411 on BamaBoyToy in Nashville

[former lurker]

Why is that not a good sign? I wanted to incorporate my nickname given to me because I say Boss all the time. I am interested, so based on your perspective it is a bad sign. Why is that if you don't care to explain? I'm fascinated by other people's opinions that's why I ask, as human beings we sometimes over dramatize things and make life more complicated than it has to be, so psychology intrigues me and I like to dig deeper to see why that person(s) feels a certain way. Sometimes it has merit and other times it does not. For example if you planted 2 trees in your front yard and 1 of them was a dog wood and the other was a magnolia tree and your neighbor said that's not a good combination, instead of getting frustrated or resorting back to my human ways of letting emotions take over I simply ask what combination would be good and have them explain why my combination wasnt good to them. In the end everyone is different and we have a difference in opinion BUT if you try to understand the WHY behind everything then you can understand people a little more. You do not have to agree, still get along and respect the other person perspective. I love the fact we all have a different opinion, it brings variety and spunk to the table.

 

If you become a regular reading on this forum, you'll discover that there are certain "triggers" that many posters jump on to infer all sorts of things. Changing names of escorts is one such trigger. Many regular posters assume that a name change is the escort's way of distancing himself from a bad review. I think that assumption is often erroneous as there are many reasons an escort may change names (he goes into porn, for example, and wants to be recognized so he changes to his porn name, or he uses a different name for a different website as a means of tracking which sites prompt business, etc.). In your case, you already explained part of the reasons for changing names (clients assumed you were located in Alabama rather than Nashville).

 

I hope that helps to answer your question.

[gallahadesquire]

Both of his ads are offline now

[rvwnsd]

Why is that not a good sign? I wanted to incorporate my nickname given to me because I say Boss all the time. I am interested, so based on your perspective it is a bad sign. Why is that if you don't care to explain? ...

 

First, welcome to the Forum. Kudos to you for explaining why you changed your RM name a couple of times. Although @former lurker is right, one or more name changes might be completely neutral, we have seen many instances of escorts changing their names in an attempt to distance themselves from bad reviews or feedback on the Forum. Recently, a guy was changing his RM name almost hourly. Another escort harasses clients and then changes his RM name. I can think of at least three other escorts who were discussed in the forum and immediately changed their escort names. Sad to say, the number of questionable name changes outweighs the number of legitimate ones like yours.

 

Hope that addresses your question.

[BabyBoomer]

Both of his ads are offline now

 

Here's a link to his latest ad.

 

https://rentmen.eu/AceOfSpadesBoss

 

~Boomer~

[instudiocity]

It’s a part of branding. You want to build a good reputation with your nom de escort so that you can build word of mouth about your services, professionalism and adaptability.

 

Escorts who change their name like their under britches are running from a bad something: reputation, happening, service report.

 

On the contrary, I’ve seen escorts maligned on this forum who kept doing what they did best and have built? rebuilt? their reps.

 

By your name you will be a known escort with some following. I liked BsmaBoyToy because, I’m from Alabama, too.

Edited January 10, 2020 by instudiocity

[+ Keith30309]

I wonder if perhaps there is a distinction between a little fine-tuning of a relatively new profile with no negative experiential reviews versus some of the year-over-year churning thru a succession of identities to elude consistently negative reports folks have observed?

[BamaBoyToy]

Well gentlemen I appreciate you explaining that to me. I was unaware of that.. So I'll be the AceOfSpadesBoss until my business is up and running and then I'm not going to do this service as much ? only for my people I have already established a connection with. Now with that being said that's going to be a little while before I can financially do that. I applaud you guys for taking the time out to write them educational posts for me as any suggestions are greatly appreciated and respected. I used to be a store manager for Walmart so I do understand brand building (I live by Sam Waltons views when it comes to business) I just had no idea that could affect it but I am super thankful that I have yall here to educate me. I am a leader in my normal career and a good leader knows that they can learn something from everyone. I try to learn from each person I encounter. Anything yall think can help me please dont hesitate to let me know, yall can text or call me as well and I'll greatly appreciate the time you took to help me succeed.. All of my money is going to hotels and my business idea but it's not enough so I need to really push it to make this happen for myself and my associates that are following my dream with me. I have a lot of respect and appreciation for all of you!!

[+ poolboy48220]

The guys who responded (@former lurker , @rvwnsd , @instudiocity ) said everything I would have said as to why I thought the name changes were a bad sign.

[BamaBoyToy]

Hey studs.... I have not heard from any of yall sexy guys, how is everyone doing out there? I did go to the Celine Dion concert lastnight here in Nashville and I have to say for my first concert to ever have went to it was amazing!! Next is Garth Brooks my most favorite singer and also hopefully someday soon my husband ???.. So what have yall been up to??

