Hot cilent here looking for an A list escort any suggestions?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I am going to defend this guy. I started hiring on and off in my twenties. For a while, I was in CRAZY good shape and had guys I didn’t know randomly offer me money to have sex.

 

I also had escorts freak out and think I was a cop because they thought I was too young and good looking to be a real client. I ALSO had fellow circuit boy friends who were hot who hires while traveling for work. So I KNOW this kind of stuff happens. FIrst hand.

 

Agree.

 

Someone that I currently see on a regular basis is in his mid-20s, great face and beautifully built. His family situation prevents him from being openly gay, so he's turned to seeing me to keep his life in balance.

 

While this might not be the exact situation the OP is in, there's a wide variety of guys out there who turn to escorts for a wide variety of reasons.

[caliguy]

I agree. Just because someone is young and attractive, doesn’t mean they can always find sexy guys to hookup with when they want to. Especially if you don’t live in a lgbt hotspot, with gay clubs, bathhouses, like in nyc, Miami, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Atlanta etc. I live in a pretty boring city in the south, and there is not that much going on for young gay men, besides jacking off to porn. There are hookup apps, but I don’t want to put my face on there, as well others don’t always put face pics, plus I want to skip the back and forth. Escorts help with all of this, and I’m not even 30 yet.

Oh please. Yes maybe in 1940 there's a story similar to this. In the real world today we now have apps like Grindr and scruff so there's no part of this world where a guy that describes itself like that cannot have an abundance of willing guys salivating at the thought of getting together with him.

[caliguy]

Agree.

 

Someone that I currently see on a regular basis is in his mid-20s, great face and beautifully built. His family situation prevents him from being openly gay, so he's turned to seeing me to keep his life in balance.

 

While this might not be the exact situation the OP is in, there's a wide variety of guys out there who turn to escorts for a wide variety of reasons.

It's not that I don't believe you. It's just kind of insulting you saying you're helping normalize this closet case to keep his "life in balance". Yeah wouldn't want the family to think their perfect little angel is a dirty faggot.

 

I'd almost get it if he had a family life like kids or something where he had to think of them. We're in 2019 now. Fucking pathetic but good on you to help him with his little secret life.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

It's not that I don't believe you. It's just kind of insulting you saying you're helping normalize this closet case to keep his "life in balance". Yeah wouldn't want the family to think their perfect little angel is a dirty faggot.

 

I'd almost get it if he had a family life like kids or something where he had to think of them. We're in 2019 now. Fucking pathetic but good on you to help him with his little secret life.

 

Unlike you, I try to not to judge the guys I see. People all have different baggage to deal with.

 

As for his particular circumstance, I never said he didn't have a wife or kids. Actually, I never said anything specific.

 

But good on you for that weak attempt to smear me AND him in the process of your backhanded reply

[caliguy]

Unlike you, I try to not to judge the guys I see. People all have different baggage to deal with.

 

As for his particular circumstance, I never said he didn't have a wife or kids. Actually, I never said anything specific.

 

But good on you for that weak attempt to smear me AND him in the process of your backhanded reply

Nothing backhanded about it. Good on you to help a grown ass man keep his little secret though so mommy and daddy will still love him. Lol

 

You know they've done studies where they found that most people that actually know gay people don't hate them. It's true.

 

Btw. I gave you an an applause because I thought that's what you were looking for.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Nothing backhanded about it. Good on you to help a grown ass man keep his little secret though so mommy and daddy will still love him. Lol

 

You know they've done studies where they found that most people that actually know gay people don't hate them. It's true.

 

Btw. I gave you an an applause because I thought that's what you were looking for.

 

You must be delightful at parties

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Nothing backhanded about it. Good on you to help a grown ass man keep his little secret though so mommy and daddy will still love him. Lol

 

You know they've done studies where they found that most people that actually know gay people don't hate them. It's true.

 

Btw. I gave you an an applause because I thought that's what you were looking for.

