I did my dissertation in Economic Geography! I did have a chapter in my thesis that talks about the economics of people!

 

P.S. I read some of your post! You are an erudite person!

 

:-) :-) :-)

[+ Italiano]

>

>Your post remind me of the Italians who celebrate their

>birthday anmd their feast day!

>

>But I must say I understand. (I am sure you speak Italian

>like I do?)

>

>Which Sauna in Milan was that? Was the Brazilian Hunk good in

>bed? What did he do for your time payment?

>

>As for your first call to an escort-- So his nickname was

>Lorenzo? Now I think I know your types LOL... but I may be

>mistaken.

>

>I guess you like muscle guys who are latin types.

>

>The post also points out to one reason why escorts do their

>trade.

>

>Tsk Tsk I am sorry he got caught in his side job.

>:-) :-) :-) :-) :-)

 

Certo, sono italianissimo! ;-)

I still receive every year calls from my mom and my sisters (who live in Milan) for my "feast day" on December 26th if I am not there with them for Xmas!

 

The Sauna is called "Magic" and it's the only one in Milan (perhaps in all Italy?...) which has a few escorts (more street boys/hustlers types...) but it's not recommendable at all!

I went again last year (after all these years, hoping to find the same Brasilian guy! yeah... ) and REALLY left after 10 minutes because it's a very ugly place.

 

Back then the masseur was absolutely happy to do whatever we wanted to do. Don't forget that I was in my 20s and quite hot, so I guess he must have been glad to play with some fresh meat for a change!

We licked and sucked each other and I remember he tried to fuck me but was a bit too rough for me and we gave up, I remember I came playing with his huge tool...:9

 

Yes, I have a weakness for masculine muscular (not vascular!) men, "darkish" and mediterrenean are on top of my the list. Latinos also can be hot, but I prefer some hair, and usually latinos are quite smooth...

Lorenzo was (I bet he still is?...) a real HUNK!

 

Ciao!

[+ Charlie]

Gee, thanks! I really needed that affirmation.

[+ Lucky]

RE:Freud

 

I can see now why no one else wants to post their first experience. Curious 35 pretended to be interested in hearing the tales, but what he really wants to do is analyze them, and the reporter, something none of us really bargained for in the beginning. It's really gotten out of hand, and I, for one, am tired of his analysis of each individuals experience, as well as his continually reposting everything. And I hate poinsettias!

[Guest ncm2169]

RE: SHARE !

 

Am I the only person here who thinks Curious reminds of another peripatetic poster, JT? x(

[Guest ncm2169]

RE:Freud

 

< And I hate poinsettias

 

ROFLMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! }( }( }( }( }(

[Guest CURIOUS35]

>>

>Certo, sono italianissimo! ;-)

>I prefer some hair, and usually

>latinos are quite smooth...

>Lorenzo was (I bet he still is?...) a real HUNK!

>

>Ciao!

:):)

 

I was 99% positive you are Italian! And I am glad to have pinpointed your particular likes in men!

 

There are some saunas in Rome that could be a cruising place. Of course Italian men and boys would like money in exchange for sex -- they do so I think so as not to loose their masculine pride! They can always reason out that they were sucked or fucked in exchanged for money!

 

Dove abiti adesso?

 

:-) :-) :-) :-) :-)

[Guest CURIOUS35]

RE:Freud

 

I, for one, am

>tired of his analysis of each individuals experience, as well

>as his continually reposting everything. And I hate

>poinsettias!

 

 

:-) :-) :-) :-)

 

I am not analyzing anybody who post! I started the thread to start a conversation... Poster posts... I reply back!

 

It is just like reviving the art of conversation! We have lost the art a long time ago! No one stays any more for that cup of coffee or glass of wine that uusually starts a conversation

 

I did not intend to repost!

 

Far from it. Perhaps when I copy a sentence or two or a paragraph, I want to be sure that the poster knows I am replying to him not to another person! I guess, I believe I started the thread... I must make sure the poster knows I at least read it... I guess I have to say something rather than a curt -- read it duh!

 

You hate Poinsettias? I am sorry to hear that! For me Poinsettias are a symbol of Mexican Christmas! (here in the USA too I assume)

 

I just want to feel the mood... with all the problems in this country -- I like to think of holiday symbols to lighten the load and put me in the mood! I am sorry you hate Poinsettias! I hate Roses, but I can tolerate looking at it in a bridal reception... or in a junior senior prom corsage... I guess I learned how to accept the things I have no power to change! Especially if it pertains to other people! Will you learn to tolerate my love for Poinsettias? If you post with Roses, I am sure I would not mind!

