Escorts who don't respond

[+ Tygerscent]

Communication can be a barrier at times. I Know that I am not able to respond quickly at times. ie... packing in evening , head to airport at 3am for flight at 6am. In the air anywhere from two to 12 hours. Reach my destination and if with Client, TURN OFF MY PHONE and am not on computer during my time with him. He/they do not pay me to be talking to other Clients via email or cell... while with him/them my time is his time and my focus is him.

If not with client, I may be traveling to my accommodations and maybe eat or take a dump~

Chances are that if I am traveling I am also doing so for some kind of work, Client, film, photo... all three of those mean that while in those situations I am not on the phone or computer.

Any traveling Escort has the challenge of establishing an office where ever he is. If you are driving, chances are you will not have email readily available and may or may be in a cell phone range. If you are flying neither is available on the plane. If on subway or train the same applies. Boats as well...

Then there is the time zone thing. I can be east coast or west coast and no matter which one I am on, someone from the opposite coast is wanting to call or write. That three hour time difference can cause difficulties. I won't even bring up international issues. Then there is the scenario where Clients are at their day job.

Imagine Escorts calling Clients while they are at work expecting them to come out of meetings to talk to them, have phone sex, talk dirty or about what they get into while their workmates are near by. Maybe a hot Fantasy but generally found inappropriate. I don't do that in my workplaces either.

So all kinds of things come into play. Cell phones and email opened up Escorting to a Global market. The advantages is that people are accessible to each other all over the world. The down falls are that we don't spend our entire day at the computer or cell phone talking to people and communicating with the larger number of people contacting us all the time. Sometimes we are with those people or at our prospective jobs working on other things, eating dinner, showering, packing, sleeping, working out, pooping~

Clients will be looking for multiple potential Escorts who are available to their time schedule or offer a good rate or are the next hot item while Escorts are talking to multiple Clients in case their scheduled Client cancels, finds a boi they like better, gets, sick, travel plans change... blah blah blah...

neither Escorts nor Clients have secretaries who are taking their calls from each other and working out their scheduled time. Agencies may provide this service, I don't know how that works since I don't work for an agency.

Those points may seem silly but they are part of the process and some patiece is required and you do the best you can.

It's less of a situation that soeone is being a bad Escort or bad Client and more often a case of schedules and time zones and large volumes of people all trying to call and write to each other.

I find that Clients who work and/or travel are most understanding of these things and are more relaxed about it while guysd who don't work or are retired and have more time on their hands seem to get most frustrated.

I seem to noitce a pattern on the board where new Escorts come onto the scene. They become more popular and then get good press on the board. Then some time passes and you start to hear complaints about the Escort... "unreliable communication/flake/bad Escort"

Well... perhaps he's a busy Escort who travels now. Not a bad Escort but one who has the challenges of being his own business manager and traveling or working a regular day job or in school.

Global Escorting in the scale that it exists today is what... 15, 20 years old at best? We are still trying to figure out what works and how to be more efficient. We are still learning the rules and how to deal with these new situations.

The process of Escorting and Hiring is "in Process" so, it doesn't seem justifiable to criticise the Client or Escort for faults in the "process" and calling them personal character blemishes.

If you have an ipod or stereo or cell phone and the reception just sucks, you can't get good sound on it, nothing will download at all or fast enough, you don't blame the artist of the music you are trying to listen to. Sometimes we have the technology but really moving so fast into it that we have not perfected efficient methods for using it.

I try not to get into the negative thinking of, "Oh, that person is lazy, unresponsible, doesn't want to talk to me"... maybe they are at a funeral, wedding, work, traveling... I simply persist and excercise some patience.

It would be intersting to see the statistics for the number of Clients hiring or in metting in comparison to the number of Escorts working and looking for work. This is a business like any other in some general respect and supply and demand probably play a role.

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[Guest josephga]

as a massage guy im all about the phone. I have a auto response set up on my email that sends out a brief introduction with my number attached for them to call.

[DaninWA]

I travel 3 weeks a month for business and receive upwards of 100 emails a day, plus a large number of phone calls. Every business-related email or phone call gets a response within 24 hours. Personal contacts may take longer for my response, but my friends and family are aware of that.

 

Certainly there are people who receive far more emails and phone calls than I do. There are ways to handle an abundance like that. The only reasons (barring illness, injury, or death) I can think of for a businessperson to not respond to clients at all or in a timely fashion are that he does not want the business and/or lacks courtesy.

 

Dan

[Rick Munroe]

> If you have an ipod or stereo or cell phone and the reception

>just sucks, you can't get good sound on it, nothing will

>download at all or fast enough, you don't blame the artist of

>the music you are trying to listen to.

 

Unless it's Britney.

[Rod Hagen]

>I agree that it's very annoying. As a working stiff, I can't

>just give the escort my cell number and have him call me at

>his convenience.

 

This got me thinking. Is it acceptable for escorts to accept an appointment on the condition that the client must provide him with a working number in case of emergency? Is that a reasonable condition?

[Guest josephga]

I get a few emails a week from guys wanting to book massages that wont give me a working contact number. and they don't get an appointment either.. Some say they need to be discreet. they don't want discreet they want to be anonymous. to me trust is a 2 way street. discreet to me means i have the info and you trust that i wont give it out. anonymous means no record of you existing. I work from my home and anyone who cant trust me with a simple phone number are not welcome in my home. those who do not trust are untrust worthy imo..

[DaninWA]

Yes, that is reasonable.

[Louis]

A few working boys in Toronto asked my for my phone number, and would then call me. They just wanted to chat over the phone before meeting me in person, and I really appreciated it...:-)

[Guest]

>You prefer email but after reading on this site last spring of

>your disappointment with me, I emailed to offer a sincere

>apology and a seriously discounted redo on our somewhat

>flubbed appointment, and I didn't hear "accepted" or "not

>accepted", "yes" or "no" from you.

>

Are you a little touched? I think I explained that it wasn't I who hired you. I haven't even been to Los Angeles in three years (and I didn't hire you then, either). As for my not responding to you in a thread, I don't necessarily repeatedly look at every thread I contribute to. Especially when I'm out of town as I was the week of the 7th. It's an escort's business to answer his e-mails. That's part of your job. It's not my responsibility to answer threads fishing for who might have written a bad review. I'm sorry you didn't figure out who it was who you disappointed last Spring.

[Rod Hagen]

> I think I explained that it wasn't

>I who hired you. I haven't even been to Los Angeles in three

>years (and I didn't hire you then, either).

 

Sorry, I thought you said somewhere on this board that we got together at that time (two springs ago) but it didn't go well enough. Apparently, I was wrong. No problem. Sorry. RH

[MiamiLooker]

>> I think I explained that it wasn't

>>I who hired you. I haven't even been to Los Angeles in

>three

>>years (and I didn't hire you then, either).

>

>Sorry, I thought you said somewhere on this board that we got

>together at that time (two springs ago) but it didn't go well

>enough. Apparently, I was wrong. No problem. Sorry. RH

 

 

 

You're not mistaken:

 

http://mc.daddysreviews.com/dcboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=7&topic_id=61532&mesg_id=61532&listing_type=search

[Rod Hagen]

>You're not mistaken:

>

>http://mc.daddysreviews.com/dcboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=7&topic_id=61532&mesg_id=61532&listing_type=search

 

Thanks Miami, but it may have been longer ago than I thought.

 

If you did hire me Unicorn, and the appointment didn't go well, regardless of when it was, I apologize and the offer still stands. I'd like to make it up/for less. If not, take care.

[Guest]

It was a good five years ago...