First timer recommendations in NYC area

WallaDude · September 9, 2019

Over a year ago I lost my husband, and I think I'm ready to get back out there. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I do acknowledge that I need dick.

Because I haven't had sex in over 2 years and haven't been with anyone but my man for almost 20, I'm hoping that hiring an attentive pro might make the transition a little easier...

Wishlist:

Tall (6'-ish)

Not a silver daddy, but def not a twink

Hairy

Skilled and gentle top (haven't bottomed in a VERY long time)

Kisser (required)

Uncut (not required)

Most important - a nice dude (I'm VERY nervous, and yes - hard, just thinking about this new adventure)

Any pointers would be greatly appreciated.

Strafe13 · September 9, 2019

I haven't been with the first 2 of the guys below, but based on their reviews and forum discussions, I'd guess that they fit the bill for what you seek.

https://rent.men/thedudenextdoor

https://rent.men/MikeAustin

https://rent.men/HungBNYC

I actually met with Brian (HungB) earlier this year. He's not, in my opinion, a twink, although others could view him that way due to his thin build and relative youth (listed age is 30). I found him to be very sweet and gentle, despite his size (not humongous, but well above average). He's quite tall (about 6'5") and lists kissing and being affectionate among his interests and attributes.

Geriatric Otter · September 9, 2019

Over a year ago I lost my husband, and I think I'm ready to get back out there. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I do acknowledge that I need dick.
Because I haven't had sex in over 2 years and haven't been with anyone but my man for almost 20, I'm hoping that hiring an attentive pro might make the transition a little easier...
Wishlist:
Tall (6'-ish)
Not a silver daddy, but def not a twink
Hairy
Skilled and gentle top (haven't bottomed in a VERY long time)
Kisser (required)
Uncut (not required)
Most important - a nice dude (I'm VERY nervous, and yes - hard, just thinking about this new adventure)

Any pointers would be greatly appreciated.

Mike Austin is fun to be with, but not hairy. Might try William Ericsson...very furry. Cord is a silver dad, but experienced and great kisser. In town this week and next: Allen Silver, Mike Gaite and Beefmusclexxx...all I've known for years....

stop · September 10, 2019

I haven't been with the first 2 of the guys below, but based on their reviews and forum discussions, I'd guess that they fit the bill for what you seek.

https://rent.men/thedudenextdoor
https://rent.men/MikeAustin
https://rent.men/HungBNYC

I actually met with Brian (HungB) earlier this year. He's not, in my opinion, a twink, although others could view him that way due to his thin build and relative youth (listed age is 30). I found him to be very sweet and gentle, despite his size (not humongous, but well above average). He's quite tall (about 6'5") and lists kissing and being affectionate among his interests and attributes.

i can second Brian. He is very sexy and an all around nice guy. great kisser.

Strafe13 · September 10, 2019

i can second Brian. He is very sexy and an all around nice guy. great kisser.

I concur that Brian is a great kisser. I was wary of speaking too much in the 1st person in describing him, lest I get flagged for posting a review in the forum.

Someone mentioned Victor Racek earlier. I think Victor Racek is super sexy, but discussions on these boards leave me with the impression that he's not exactly affectionate, nor an enthusiastic kisser. I've never met him though.

Strafe13 · September 10, 2019

Mike Austin is fun to be with, but not hairy. Might try William Ericsson...very furry. Cord is a silver dad, but experienced and great kisser. In town this week and next: Allen Silver, Mike Gaite and Beefmusclexxx...all I've known for years....

Mike Austin's newer pics on his RM ad show him as unclipped and display a decent amount of body hair. He's not a bear by any means, but I wouldn't say that hairy is an incorrect description either.

I believe a recent thread indicated that William Ericsson's ad had vanished again. He is very hairy, affectionate, and into kissing. He'd be perfect for what the OP seeks, if he's still active. I would have recommended William if I thought he was still in the biz.

I've never met with Cord, but his ad makes for a rather attractive overall package. I'd love to see him myself, and the OP may wish to give him a try. I don't recall any forum discussions about Cord, though, so that's why I didn't recommend him. I'm glad others here also find him sexy.

Geriatric Otter · September 10, 2019

Mike Austin's newer pics on his RM ad show him as unclipped and display a decent amount of body hair. He's not a bear by any means, but I wouldn't say that hairy is an incorrect description either.

I believe a recent thread indicated that William Ericsson's ad had vanished again. He is very hairy, affectionate, and into kissing. He'd be perfect for what the OP seeks, if he's still active. I would have recommended William if I thought he was still in the biz.

I've never met with Cord, but his ad makes for a rather attractive overall package. I'd love to see him myself, and the OP may wish to give him a try. I don't recall any forum discussions about Cord, though, so that's why I didn't recommend him. I'm glad others here also find him sexy.

I don’t realize William went on another sabbatical. Hope he returns. Cord is a keeper for sure. Very sexy and enthusiastic.

Strafe13 · September 10, 2019

I don’t realize William went on another sabbatical. Hope he returns. Cord is a keeper for sure. Very sexy and enthusiastic.

FYI, Cord's ad is here: https://rent.men/Cord

mike carey · September 10, 2019

I would second the recommendation in post no 2 above or https://rent.men/thedudenextdoor, Eric Hassan. He is a regular at the Palm Springs weekends so many of us have had the opportunity to chat with him around the pool.

Treehorn · September 11, 2019

I'll third Eric Hassan/Dude Next Door. One of the nicest guys and I think fits the bill completely for what you are looking for. in addition to his rent.men listing, he has his own site, http://erichassan.com/about/ that gives a lot of information and a better picture of who he is and what he offers.

rvwnsd · September 11, 2019

@WallaDude, as soon as I saw your post I thought @Eric Hassan. Tons of fun, very furry, nice body, and a VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY nice man.

WallaDude · September 11, 2019

Thank you all for the thoughtful input, can't thank you enough

Andy2 · September 11, 2019

You might consider Ares/Apollo, who is probably in his 30s, very handsome, and a wonderful lover and person. I think he resembles Chris Reeve

https://rent.men/AresApollo

+ *JEC* · September 11, 2019

Great reviews too about @tristanbaldwin who visits NYC regularly. I've not met him (2 tops just don't work LOL) but follow him. He has some non-porn vids posted on Twitter you can get a sense of his "vibe". Good luck, and deeply sorry for your loss....glad you are healing to a point you are looking to connect with others again, it's a good sign don't think for a minute otherwise.

Skip · September 11, 2019

https://rent.men/BRUCE_BECKHAM

He's a great guy. Fun to be with and interesting.

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