Who makes the first move?

[Ghadd]

I'm so bad at small talk that the less I have to do it, the better it is for everyone...

 

But really, I already have conversations at home, so I'd rather if we get into the fun stuff right away. So that's what I ask for: I would prefer if the action started soon after removing my shoes (or them theirs), then the session can be filled cuddling and chatting at the end. Works very well.

 

Communication!

[spider]

5 minutes small talk, then my lips over there’s, tongue in the mouth, shirts and pants/shorts off, dick sucking, nipple play, ass licking then fucking or sucking only.

 

You know it’s been good when your nips hurt the next day.

[Chad Constantine]

For me it is very weird because I totally lose track of time which isnt always a good thing. So sometimes if we start talking in the beginning and I am enjoying the conversation then I really dont want to stop talking then the end comes fast and im like god dammit. Then there are times that I get really bored and either get really angry or play the make him cum fast game and if we talk afterwards we talk or if I am really angry I just leave. The last is probably the best where we talk a little in the beginning I never get bored and then I am trying to hold off or just purring. After that they have usually peaked my curiosity because they just amazed me and I cant stop talking and have to apologize for talking their ear off.

[Trick]

Lol....pm sent and bet you a blowjob I met the second

 

I owe you a blowjob.

 

The first one not only talked a lot, he faked an orgasm when I was with him. Boy, he was loud!

[alexslaveboy]

You know it’s been good when your nips hurt the next day.

 

LOL

A couple times I woke up the next day and my entire body was sore....in a good way....after being manhandled by a bigger stronger muscle guy ??????

[ScottyTX100]

It’s all about the sex. I don’t care to get to know them. If they don’t make the first move, I do....and it’s never more than a couple minutes after walking in the door.

[+ JEC]

I jump right in, time is money! I generally kiss the provider the second we're alone. In part, I do this to make sure it's not a sting operation....and it also breaks the ice. I don't want to talk about sex, money or anything else until that kiss has happened. If you are nervous or uncomfortable making the first move, tell your provider that up front.

[jawjateck]

but by the stories here maybe I should step on the gas a bit more at the beginning. Hmm...

 

Step on the gas, babe! Anyone who has met you would have no problem cuddling away the rest of the time with you.

[jawjateck]

but i don't mind if they start it, i've been fantasizing lately about someone just grabbing me and pulling me in for a big kiss from the very start

 

That's my specialty.

[oboeadam]

Slight question for those that get right to it.

I always feel worried that clients would feel slighted if the hot action leads to the big finish before the hour comes up. Not in a rush out the door way, but a so damn hot to last way for both parties. Maybe still spend the remaining time cuddling and talking. I always feel pressure to make the hour last as long as possible before finishing, but by the stories here maybe I should step on the gas a bit more at the beginning. Hmm...

This would never bother me. If the action was good, we are both satisfied and it's been less than an hour then I don't expect the escort to stick around, although I'm sure there's a variety of opinions when it comes to this.

[surferguy]

In my very first true hire of a guy from a web site about 6 years ago I picked a “porn star” figuring he would know what to do. He knew exactly what to do.

 

I sat on a sofa in his living room and he in an overstuffed chair about 10 feet away. It was to be a 2-hour meeting and he talked for over an hour and half. He talked non-stop about everything under the sun: his days as a flight attendant, real estate, politics, etc. With about 15 minutes left he stood up “well, out time is about up. Why don’t we get back together for some fun.”

I foolishly booked another 2-hours and the exact same thing happened. I didn’t know how “this stuff” was supposed to work and didn’t know what to do. (He is still on RentMen in Atlanta and still advertising as a porn star.)

 

I do like to chat and get acquainted with someone I’ve never met, including in my Seekingarrangement days, but learned to begin some physical contact immediately - a big hug and kiss. Then chatting with a light touch to the forearm... resting a hand on the shoulder.. “do you mind if I kiss you”, etc. I have found myself still yapping away after 30 minutes but that’s my fault. And then move to “shall we get more comfortable” pretty quickly. If I’m getting a vibe that’s anything but enthusiastic I suggest that we schedule for a time when he’s more comfortable.

 

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[thickornotatall]

After he comes in I offer water or something to drink....Then I get close...touch his crotch gently and ask...what did you bring me?

[Realalist]

This would never bother me. If the action was good, we are both satisfied and it's been less than an hour then I don't expect the escort to stick around, although I'm sure there's a variety of opinions when it comes to this.

Agreed. Everyone is different but I want to get right to it and out the door shortly after climax.

[DallasClient]

Since I almost always host, I will offer a bottled water or cocktail, visit for a few minutes just to get comfortable. I will usually ask what part of the city they live in as I can usually talk about places to eat or something in that area, then I suggest we head to the bedroom. Always works!

 

I have a question though, if, during this small-talk, you notice their breath is offensive, what do you do? I keep pre-pasted, disposable toothbrushes in a basket by the sink and have pointed them out but the few guys who needed them never took the hint.

[KnoddingHead]

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Wow.. Ayden is a cutie! and a chatter? hmmmm

[thickornotatall]

Since I almost always host, I will offer a bottled water or cocktail, visit for a few minutes just to get comfortable. I will usually ask what part of the city they live in as I can usually talk about places to eat or something in that area, then I suggest we head to the bedroom. Always works!

 

I have a question though, if, during this small-talk, you notice their breath is offensive, what do you do? I keep pre-pasted, disposable toothbrushes in a basket by the sink and have pointed them out but the few guys who needed them never took the hint.

How about...."let's bush our teeth together"...I had (garlic) or whatever...bad breath will not work....deal breaker....boner killer..