 

By the way, I do love what you posted early in the thread... It shows you were interested in the thread! I am sure somewhere in the thread, you are able to be with the poster!

 

:-) :-) :-) :-)

[Guest CURIOUS35]

>Gee, thanks! I really needed that affirmation.

:-) :-) :-)

 

It was said with all candor and humility!

 

:-) :-) :-)

[Guest CURIOUS35]

RE:Freud

 

>< And I hate poinsettias

>

>ROFLMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! }( }( }( }( }(

 

 

 

:-) :-) :-)

I am glad you found a way to be happy!

 

My Poinsettias did it to you! With the help of a matter of fact revelation of course!

 

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[Guest CURIOUS35]

RE: SHARE !

 

>Am I the only person here who thinks Curious reminds of

>another peripatetic poster, JT? x(

:-) :-) :-) :-)

 

1peri·pa·tet·ic

Pronunciation: \ˌper-ə-pə-ˈte-tik\

Function: noun

Date: 15th century

1capitalized : a follower of Aristotle or adherent of Aristotelianism

 

Philosophy is a great subject of life and living! The latin school includes subjects that centers on understanding life, living, and human nature through rationalization!

 

Certainly, I try to think of everything before I open my mouth!

 

“An orator without judgment is a horse without a bridle”

Theophrastus quotes (Greek Peripatetic philosopher and pupil of Aristotle, 372-287bc)

 

I just noticed that NCM reads the thread and participates in giving his opinions... but in a sense not really participating! I wonder what his reason(s) is/are?

 

Oh well... the thread is open to everyone! Just keep the focus of the thread: One's First time experience with an escort!

 

Hopefully... he will one day share...

 

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[Guest ncm2169]

RE: SHARE !

 

Sorry, but this is getting weird beyond belief. x(

 

I'm sure you'll enjoy your party, curious, even if many of us decline your invitation. Look at it this way - you'll be the Center of your own Attention. It's apparent you are all the entertainment you need. }(

[Guest CURIOUS35]

RE: SHARE !

 

>Sorry, but this is getting weird beyond belief. x(

>

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So I must assume you don't want to contribute to the thread?

I am just curious... what was weird in the thread? The conversation was about first time experience with an escort... you find the topic weird? I must say, I do respect your opinion but do allow the others to express theirs.

 

May I know who are the we? It does bother my senses when one person says we-- reminds me of 15th century English monarchy! Does the phrase, "We are not amused!" tick you? Is it because of the we or the amused? Just asking... But back to the thread -- it is about one's first time experience with an escort!

 

If you are not interested and weirded beyond belief by the thread... I am just wondering why you keep coming back? Perhaps you wanted to share your experience, but for one reason or the other, you have decided to hold back! That is just an observation based on your comments, which personally _________!... Nothing personal!

 

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[+ bigjoey]

in feburary of 1991, i was flying home from europe and read the VANITY FAIR article on the GAIETY. i was going to be in new york for a week before continuing on my way and was determined to see the place. it walked up and down the block a few times before getting the courage to go inside. after bounding up the stairs and through the turnstyle, i entered and went to the right. i stayed pretty much in the back.

 

as one beautiful man after another came out, i could not believe what i was seeing. it was one fantasy after another. i was not sure why people were leaving and going into "the blue room". quickly, i saw that is where you went to talk to the dancers and i noticed the patrons leaving with the dancers. after one of the most beautiful men i had ever seen came out and did his performance, i went into the side room. i was frightened and nervous; i had been too nervious to tip him (i would have had to go down front and be in the bright light). so in the side room i went up to him and gave him a $20.00 tip; i said "you were the best dancer tonight" and turned around and fled the theater before he could say anything. he was all i could think about for the next day or so.

 

i went back in the afternoon a few days later and the show had not started. he was sitting on one of the risers and recognized me. he patted his hand on the empty space next to him for me to come and sit down. i was about to die from fright but i sat down and he said: "don't be nervous" and that put me at ease. i had no idea what exactly happened in a private but felt better when he told me that if we did a private, he was not into pain or scatt (i was relieved to know those options were off the table). the $150 price was fine with me and we went to his hotel, the milford plaza, and i had my first escort and gay sexual experience. he mentioned he was a "porn star". his name was corey evans. before going home, i went to a video store and bought a few of his films.

