411 on CooperMontgomery NJ

[irfy]

Anyone met him or have more info on him? He's from Jersey City but will be in London in a few days

https://rent.men/CooperMontgomery

[+ jgkarma]

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/cooper-montgomery-columbus-oh.145003/

[LaffingBear]

Contacted him. Was definitely interested. Indicated interest in following day...no specifics, just mid-day.

 

Following day, midday, no response to texts for 2.5 hours. No complaint by me, just two texts, 1 hour apart. I assumed busy, gym perhaps.....

 

He texted, explaining "I just got your texts"...

 

to which I responded "wonder why, maybe tech problems?" Knowing my phone is temperamental.

 

He responded he'd been at lunch, phone was charging, and as I was entering a text to say "no problem, lets confirm a time,"

 

he sent "I don't take clients with pissy attitudes. If that's you, contact someone else. Thanks"

 

Heard nice things about him, I was definitely interested.... but if a guy is going to infer I'm dissatisfied or complaining, immediately jump to a negative interpretation, guess its best that I look elsewhere.

[RealAvalon]

Anyone met him or have more info on him? He's from Jersey City but will be in London in a few days

https://rent.men/CooperMontgomery

Unrelated to your Cooper specifically, but I've always thought Montgomery was a 'sexy' name

Edited June 2, 2019 by RealAvalon

[MrMattBig]

I don't like to be rude back, but if I had been in your shoes I would have finished the text you were typing, and then followed with

"If that's going to be your attitude then I will have to end up passing sorry"

Contacted him. Was definitely interested. Indicated interest in following day...no specifics, just mid-day.

 

Following day, midday, no response to texts for 2.5 hours. No complaint by me, just two texts, 1 hour apart. I assumed busy, gym perhaps.....

 

He texted, explaining "I just got your texts"...

 

to which I responded "wonder why, maybe tech problems?" Knowing my phone is temperamental.

 

He responded he'd been at lunch, phone was charging, and as I was entering a text to say "no problem, lets confirm a time,"

 

he sent "I don't take clients with pissy attitudes. If that's you, contact someone else. Thanks"

 

Heard nice things about him, I was definitely interested.... but if a guy is going to infer I'm dissatisfied or complaining, immediately jump to a negative interpretation, guess its best that I look elsewhere.

[+ nycman]

Contacted him. Was definitely interested. Indicated interest in following day...no specifics, just mid-day.

 

Following day, midday, no response to texts for 2.5 hours. No complaint by me, just two texts, 1 hour apart. I assumed busy, gym perhaps.....

 

He texted, explaining "I just got your texts"...

 

to which I responded "wonder why, maybe tech problems?" Knowing my phone is temperamental.

 

He responded he'd been at lunch, phone was charging, and as I was entering a text to say "no problem, lets confirm a time,"

 

he sent "I don't take clients with pissy attitudes. If that's you, contact someone else. Thanks"

 

Heard nice things about him, I was definitely interested.... but if a guy is going to infer I'm dissatisfied or complaining, immediately jump to a negative interpretation, guess its best that I look elsewhere.

Yep. So many young dudes ruin an opportunity by assuming the worst.

Texting is a great way and a horrible way to communicate.

 

I had a similar thing happen with an escort in Barcelona. I was

trying to explain that I was boarding a plane for an overnight

transatlantic trip to his town and I would text him again as

soon as I landed so we could set something up.

 

Somehow that got translated as I was a flake and blowing him off.

I tried to politely apologize if we misunderstood each other, but

it was too late. Not a huge loss for either of us, and in those situations

I tend to think I dodged a bullet.

 

It only upsets me when it’s someone I’ve heard good things about

and really wanted to meet. Even then though, it’s best to just move on,

[down_to_business]

The misunderstanding is unfortunate, because this escort is outstanding... but he did not shut the door on you- as he said "if that's you" with the "if" being key.

 

If you want to salvage it and still give it a try, I would text something back like "I understand you are probably very busy and am sorry if you mistook my enthusiasm for meeting as a sign that I am high maintenance. I assure you I am not. If you would like to see for yourself, how about we meet at 8pm tonight".

 

I also understand, however, in this situation if you just want to let it go and find someone else instead.