 

You must be delightful at parties

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Nothing backhanded about it. Good on you to help a grown ass man keep his little secret though so mommy and daddy will still love him. Lol

 

You know they've done studies where they found that most people that actually know gay people don't hate them. It's true.

 

Btw. I gave you an an applause because I thought that's what you were looking for.

 

You must be delightful at parties

[Guest MikeThomas]

You must be delightful at parties

Ben, when is your next juicy blogpost?

[Guest MikeThomas]

You must be delightful at parties

Ben, when is your next juicy blogpost?

[Guest MikeThomas]

You must be delightful at parties

Ben, when is your next juicy blogpost?

[marylander1940]

I agree. Just because someone is young and attractive, doesn’t mean they can always find sexy guys to hookup with when they want to. Especially if you don’t live in a lgbt hotspot, with gay clubs, bathhouses, like in nyc, Miami, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Atlanta etc. I live in a pretty boring city in the south, and there is not that much going on for young gay men, besides jacking off to porn. There are hookup apps, but I don’t want to put my face on there, as well others don’t always put face pics, plus I want to skip the back and forth. Escorts help with all of this, and I’m not even 30 yet.

 

I'm sure exceptions happen and nowadays there's some Grindr fatigue because of so many flakes, "bots", and endless messaging/drama but based on what escorts tell me most of the guys who hire them look for someone they wouldn't have the "cojones" approach at a bar. I'm also aware that the concept of young and handsome could be different and we all have a type others don't like so much.

 

@caramelsub in conservative towns folks fuck like crazy, sometimes that's the only thing to do to kill time, unfortunately as you insinuated there's a lot of gossip.

[marylander1940]

I agree. Just because someone is young and attractive, doesn’t mean they can always find sexy guys to hookup with when they want to. Especially if you don’t live in a lgbt hotspot, with gay clubs, bathhouses, like in nyc, Miami, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Atlanta etc. I live in a pretty boring city in the south, and there is not that much going on for young gay men, besides jacking off to porn. There are hookup apps, but I don’t want to put my face on there, as well others don’t always put face pics, plus I want to skip the back and forth. Escorts help with all of this, and I’m not even 30 yet.

 

I'm sure exceptions happen and nowadays there's some Grindr fatigue because of so many flakes, "bots", and endless messaging/drama but based on what escorts tell me most of the guys who hire them look for someone they wouldn't have the "cojones" approach at a bar. I'm also aware that the concept of young and handsome could be different and we all have a type others don't like so much.

 

@caramelsub in conservative towns folks fuck like crazy, sometimes that's the only thing to do to kill time, unfortunately as you insinuated there's a lot of gossip.

[marylander1940]

I agree. Just because someone is young and attractive, doesn’t mean they can always find sexy guys to hookup with when they want to. Especially if you don’t live in a lgbt hotspot, with gay clubs, bathhouses, like in nyc, Miami, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Atlanta etc. I live in a pretty boring city in the south, and there is not that much going on for young gay men, besides jacking off to porn. There are hookup apps, but I don’t want to put my face on there, as well others don’t always put face pics, plus I want to skip the back and forth. Escorts help with all of this, and I’m not even 30 yet.

 

I'm sure exceptions happen and nowadays there's some Grindr fatigue because of so many flakes, "bots", and endless messaging/drama but based on what escorts tell me most of the guys who hire them look for someone they wouldn't have the "cojones" approach at a bar. I'm also aware that the concept of young and handsome could be different and we all have a type others don't like so much.

 

@caramelsub in conservative towns folks fuck like crazy, sometimes that's the only thing to do to kill time, unfortunately as you insinuated there's a lot of gossip.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Ben, when is your next juicy blogpost?

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/benjamin_nichola-blog-wow.141619/page-5#post-1708102

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Ben, when is your next juicy blogpost?

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/benjamin_nichola-blog-wow.141619/page-5#post-1708102

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Ben, when is your next juicy blogpost?

