What’s up with the hate?

[Inkdnaija00]

Our communication with clients and other pros is overwhelmingly positive. We stay nicely booked and have hundreds of fans page subscribers. However, we do have some hate mail every once in a while. We’ve had the predictable ones in the past ranging from disgust that we “flaunt” our relationship to criticism for being gay stereotypes. This one today, though, surprised me as I made initial contact to give a compliment to another escort and maybe some encouragement. His response was to ask if we wanted to book him. When I answered “no, just giving a compliment to another pro”, his response was “I just threw up in my mouth a little, but thanks for a compliment.”.

 

It’s always disappointing since we are just having fun and know we aren’t for everybody any more than everybody is for us. However, I don’t think I’ll ever understand it. I’m of the persuasion that nothing-nice needs nothin said. Why do some feel the need to lash out? Thoughts? Maybe some here feel disgusted by us, too? I have thick skin, so I’d be interested in your take.

 

Lmao only a messy queen would do that!

[Inkdnaija00]

Our communication with clients and other pros is overwhelmingly positive. We stay nicely booked and have hundreds of fans page subscribers. However, we do have some hate mail every once in a while. We’ve had the predictable ones in the past ranging from disgust that we “flaunt” our relationship to criticism for being gay stereotypes. This one today, though, surprised me as I made initial contact to give a compliment to another escort and maybe some encouragement. His response was to ask if we wanted to book him. When I answered “no, just giving a compliment to another pro”, his response was “I just threw up in my mouth a little, but thanks for a compliment.”.

 

It’s always disappointing since we are just having fun and know we aren’t for everybody any more than everybody is for us. However, I don’t think I’ll ever understand it. I’m of the persuasion that nothing-nice needs nothin said. Why do some feel the need to lash out? Thoughts? Maybe some here feel disgusted by us, too? I have thick skin, so I’d be interested in your take.

I have had similar response before and I just simply reply "oh you are very welcome. Stay blessed"

[hardjohnny]

I think it might be a bit of both. When people are in the same line of work/hobby/whatever as you and they can see that you are clearly more succesful than them, they need to find a way to deal with that without admitting to themselves that it is hurting their self-esteem or self-worth.

So they try and cut you down to bring you down to their level. Or even lower.

 

Brad Bird, the director of the Pixar movie "The Incredibles" noted this in one interview that he felt like certain people in the movie industry almost came across as wanting him to fail after the success he'd had with the Incredibles and Ratatouille. He found it scary and didn't understand why. But I think it's rampant envy by seeing someone else realizing the dreams that those haters had been hoping to fulfill themselves but, for whatever reason, have been unable to do so (yet) and when someone fails they feel better about their own shortcomings/inability to make their own dreams come true, I guess.

 

It's sad, but there it is.

 

Well those haters of Brad Bird did finally get their wish when he made “Tomorrowland”.

[+ TylerandAce]

I have had similar response before and I just simply reply "oh you are very welcome. Stay blessed"

ha...I said something like "bless your heart".

[+ purplekow]

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ha...I said something like "bless your heart".

Isn't bless your hearty southern for fuck you

[+ TylerandAce]

vvv

 

Isn't bless your hearty southern for fuck you

According to my late mother, absolutely!

[mike carey]

Isn't bless your hearty southern for fuck you

According to my late mother, absolutely!

My exposure to the South is limited (Tampa and Norfolk hardly count), but from my short time reading this forum I was thoroughly aware of that encoded message. I love it.

[+ TylerandAce]

My exposure to the South is limited (Tampa and Norfolk hardly count), but from my short time reading this forum I was thoroughly aware of that encoded message. I love it.

lol...Tampa doesn't count, but Norfolk does. It can also be used as pity, dismissal, affirmation of crazy, or any one of a number of other negative offsets. i.e. Bless her hear, she's bat shit crazy.

[mike carey]

lol...Tampa doesn't count, but Norfolk does.

I defer to your judgment, maybe I just saw the Navy town rather than the southern one.

[+ TylerandAce]

I defer to your judgment, maybe I just saw the Navy town rather than the southern one.

Yeah...anywhere below Mason-Dixon and above the panhandle qualifies with folks who know how to cut with words! lol

[mike carey]

Yeah...anywhere below Mason-Dixon and above the panhandle qualifies with folks who know how to cut with words! lol

Of course that includes all of Washington DC, but that aside I need to work on my schedule. There are some people I need to meet regardless of which side of the Mason-Dixon line they are at.

Edited October 9, 2018 by mike carey

[+ TylerandAce]

Of course that includes all of Washington DC, but that aside I need to work on my schedule. There are some people I need to meet regardless of which side of the Mason-Dixon line they are at.

I'm sure the ones on the South side are the highest priority!!!

[mike carey]

I'm sure the ones on the South side are the highest priority!!!

Ah have no doubt they are, but one or two gentlemen on the south side deserve special consideration. Not that I could name names, of course.

[mike carey]

And I doubt my ability to walk thereafter. Well, I wish!

[+ TylerandAce]

Ah have no doubt they are, but one or two gentlemen on the south side deserve special consideration. Not that I could name names, of course.

One of these days we'll find out to whom all this consideration will be given!!! lol