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[+ Charlie]

I would add a few more things to Gymowner's perceptive comments. My experience with this type of straight escort is that his "look" is often the result of actually feeling somewhat insecure about himself as a man. Rather than focus exclusively on his image, pay attention to what he really wants to be desired for, which is his personality. If you act like you are interested and respectful of him as a person rather than as an object, he is more likely to warm up and be interactive in return.

[cjazzed]

I didn't meet with him. He seemed like he wouldn't be able to comfortably satisfy what I wanted. I feel like if you're looking for a guy that will go thru the motions with limitations, then he's your guy.

[Gymowner]

As I noted before.... this is an expensive sport guys. Noone... straight or gay can guarantee they will make fireworks fly for you each and every time. Especially the first time.

 

If you really like the guys looks hire him. Ask that your MINIMUM requests get met and proceed on. If the first session went just ok and you think there is potential..hire once more. How many times have we seen a review that the first session was good and the second was OMG great! The escort also has things to focus in on, if a quality escort, to make YOU feel great as well. Second session may be the charm!

[LivingnLA]

I'm disturbed by the degree of objectification and dehumanization I see in many comments. We're talking about human beings here, guys. Yes, they are escorts who are selling their time and attention, but that doesn't make them robots that perform on command. Regardless of their sexual orientation, the vast majority of humans are able to engage in various activities with the vast majority of other humans. But, shit happens. Life is complicated. If you want someone to treat you well, the very first step is treating them well first.

 

I'm not as experienced as many on this forum, but I have long been "into" straight guys because of various formative events in my teens. The one lesson that's been clear to me for many years: authentically expressing concern and interest for another human being is the greatest way to make a connection. Once a connection is made, many things are possible.

Edited April 4, 2019 by LivingnLA

[cjazzed]

Oh whatever, we're paying for escorts, not life partners. I want great sex, not someone to spend my life with. If I want to objectify a guy, that's my prerogative.

[LivingnLA]

Oh whatever, we're paying for escorts, not life partners. I want great sex, not someone to spend my life with. If I want to objectify a guy, that's my prerogative.

 

Such dismissiveness is unsurprising given previous comments. Objectification is human and you're certainly welcome to objectify whoever you wish, but generally speaking, many people don't respond well to being objectified too much. It rarely leads to great interactions though it might work for some scenes. Life is full of diversity and humans are able to fetishize pretty much anything.

Edited April 5, 2019 by LivingnLA