 

over the next few months, i kept viewing the films and could only think of our time together. i kept looking at the village voice to see who was there that week and when i saw his name, i made a quick trip back to new york. i got there on a thursday and was not going back home until sunday night. as i was going to the gaiety, i saw him on the sidewalk and followed him into the theater. i went up to him and we talked a bit and i hired him for a private after the next show. instead of going back to his room and having sex, i told him i wanted to go to dinner and just talk. he did not care as long as i was paying. i told him that our first meeting was my first time and i was impressed by him and i wanted to hire him to be my "teacher". i asked to hire him for all of his openings until i had to go back home. we were together multiple times in the next few days and i was in heaven.

 

i called him up and had him coming back to the midwest once a month for the next year with a few trips to hawaii or las vegas. the weekends were especially memorable.

 

the downfall was that he was "gay for pay" and i could tell he was really having a hard time with the sex i wanted. i told him i really needed to be with a gay man who could enjoy not just the companionship but the sex as well. after a year, i moved on to some gay escorts and we stayed friends a few years and visited a few times.

[Guest CURIOUS35]

he was all i could think about for the next day or so.

 

 

:-) :-) :-) :-)

 

Your story although differing a little bit from mine shows the same excitement, trepidations and funny moments!

 

When you wrote, "he was all i could think about for the next day or so..." I know what you wanted to say. I did have the same feeling after meeting Casey! I can still feel the scene we had together for the first time and I am sure you have the same perspective.

 

You said he was gay for pay! I must confess I have the desire to have sex with straight men... they are a challenge to me. Deep inside I wanted them to enjoy sex with me... Maybe they do and maybe they don't... only they could tell!

 

Gaity! I remember sneaking out of that big hotel nearby, and going to that theater! I think the $150.00 per private was the norm at that time... I was propositioned 4 times the first time I went there -- I was so nervous... I often went to the men's room!

 

I am so glad to you shared your experience... Thank you

[Guest CURIOUS35]

RE: SHARE !

 

>Sorry, but this is getting weird beyond belief. x(

>

>I'm sure you'll enjoy your party, curious, even if many of us

>decline your invitation. Look at it this way - you'll be the

>Center of your own Attention. It's apparent you are all the

>entertainment you need. }(

 

 

:-) :-) :-) :-)

 

I can not help but notice your use of emoticons: the :-( and the x( ...You never seem to genuinely smile...

 

After reading your postings and threads, (there I read postings and threads here like you!) I am surmising a lot! Perhaps remembering your first positve experience... not necessaruily your first experience with an escort would bring a to your heart!

 

Believe me this is said without malice...I am just concerend! You seem to vacillate in your feelings towards escorts -- in a thread you try to help them launch their careers, BUT when we talk about first time experience with escorts, you claim it weirds you out? WHY? Just asking!

 

 

 

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[+ Charlie]

I'm with ncm on this one: the schoolmarmish tone of your posts in this thread invites sarcasm.

 

"Now, Johnny, I'm sure you have an interesting things to tell us about your summer vacation on the farm, especially about what you experienced in the barn. Why don't you come up here and tell the class about it?"

 

Johnny slouches to the front of the room and mutters for a few minutes.

 

"Now, that wasn't so hard, was it? And I'm sure we all learned a lot about relationships with older farmhands, who are like the middle managers we will have to learn to get along with in our future office jobs, when they make odd requests of us. Well, who wants to go next? Billy?"

[Guest CURIOUS35]

>The schoolmarmish tone of your >posts in this thread invites sarcasm.

 

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I write the way I speak...I am a very passionate person... I admitted to the fact that once upon a time I was a school marm (I use the term 'marm', to describe my spinster teacher in high school -- why I said it with the warmest of intentions! I hope you have the same intention when you used it in that sentence!

 

I remember Truman Capote said in an interview once... (that) he gives a little to induce a little something from the other person!

 

If you think I remind you of your school teacher, who heaven knows must have molded your personality(?) ...then I must say -- go to the center of the chat room and bring out the best in you! --- How was your first experience with an escort?

 

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[Guest zipperzone]

RE: SHARE !

 

>Am I the only person here who thinks Curious reminds of

>another peripatetic poster, JT? x(

 

I hate it when people use words I have to look up.

[+ bigjoey]

some "straight" men might enjoy sex with a male; in corey evans' case, i could tell he was having a problem with it and not enjoying it. like you i do want the escort to have some enjoyment or at least act that way. corey was not that good an actor and toward the end of our "escort time" just broke down crying about how hard it was for him. as i said, we stayed friendly for a few years after that but there was no sex.