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/benjamin_nichola-blog-wow.141619/page-5#post-1708102

[+ José Soplanucas]

I am going to defend this guy. I started hiring on and off in my twenties. For a while, I was in CRAZY good shape and had guys I didn’t know randomly offer me money to have sex.

 

I also had escorts freak out and think I was a cop because they thought I was too young and good looking to be a real client. I ALSO had fellow circuit boy friends who were hot who hires while traveling for work. So I KNOW this kind of stuff happens. FIrst hand.

 

 

So you had friends who used to tell you "go and hire escorts BECAUSE you are hot". THAT is what the OP is saying, and it does not make any sense.

I also was more attractive when I was younger and I would hire escorts anyway, but NOT BECAUSE I was hot.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I am going to defend this guy. I started hiring on and off in my twenties. For a while, I was in CRAZY good shape and had guys I didn’t know randomly offer me money to have sex.

 

I also had escorts freak out and think I was a cop because they thought I was too young and good looking to be a real client. I ALSO had fellow circuit boy friends who were hot who hires while traveling for work. So I KNOW this kind of stuff happens. FIrst hand.

 

 

So you had friends who used to tell you "go and hire escorts BECAUSE you are hot". THAT is what the OP is saying, and it does not make any sense.

I also was more attractive when I was younger and I would hire escorts anyway, but NOT BECAUSE I was hot.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I am going to defend this guy. I started hiring on and off in my twenties. For a while, I was in CRAZY good shape and had guys I didn’t know randomly offer me money to have sex.

 

I also had escorts freak out and think I was a cop because they thought I was too young and good looking to be a real client. I ALSO had fellow circuit boy friends who were hot who hires while traveling for work. So I KNOW this kind of stuff happens. FIrst hand.

 

 

So you had friends who used to tell you "go and hire escorts BECAUSE you are hot". THAT is what the OP is saying, and it does not make any sense.

I also was more attractive when I was younger and I would hire escorts anyway, but NOT BECAUSE I was hot.

[+ peterhung85]

"had guys I didn’t know randomly offer me money to have sex."

This has even happened to me too! :eek:

[+ goosh69]

So you had friends who used to tell you "go and hire escorts BECAUSE you are hot". THAT is what the OP is saying, and it does not make any sense.

I also was more attractive when I was younger and I would hire escorts anyway, but NOT BECAUSE I was hot.

 

LITERALLY what the fuck? WHen did I write that? I never said WHY I hired escorts. JUSt that I did.

[+ Eric Hassan]

just a perspective from a working guy - when a client tells me over and over how good looking he is (the ‘over and over’ part here is the point; telling me once that you’re a good looking guy or that folks find you attractive, as part of a basic intro, makes sense and doesn’t occur to me as it does when repeatedly emphasized), and whatever else he adds to it, all i hear is desperation and shame, and all i've experienced is wasted time. people have eyes and can judge your looks for yourself.

Edited April 25, 2019 by Eric Hassan

[+ Eric Hassan]

Why do people assume that those who order escorts, do so because they can’t get laid for free?

 

I have a good friend who has a great body, good looks, has a successful career and CHOOSES to have a regular escort.

 

His reason? He can guarantee good sex, he will get exactly what’s expected, and he doesn’t have to deal with the bulllshit of dating, bars, apps, and all of those other things that brings out the worst in guys.

 

YES!

 

and honestly, this whole thing about good looking, etc is such fucking bullshit. "good looking" is insanely subective, and beauty standards are just contemporaneous agreement, not immutable fact - take "good looking" today, and put him in another society at a different time, and he'd be ugly.

[caliguy]

YES!

 

and honestly, this whole thing about good looking, etc is such fucking bullshit. "good looking" is insanely subective, and beauty standards are just contemporaneous agreement, not immutable fact - take "good looking" today, and put him in another society at a different time, and he'd be ugly.

Yep. Anyone who describes himself as "hot" I completely avoid. All I see is a primadonna with more issues then a news stand.