Local vs Visitor pros and cons

[adventurous old guy]

I've thought about this and wonder what others think and do. Don't think I've seen it discussed.

 

I travel a lot, and hire when visiting other cities. Sometimes I hire local denizens, and like that because I can build longer term arrangements as I come and go to that town. Also, when I hire a visitor I get the impression he's dealing with making enough to cover travel expenses, so has added pressure to see as many clients as possible and to cut costs. Had an experience where I could tell there were at least two, maybe three, different service providers sharing the same hotel room -- there were 2 guys waiting on the steps outside for me to leave, and neither of them looked like a client -- and it was a dump to begin with! Can barely imagine how gross that bed linen was! Of course the visitors make it possible to see people from places that aren't on my travel itinerary, a definite pro there.

 

Have also learned to only do in calls at my hotel, where I KNOW who has been between the sheets.

 

Thoughts, other lessons learned, advice?

Edited September 3, 2019 by adventurous old guy

[cany10011]

I love the variety of traveling escorts and enjoy different guys when i travel, but also enjoy the regular consistency and dependability of establishing a working relationship with local talents. Prefer to host as I know the sheets and towels are clean... although i hate the cleaning aspect...lol.

 

I see my 2 regular guys weekly and intersperse with the occasional traveling guy on off days. Yes, that is a lot of laundry.

[MscleLovr]

Can barely imagine how gross that bed linen was!....Have also learned to only do in calls at my hotel, where I KNOW who has been between the sheets.

 

Not a lesson I had to learn. I’ve always prized clean bedlinen. And if there are more than 2 men between the sheets, it’s only because I want the attentions of more than 1 man at the same time.

[+ HornyRetiree]

I've thought about this and wonder what others think and do. Don't think I've seen it discussed.

 

I travel a lot, and hire when visiting other cities. Sometimes I hire local denizens, and like that because I can build longer term arrangements as I come and go to that town. Also, when I hire a visitor I get the impression he's dealing with making enough to cover travel expenses, so has added pressure to see as many clients as possible and to cut costs. Had an experience where I could tell there were at least two, maybe three, different service providers sharing the same hotel room -- there were 2 guys waiting on the steps outside for met to leave, and neither of them looked like a client -- and it was a dump to begin with! Can barely imagine how gross that bed linen was! Of course the visitors make it possible to see people from places that aren't on my travel itinerary, a definite pro there.

 

Have also learned to only do in calls at my hotel, where I KNOW who has been between the sheets.

 

Thoughts, other lessons learned, advice?

LOL - you can never be sure at hotels either!

 

Years ago I helped a friend with a delivery route while he recovered from surgery and could not lift. It involved an overnight at the same place and in the same room -- I noticed the second visit that my last cum stain was still on the edge of the top sheet where I had ejaculated my last stay!

 

I do not know if anyone else stayed in the bed - I DO KNOW I left six distinct and very separate cum stains around the top sheets before I asked at the desk why they didn't change the sheets! They insisted they did - I laughed at them and said "there is DNA evidence that proves you do not"!!! No idea if they changed the sheets as that was the end of my filling in on the route.

 

There are also various videos that discuss hotel room short cuts:):) One never knows.

[+ Keith30309]

I am wrapping up an 8-month stint of domestic travel and met lots of guys... about 3/wk... and all except one guy were at my hotel. Some nights the bed linens were spotless and barely ruffled and others they were pretty stained and wadded up on the floor. Fortunately the property’s app has an option for intra-stay “extra housekeeping”. I’m not sure what the staff thought about my habits but they never said anything.

As for the one guy who I chose to incall, I discovered that he was much less inhibited when we were at his apartment. I never visited another hotel when traveling. I have only run I to other clients once - and it was a lousy experience anyway.

[marylander1940]

I've thought about this and wonder what others think and do. Don't think I've seen it discussed.

 

I travel a lot, and hire when visiting other cities. Sometimes I hire local denizens, and like that because I can build longer term arrangements as I come and go to that town. Also, when I hire a visitor I get the impression he's dealing with making enough to cover travel expenses, so has added pressure to see as many clients as possible and to cut costs. Had an experience where I could tell there were at least two, maybe three, different service providers sharing the same hotel room -- there were 2 guys waiting on the steps outside for met to leave, and neither of them looked like a client -- and it was a dump to begin with! Can barely imagine how gross that bed linen was! Of course the visitors make it possible to see people from places that aren't on my travel itinerary, a definite pro there.

 

Have also learned to only do in calls at my hotel, where I KNOW who has been between the sheets.

 

Thoughts, other lessons learned, advice?

 

It's business with busy and slow days... maybe they were sharing the room to lower the costs because there was a convention in town and everything was very expensive, that seems smart to me. Don't we know guys who retired with absolutely no savings?