[former lurker]

I'm enjoying your posts stud. Nice to see the personality that goes along with the good looks. Although not the first concert I attended, I'll never forget seeing Madonna at Madison Square Garden in New York. She put on a hell of a show. I've seen a lot of other concerts where the music was the gist of the show. With Madonna it's the dancing, the dancers, the costume changes, and the sheer spectacle. I went to the concert with a friend from out of town. After, we went to a coffee shop in Chelsea, the heart of gay Manhattan, and were surrounded by guys who had been at the show gushing about it.

[BSR]

Hey studs.... I have not heard from any of yall sexy guys, how is everyone doing out there? I did go to the Celine Dion concert lastnight here in Nashville and I have to say for my first concert to ever have went to it was amazing!! Next is Garth Brooks my most favorite singer and also hopefully someday soon my husband ???.. So what have yall been up to??

 

A while back I won a couple of Celine tickets in a raffle. I was thinking of selling them since I had no interest in seeing her, but my mom said she'd like to go. OK, so Mom & I went to the Colosseum and ... OMG! she is unbelievable in concert. Even though I can't say I'm a big fan of her songs, her voice is simply spectacular. Glad to hear you enjoyed it.

[+ azdr0710]

thanks for your posts here @BamaBoyToy .....have fun and don't take it seriously!

[Todd Jenkins]

Just as @BSR states: not a huge fan, i like her music but thats about all. Not drooling to see her in concert. But, I can agree with BSR, one of the BEST concerts I have been to. She is really amazing and it's something special to hear those iconic songs being sung LIVE!

 

A while back I won a couple of Celine tickets in a raffle. I was thinking of selling them since I had no interest in seeing her, but my mom said she'd like to go. OK, so Mom & I went to the Colosseum and ... OMG! she is unbelievable in concert. Even though I can't say I'm a big fan of her songs, her voice is simply spectacular. Glad to hear you enjoyed it.

[former lurker]

Just as @BSR states: not a huge fan, i like her music but thats about all. Not drooling to see her in concert. But, I can agree with BSR, one of the BEST concerts I have been to. She is really amazing and it's something special to hear those iconic songs being sung LIVE!

 

She's not my cup of tea, either, but she has some pipes to be sure. If you're friendly with a French Canadian, take him/her to a Celine concert. She's epic in that community.

 

For me, I'd love to attend any concert with the gent who started this thread. I suspect his enthusiasm would be infectious. Plus, he's hot.

[BamaBoyToy]

Alright alright now yall are too quiet up in here.. Let's get some conversations going!!! If you could ask me 1 thing what would that be? I will answer anything at all I am very transparent.

[former lurker]

I'll bite. What's your favorite thing to do?

[+ Pensant]

What size boots do you wear?

[Jomo]

You on the top or bottom bunk?

[+ azdr0710]

reposting his ad link since it's now buried somewhere upthread.....

 

https://rentmen.eu/AceOfSpadesBoss

[BamaBoyToy]

I'll bite. What's your favorite thing to do?

 

 

My most favorite thing to do, you...lol.. JK JK ? naw I love to fish and relax with good mature adults and enjoy our time and company. The perfect day to me is being on the river with some like minded people.

[BamaBoyToy]

What size boots do you wear?

 

 

I wear 11D.... notice the D at the end ??

[BamaBoyToy]

You on the top or bottom bunk?

 

 

I like to switch it up it adds experience and know how when you utilize everything you have ?

[BamaBoyToy]

reposting his ad link since it's now buried somewhere upthread.....

 

https://rentmen.eu/AceOfSpadesBoss

 

 

Thank you bossman I appreciate yall that do all of this because you guys are amazing......

[former lurker]

reposting his ad link since it's now buried somewhere upthread.....

 

https://rentmen.eu/AceOfSpadesBoss

 

Looks like he's removed the pics with the array of toys from the ad. I hope that's not because of the comments in this thread. Personally, I like it when an escort shows you more of an array of what he'll provide.

My most favorite thing to do, you...lol.. JK JK ? naw I love to fish and relax with good mature adults and enjoy our time and company. The perfect day to me is being on the river with some like minded people.

 

Bring the high-SPF sun lotion and I'll hang out with you on the water any day. I'm not an experienced fisherman, but have enjoyed every fishing trip I've even been on.

[former lurker]

My most favorite thing to do, you...lol.. JK JK ? naw I love to fish and relax with good mature adults and enjoy our time and company. The perfect day to me is being on the river with some like minded people.

 

Oh, and the "you" bit is endearing. It shows you can both be the laid-back Southern guy into fishing, country music, guns, etc., and be a big ole flirt. It works!