 

i see three escorts on a regular basis, now. one is gay and loves sex; a great combo. a second is bi and loves sex and seems to really enjoy men as i have been with him when he picked up other men for sex on his own time (no charge); the third escort is "straight" and really prefers women BUT he likes the activities we do and in many ways prefers me to women.

 

this third escort and i are very close and in talking about "straight/gay/bi" says he does not know what he is and really does not like the classification thing at all. he likes the way we "make love" together and would love to find a woman who can do the things we do in addition to him having intercourse with her. he has been married twice and has a child that he adores. he really wants to meet a woman who can take care of all his sexual needs but has not been successful. until then, he enjoys our "man-to-man" sex and there is no acting. he is a sweet person with a good personality and very handsome with a huge dick; his complaint is that most women just want him to fuck them and use him for sex with no real love making.

 

much has been said about "chemistry" on this board and that often resulting in a good or bad escort encounter. this third "straight" escort and i had great "chemistry" from our first encounter. he was a gaiety dancer who was very popular but was known for no kissing or being very "ineractive"; as i was crazy about his great looks and huge dick (i was still a size-queen at that point) i hired him anyway. it turned out with me he was interactive with kissing and giving me an unheard of blow job. there was just something special about us from the start. i have been seeing him regularly for 5 or 6 years (he is "retired" and does not advertise but still does an occasional client he knew fronm the old days).

 

in summmary, i would say in rare cases, if "chemistry" is there, a gay man and a straight man can enjoy a sexual relationship. however, that is fairly rare.

[Guest CURIOUS35]

>some "straight" men might enjoy sex with a male;

 

After many escapades with some straight men, I must agree with your observation!

 

>i see three escorts on a regular basis, now. one is gay and

>loves sex; a great combo. a second is bi and loves sex and

>seems to really enjoy men as i have been with him when he

>picked up other men for sex on his own time (no charge); the

>third escort is "straight" and really prefers women BUT he

>likes the activities we do and in many ways prefers me to

>women.

 

You floored me with that revelation. You must be my twin. I have the same arrangements. Although i would still hire new escorts who click my buzzer!

 

>much has been said about "chemistry" on this board >

>in summmary, i would say in rare cases, if "chemistry" is

>there, a gay man and a straight man can enjoy a sexual

>relationship. however, that is fairly rare.

 

That was right on the money! Any relationship: sexual or non sexual... straight or gay... whenever there is a relationship between people --- CHEMISTRY plays a good part!

 

I should say our first encounter with escorts proved to be 'successful' (or so I think!) because we had chemistry w our respective escorts!

 

This is not the norm though... and the thread is proving it.

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[+ Charlie]

Sorry, teacher, but you appear not to have noticed that I already handed in that assignment and you graded it.

[Guest CURIOUS35]

>Sorry, teacher, but you appear not to have noticed that I

>already handed in that assignment and you graded it.

 

 

:-) :-) :-) :-)

 

Being graded or judge so to speak on your experience by another person is not a norm!

 

Your experience is your own! If you relate it to someone, that someone in essence should relive what you have done... thats the whole point of the thread.

 

As for you thinking I did not notice you did relate your first experience... You are wrong... I knew! But the rhetorical question was to lead you back to the thread... it seems you were sideswept --- sorry for the misunderstanding!

 

:-) :-) :-) :-)

[Guest CURIOUS35]

RE:Freud

 

http://wilstar.com/xmas/xmasgarl.gif

 

 

and I hate poinsettias!

 

 

:-) :-) :-) :-)

 

You know what... I think I will change my Christmas symbol for everybody!

 

 

I found a better place for my poinsettias to be appreciated! it will go to the Christmas dining table!

 

I found a better symbol to celebrate the holidays! I hope everyone gets the spirit!

 

My intentions are clean and pure... I want a dialogue with posters here! I never intended to pursue bitchiness or bickerings.

 

Please take the thread as it is-- a talk if you want... or about, "your experience with hirng your first escort!"

 

I want you to know I reply to postings... just like a normal person having a conversation with friends...

 

I do not bitch or curse and will not stoop to the level of some posters. The community is such a prolific and gifted one... all it needs is the proper dialogue.

 

So! that said... I am inviting the on lookers to participate... Enjoy the postings and take it for what it is -- a web dialogue!

 

I am a peaceful man and I am sure you are too! PEACE!