body issues

[Topseeka]

Hi I am looking for a good top escort, but I'm a little bit chubby (not tonned or skinny) dad bod short smooth, and really wanting a good experience, but concerned that how i look may put guys off and make the experience difficult (even though I am paying) any advice ? thanks

[wiltshirede]

Make a call on the provider based on their advert - a few things to keep in mind:

 

Age and experience... older providers who have been in the business for longer are more likely to have a non judgemental attitude towards larger clients, since this is what they have come to expect.

 

Fitness model type escorts are likely to provide a reduced service to larger men - not exclusively, but for a number of reasons - not limited to the fact that escorting is rarely the chosen path for this type of provider. This applies again to some foreign providers who might have less of an interest in securing regular customers in a country they will be leaving in a few weeks time.

 

Fake tops - the major European cities are riddled with these. You can usually weed them out by the fact that the adverts make rather hysterical allusions to the essence of being active or masculine. The tone of the advert is often shorthand, arrogant, "look at me" - and the service given will match that attitude.

[liubit]

Excellent advice given by @wiltshirede. If I may add: don’t be embarrassed or self-conscious, @Topseeka. I am chubby too, not overly fat or obese (about 5-7 kg over my ideal weight), and have never had any problem with escorts in my more than 25 years of regular hiring. I don’t think they expect to always be hired by fit, athletic guys.

[Topseeka]

Excellent advice given by @wiltshirede. If I may add: don’t be embarrassed or self-conscious, @Topseeka. I am chubby too, not overly fat or obese (about 5-7 kg over my ideal weight), and have never had any problem with escorts in my more than 25 years of regular hiring. I don’t think they expect to always be hired by fit, athletic guys.

Thank you Liubit and @wiltshirede very helpful (I'm only 82 kg 5'6 not obese etc (i do the gym nearly every day) just need to improve my diet etc

 

Can you recommend any good tops in london , i use one escort but fancy a change

 

thanks a lot

[liubit]

London is not my scene, sorry. I haven’t been there in years...

[Topseeka]

London is not my scene, sorry. I haven’t been there in years...

ok thank you anyway

[Hlparx]

Thank you Liubit and @wiltshirede very helpful (I'm only 82 kg 5'6 not obese etc (i do the gym nearly every day) just need to improve my diet etc

 

Can you recommend any good tops in london , i use one escort but fancy a change

 

thanks a lot

 

I make it a point to see this guy when I’m in Europe: https://rent.men/Josh_XXL

 

He is as advertised and pretty easygoing. Only downside is he's not that into kissing. It looks like he’s in London this weekend.

Edited March 23, 2019 by Hlparx

[Hlparx]

Thank you Liubit and @wiltshirede very helpful (I'm only 82 kg 5'6 not obese etc (i do the gym nearly every day) just need to improve my diet etc

 

Can you recommend any good tops in london , i use one escort but fancy a change

 

thanks a lot

 

I’d also recommend DanielXXL, a French guy who’s in London through the end of May: https://www.sleepyboy.com/uk/london/escort/pogona

 

He’s also on RM and Hunqz. I met him in January and he exceeded my very high expectations.

[Youngmilkman]

Back in my escorting days I used to be such a narcissist that the other guy's body never bothered me (in fact his below-average body made it even more exciting by emphasising my own body). And likewise when I hire guys today, I know they're not expecting an adonis, as long as you're visibly hygienic.