Not able to get hard

[JamesMorris]

Its happened to me twice already, I feel discouraged

The last guy said he had a hard party the night before and the other turn his phone to watch porn with no success

I am not a model but nor am I bad looking

Hispanic

45 y/o

170lbs

5’7

I always had payed even if they can’t perform, should I have not to? Or sound bad but ask for a discount?

And I think I am done hiring younger guys, I am not sure but I had the misconception that they would perform better.

My next hire it’s going to definitely be a mature guy

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Its happened to me twice already, I feel discouraged

The last guy said he had a hard party the night before and the other turn his phone to watch porn with no success

I am not a model but nor am I bad looking

Hispanic

45 y/o

170lbs

5’7

I always had payed even if they can’t perform, should I have not to? Or sound bad but ask for a discount?

And I think I am done hiring younger guys, I am not sure but I had the misconception that they would perform better.

My next hire it’s going to definitely be a mature guy

Give them some viagra?

[JamesMorris]

Give them some viagra?

Lmao

[+ VictorPowers]

C

Give them some viagra?

Crush it in his applesauce.

[MrMattBig]

Its happened to me twice already, I feel discouraged

The last guy said he had a hard party the night before and the other turn his phone to watch porn with no success

I am not a model but nor am I bad looking

Hispanic

45 y/o

170lbs

5’7

I always had payed even if they can’t perform, should I have not to? Or sound bad but ask for a discount?

And I think I am done hiring younger guys, I am not sure but I had the misconception that they would perform better.

My next hire it’s going to definitely be a mature guy

 

Keep in mind maturity has nothing to do with age.

[JamesMorris]

Keep in mind maturity has nothing to do with age.

But it does with experience and I think that for picking younger guys that’s what happens

[+ Reisr30]

I know it’s off topic but I have no problems getting hard until I try to top. I always lose my erection when I am trying to penetrate. Otherwise I am fully functional. Any advice?

[caliguy]

Its happened to me twice already, I feel discouraged

The last guy said he had a hard party the night before and the other turn his phone to watch porn with no success

I am not a model but nor am I bad looking

Hispanic

45 y/o

170lbs

5’7

I always had payed even if they can’t perform, should I have not to? Or sound bad but ask for a discount?

And I think I am done hiring younger guys, I am not sure but I had the misconception that they would perform better.

My next hire it’s going to definitely be a mature guy

Same reason I won't hire young guys or anyone under 28. I could've written the same exact thing. Partying and easily distracted is most of them. No judgement because I was once one too and I'm surprised anyone had the patience with me.

[caliguy]

I know it’s off topic but I have no problems getting hard until I try to top. I always lose my erection when I am trying to penetrate. Otherwise I am fully functional. Any advice?

Do you use condoms or go bare? If condoms it could just the wrong kind.

[+ Reisr30]

Do you use condoms or go bare? If condoms it could just the wrong kind.

 

I use condoms and normally use Lifestyles Skyn brand. The regular ones.

[+ tassojunior]

Do you use condoms or go bare? If condoms it could just the wrong kind.

 

10X as hard for me to get a hard on with condoms. Why I stick to my regulars.

[MrMattBig]

Same reason I won't hire young guys or anyone under 28. I could've written the same exact thing. Partying and easily distracted is most of them. No judgement because I was once one too and I'm surprised anyone had the patience with me.

 

I'm under 28:(

 

Do you use condoms or go bare? If condoms it could just the wrong kind.

 

Experiment with different kinds, as well as different lubes. Personally, if my dick is not well lubricated before the condom, it causes discomfort as goes soft, so that could be a reason as well.

[caliguy]

I use condoms and normally use Lifestyles Skyn brand. The regular ones.

I use a condom one size larger so to have some room to slide. Plus, I put in some lube inside it. I also make the condom part of the fun. Like I'll put it on well before topping. Make it part of your foreplay. If it seems like a choir then of coarse you'll have problems.

[caliguy]

10X as hard for me to get a hard on with condoms. Why I stick to my regulars.

I think if you're used to bare it would be an extra burden. I can't imagine doing mostly bare and then every blue moon a condom. Yeah, in those circumstance I too would have problems.

[+ VictorPowers]

C

 

Crush it in his applesauce.

Before you do this, casually incorporate into conversation if he takes nitrates for chest pain.

[samhexum]

I've had ED all my life, even before Bob Dole made it fashionable. Finally found out it's because I was born with spinal stenosis at the base of my spine, so the electrical signals don't fully reach my lower half. Viagra doesn't work.

[+ HornyRetiree]

I've had ED all my life, even before Bob Dole made it fashionable. Finally found out it's because I was born with spinal stenosis at the base of my spine, so the electrical signals don't fully reach my lower half. Viagra doesn't work.

Can you still feel sensations if you are being blown and orgasm?

[samhexum]

Can you still feel sensations if you are being blown and orgasm?

Can't stay hard long enough.

[+ HornyRetiree]

Can't stay hard long enough.

hmmmmmm - I can cum soft and semi with good oral - obviously hard but have done it with all stages.

[samhexum]

hmmmmmm - I can cum soft and semi with good oral - obviously hard but have done it with all stages.

 

Braggart

[+ HornyRetiree]

Braggart

 

No,I was asking seriously, man 2 man, if with your ED - you were still able to feel/experience pleasure w/o erection. Sorry if I offended.

[samhexum]

Sorry if I offended.

 

None taken. I was kidding.

 

I can feel; I just can't do much about it. I can masturbate about 3 times a week. It takes multiple attempts. The sap rises a little more each time. Some weeks are better than others. It's taken me as long as almost an hour to cum, but when it's that bad, I usually give up in frustration after 30 min or so.

(and now you know why I blow off steam by posting here so often )

 

It's gotten (much) worse as I've gotten older. Being a pothead doesn't help, of course, but it makes me more mellow about my inadequacy.

 

Edited September 7, 2018 by samhexum

[caliguy]

I've had ED all my life, even before Bob Dole made it fashionable. Finally found out it's because I was born with spinal stenosis at the base of my spine, so the electrical signals don't fully reach my lower half. Viagra doesn't work.

It's not something you even think about until it doesn't work. Then you realize just how complicated getting an erection is. Electrical signals, nitric oxide, muscle contractions, etc. All done without even thinking about it.

[+ HornyRetiree]

None taken. I was kidding.

 

I can feel; I just can't do much about it. I can masturbate about 3 times a week. It takes multiple attempts. The sap rises a little more each time. Some weeks are better than others. It's taken me as long as almost an hour to cum, but when it's that bad, I usually give up in frustration after 30 min or so.

(and now you know why I blow off steam by posting here so often )

 

It's gotten (much) worse as I've gotten older. Being a pothead doesn't help, of course, but it makes me more mellow about my inadequacy.

 

does an orally skilled partner help? I had a new to me Masseur "hoover" a load out or me so fast I never got beyond flaccid! Of course I was primed from the massage but I was surprised he got his reward so immediately! Sore the next day - told him next appt - be gentle - make love to my penis:)

[samhexum]

I had a new to me Masseur "hoover" a load out or me so fast I never got beyond flaccid!

 

My bank account balance is as flaccid as my... well, you know...