Incall vs Outcall: Pro’s Con’s and more

[+ Brad in NYC]

Hi All -

I’m curious to hear your opinions on this. Do you exclusively buy incall, outcall or a combination of the two? Why do you choose what you choose? What do you see as the pros’s and con’s of each?

[+ EVdude]

Stopped having masseurs come to me about 3 years ago. Too many late arrivals and no shows. But it was one particular guy that went psycho on my neighbor that ended home visits for good.

[+ 7829V]

Stopped having masseurs come to me about 3 years ago. Too many late arrivals and no shows. But it was one particular guy that went psycho on my neighbor that ended home visits for good.

Wow. But how did you neighbor enter into this equation?

[dutchal]

Rarely have a masseur or escort come to my apartment. Too many problems over the years. Biggest: no shows. Others: late arrivals; if he doesn't match the pics, can be hard to get rid of him discreetly; once had a guy who wanted repeat business--so he showed up in person to solicit (luckily he didn't keep or remember my exact address, so he was just sitting on steps across the street, and I avoided going out while he was there).

 

I will, though, still do it, when it's a guy who (a) I'm really interested in, (b) who doesn't do in calls, and © is reviewed enough so I can trust the situation.

[David1024]

I have never hired a masseur for an outcall. Generally I find that they prefer to work in their own place, that way they have access to all of their stuff - table, linens, oils, music, candles, and don't need to worry about carrying it all to someone else's place and maybe forgetting something. Never seen a masseur ad that says outcall only, whereas that's quite common in the escort world.

[BostonTom]

Yeah, I've twice had guys eager for repeat business who kept texting . . . I was glad they didn't know where I lived!

[+ 7829V]

Masseur comes to me:

- My place that I'm familiar with

- My towels and shower

- I can go to sleep right after the massage if I want

- I feel in control of the situation

- Don't have any parking issues

- Maybe not as many amenities like hot towels, etc.

- If they don't travel with table and I don't have a table massage needs to be on bed

- More expensive fees, some masseurs won't travel to my place

 

I go to masseur's place

- Might be a nice place, might be dirty and filthy

- They might have a great table or no table at all

- Parking issues

- Travel time

- I don't have to reveal my home address.

- Masseur fees are cheaper if I go to the masseur's place.

 

Most of the time the masseurs go to my place. Easier for me.

[+ Charlie]

Since you are new here, I would suggest you search past threads, where you will find that this subject has been discussed before, and the reasons don't change very much.

[+ EVdude]

Wow. But how did you neighbor enter into this equation?

Said masseur went to the wrong apartment.

[Typical]

It's easier to flee than evict.

 

First time at their place.

 

Then go from there.

[+ Brad in NYC]

@Typical Great line: easier to flee than evict.

 

For me the unknowns of visiting a strange place (first time only of course) are outweighed by not having a stranger come to my apartment, ‘easier to fleet’, they have a good setup (table, creme, towels, music, etc.).

 

By the way, people seem to be commented on ‘no shows’. I can only remember 1 time a masseur cancelled last minute on me. Are flake-outs that common?

[EastbayMike]

[uSER=14545] ‘easier to fleet’[/uSER]

[uSER=14545]

Isn't that a benefit of having the provider come to you? :-)[/user]