Timing your contact

[myophile]

Escorts: how far in advance do you like clients to contact you about a meeting? Or, to put it another way: how far in advance is TOO far?

[myophile]

Oop! Meant to post this in “Ask an Escort” ...

[BabyBoomer]

Oop! Meant to post this in “Ask an Escort” ...

 

Hit REPORT on my post and the moderator will move it for you.

 

~Boomer~

[KeepItReal]

I think anything over a week in advance is too much, theirs so much that can happen the longer you book in advance that can make the client cancel and the meeting never take place, plus you still have to confirm the day before/of anyways. The sweet spot for me would be for a client to book a couple hours/a day in advance but usually the clients I meet just message me the same day they want to meet and usually its asap bc they are horny

You are so right, I have trouble scheduling my horny-ness. It just happens!!

[FTM Zachary Prince]

I prefer advance bookings. I travel internationally and it helps me plan my schedule. More than six months in advance is probably too far most of the time, since I usually don’t have a good idea of my travel schedule more than six months in advance.

[Kinky Boyfriend]

I prefer between a week to a month in advance, though 24 hours in advance is my minimum with rare exception.

 

Schedule it like you would all other appointments.

 

I find that last-minute/on-call appointments tend to be less fulfilling for either party than appointments that allow time for the excitement to build up.

[+ VictorPowers]

If my travel plans are concrete(hotel and air) book away! Typically this will be 30 days in advance.

[LJNYC83]

I love advanced bookings and I don’t really have a time that’s too advanced, if the person will follow through. Someone who is a regular that I’ve built trust with could book me months in advance and I’d trust that it will happen (unless something life related comes up).

[rvwnsd]

I think anything over a week in advance is too much...

What happens when you travel? Do you post your plans a week in advance?

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I love a client that's willing to book weeks or even a month or so in advance. I have quite a few clients who only get to SF once or twice a year and therefore will schedule with me when their dates are confirmed and will prioritize and plan around our meeting. There's alot of excitement in the anticipation.

 

[Wolfer]

I book mostly the day of or at most a couple of days in advance. Almost every time I've booked more than that in advance things went awry (escort got the date wrong, or just completely forgot, got the wrong time, thought I'd booked one hour instead of two ...)

[myophile]

This has been a really useful thread for me — thanks, guys!

[arnie]

There are several escorts that I follow in cased they happen to be coming to my city. When they post a travel ad, I assume that they are looking to book at that time and will contact them if interested. they have been accommodating. Some even indicate a need to book early as they claim they book up early. When traveling out of town, I might reach out to several escorts in advance just to make sure that they are generally available on those dates and if they have issues like a full time job that they have to work around but will book on short term notice as the specifics of my schedule may change on limited notice

[Kris Parkes]

If the client is new, they should call me when ready to meet. If it's a repeat, we can book a week or so in advance. I have learned the hard way, so I NEVER book a new client in advance. Because, more often than not, when I do, someone else will call for immediate, and I don't take it because of the advance booking, but then the advanced booking is a no-show.

[HotWhiteThirties]

Please. This makes me sad to an extent, and think that I must be a unicorn or something. Lol!

 

It is imperative that I plan in advance.

 

I always follow through. It’s too much damn trouble otherwise. I’ve had more instances where the provider doesn’t follow through and flakes.

 

Glad I’ve found guys who appreciate and don’t shut down when I make plans more than a day or month in advance. (Though some do.)

 

Am I seriously the only guy like that? Sure sounds like it.

 

FYI, some people can’t just do all of this on the fly. Or at least I can’t.

Edited December 23, 2018 by HotWhiteThirties

[rvwnsd]

Please. This makes me sad to an extent, and think that I must be a unicorn or something. Lol!

 

It is imperative that I plan in advance.

 

I always follow through. It’s too much damn trouble otherwise. I’ve had more instances where the provider doesn’t follow through and flakes.

 

Glad I’ve found guys who appreciate and don’t shut down when I make plans more than a day or month in advance. (Though some do.)

 

Am I seriously the only guy like that? ...

You are not along. I typically plan in advance. There have been times when I can't tell what my schedule will look like. In those cases I'll ask the guy for his availability is during my visit and then make solid plans once I can commit to a time.

 

Actually, there are escorts who LIKE advance planning, particularly when they are traveling.

[HotWhiteThirties]

You are not along. I typically plan in advance. There have been times when I can't tell what my schedule will look like. In those cases I'll ask the guy for his availability is during my visit and then make solid plans once I can commit to a time.

 

Actually, there are escorts who LIKE advance planning, particularly when they are traveling.

 

I didn’t think I was, but these sorts of threads make it seem that way sometimes! Ha!

 

We have a similar approach.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

There's no such thing as too much notice for me.

 

My schedule can book out at over a month in advance, so it's always nice when someone gives me a decent heads up.

[marylander1940]

I've heard many stories of guys who call makes plans for NOW and cancel 5 mins later because of something came up.

 

I guess as long as the client knows his own schedule any time is good to book. If something comes up and he has to cancel a cancellation fee would be a proper gesture.

[rvwnsd]

There's no such thing as too much notice for me.

 

My schedule can book out at over a month in advance, so it's always nice when someone gives me a decent heads up.

That, my good sir, is because you are a level-headed adult. That, my good sir, is also why you have 103 great reviews as of this writing.

[Pepper Young]

As a client, I like to contact about a week or 10 days in advance, just to make sure he'll be available and work out any details. I always have a plan B, just in case.

[HotWhiteThirties]

I love a client that's willing to book weeks or even a month or so in advance. I have quite a few clients who only get to SF once or twice a year and therefore will schedule with me when their dates are confirmed and will prioritize and plan around our meeting. There's alot of excitement in the anticipation.

 

 

This is along the lines of what I like to (and in most cases need to do) in order for a meeting to happen. And, yes, the anticipation....???

[rvwnsd]

I love a client that's willing to book weeks or even a month or so in advance. I have quite a few clients who only get to SF once or twice a year and therefore will schedule with me when their dates are confirmed and will prioritize and plan around our meeting. There's alot of excitement in the anticipation.

 

There's no such thing as too much notice for me.

 

My schedule can book out at over a month in advance, so it's always nice when someone gives me a decent heads up.

I would imagine this helps you plan your personal lives, also. For example, taking a weekend trip, an all-day bike ride, or something as mundane as cleaning the carpets.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

... something as mundane as cleaning the carpets.

 

Depends on what you're wearing (or not wearing), cleaning the carpets can be pretty sexy

[rvwnsd]

Depends on what you're wearing (or not wearing), cleaning the carpets can be pretty sexy

I shall keep that in mind. You'd look ravishing in Bissell.