 

Guys who travel also have bad trips and others where they make a huge profit. It's a business, and many guys just can't do it for a few years.

 

If you think hiring a visiting guy will make you wonder how many guys he saw before and how many after you, don't hire him. If that will be always in your mind and you'll feel rushed or used, get a local.

 

If you want a clean bed, just host at your hotel/home.

 

The should have waited in the lobby and not that close to the door. Reminds me of Sean Xavier travelling with his ex and waiting in the corridor... C'mon let's don't be so obvious!

 

One more thing, busy days also happen to local guys.

[adventurous old guy]

LOL - you can never be sure at hotels either!

 

Years ago I helped a friend with a delivery route while he recovered from surgery and could not lift. It involved an overnight at the same place and in the same room -- I noticed the second visit that my last cum stain was still on the edge of the top sheet where I had ejaculated my last stay!

 

I do not know if anyone else stayed in the bed - I DO KNOW I left six distinct and very separate cum stains around the top sheets before I asked at the desk why they didn't change the sheets! They insisted they did - I laughed at them and said "there is DNA evidence that proves you do not"!!! No idea if they changed the sheets as that was the end of my filling in on the route.

 

There are also various videos that discuss hotel room short cuts:):) One never knows.

YUUUUUCK!

[adventurous old guy]

It's business with busy and slow days... maybe they were sharing the room to lower the costs because there was a convention in town and everything was very expensive, that seems smart to me. Don't we know guys who retired with absolutely no savings?

 

The should have waited in the lobby and not that close to the door. Reminds me of Sean Xavier travelling with his ex and waiting in the corridor... C'mon let's don't be so obvious!

 

Right, it was the Monday after Pride Week in DC. They were there for the festivities, working on the side to cover expenses. Room was in a B&B just off Dupont Circle. The provider was one of the guys I saw regularly, and I have to say that he went the extra mile to make up for the sketchy ambiance. Still -- couldn't get into the shower fast enough back at my hotel.

[marylander1940]

Right, it was the Monday after Pride Week in DC. They were there for the festivities, working on the side to cover expenses. Room was in a B&B just off Dupont Circle. The provider was one of the guys I saw regularly, and I have to say that he went the extra mile to make up for the sketchy ambiance. Still -- couldn't get into the shower fast enough back at my hotel.

 

I don't understand why so many guys visit during Pride... too much free sex everywhere.

 

I'm glad you didn't take a shower at his place. I've been told stories of escorts waiting in the closet for the appointment of their buddy to be over.

 

Guys if you have to travel with another escort to save money, just wait in the lobby and after the guy texts you "done" you can come up. Waiting in the corridor won't even save you a minute.

[Wanderoz]

The Russian/East Euro group tha visits DC does that. You can often see the ones you didn’t choose sitting in the lobby or out front of the place, usually a B&B off Dupont Circle or 16th Street & one sketchy hotel on 21st & another on RI Ave.

[adventurous old guy]

I am wrapping up an 8-month stint of domestic travel and met lots of guys... about 3/wk... and all except one guy were at my hotel.

Wow, 3/week average over 8 mos. My mind boggles!

 

At the risk of diverting to tangent, I want to use your fresh market research: Top 5? And why?

[adventurous old guy]

Wow, 3/week average over 8 mos. My mind boggles!

 

At the risk of diverting to tangent, I want to use your fresh market research: Top 5? And why?

Oh, and you win the stamina award!

[+ Keith30309]

Wow, 3/week average over 8 mos. My mind boggles!

 

At the risk of diverting to tangent, I want to use your fresh market research: Top 5? And why?

It was, in order, amateur arrangements from SA, pros from A4A, amateurs from A4A, and then local & traveling guys from RM/FB/MB and a couple of semi-pros from Doublelist.

I particularly enjoyed spending evenings with: Arturo, Geo and Andy... mostly separately. I think I’ve commented over in the Deli & Spa forums on almost everyone I’ve met who would want their name mentioned.

[adventurous old guy]

It was, in order, amateur arrangements from SA, pros from A4A, amateurs from A4A, and then local & traveling guys from RM/FB/MB and a couple of semi-pros from Doublelist.

I particularly enjoyed spending evenings with: Arturo, Geo and Andy... mostly separately. I think I’ve commented over in the Deli & Spa forums on almost everyone I’ve met who would want their name mentioned.

Thx for the update? What's SA?

[+ Keith30309]

Thx for the update? What's SA?

Seekingarrangement.... I was booted off the site but made lots of friends before.

[gilbert]

I wouldn't be comfortable at an escort's place. In my own hotel room I can do what I want and the escort would leave when he thought it was time for him to leave. At the escort's place do you have to watch the time to know when you should leave or does the escort tell you when the time is up? Awkward. And you know your hotel room is clean.