Escorts Have The Best Of Both Worlds - Sex And Money!

[+ Avalon]

Humans! People will have casual sex with no problem but fight over money. Just watch "Judge Judy" about people who have shacked up and now separated and who are squabbling over the pettiest things like who paid for something and the other now wants money.

 

But escorts combine sex and money; the best of both worlds!

[TruthBTold]

Humans! People will have casual sex with no problem but fight over money. Just watch "Judge Judy" about people who have shacked up and now separated and who are squabbling over the pettiest things like who paid for something and the other now wants money.

But escorts combine sex and money; the best of both worlds!

 

I am sure that is true if the things that are gained are "good" sex and money. Otherwise it might be just like regular relationships - sometimes bad sex and money wherever.

[gallahadesquire]

And sometimes the money is bad

[+ WilliamM]

In the past when there were escort agecies, yes I agree. Probably more difficult, especially starting out..

[Rudynate]

I was talking with one of my favorites about this. He's a long-time escort and he mentioned that his friends are pushing him to have less work sex and fit in a little recreational sex/romance, which he sort of dismissed. I said that I had never been a sex worker, so I could only speculate, but it seemed that work sex would be qualitatively different from recreational sex. He responded that he loved his time with clients and found it completely fulfilling. I said, "That's great - you're making money doing what you love." And I have to say, he does it very well.

[escortrod]

Variable quality sex, exposure to potentially dangerous situations, possible arrest and criminal record (depending on jurisdiction), exposure to STIs, less money than one might expect, especially in light of the time spent arranging each meet... I could go on listing the disbenefits for an hour or more. I enjoy escorting, which is why I’m continuing to meet some regulars in my semi-retirement, but it would be misguided to think that escorts don’t earn their fees.

[bnm73]

I was talking with one of my favorites about this. He's a long-time escort and he mentioned that his friends are pushing him to have less work sex and fit in a little recreational sex/romance, which he sort of dismissed. I said that I had never been a sex worker, so I could only speculate, but it seemed that work sex would be qualitatively different from recreational sex. He responded that he loved his time with clients and found it completely fulfilling. I said, "That's great - you're making money doing what you love." And I have to say, he does it very well.

 

Why would one treat sex you get paid cash for in a different way than sex you don't get paid cash for? Good sex means clients will come back. As I used to (and still do, from time to time) say, escorting is a service industry in more ways than one. If you want repeat clients, you should put your best, er, foot forward.

[escortrod]

Why would one treat sex you get paid cash for in a different way than sex you don't get paid cash for? Good sex means clients will come back. As I used to (and still do, from time to time) say, escorting is a service industry in more ways than one. If you want repeat clients, you should put your best, er, foot forward.

Because one might enjoy the unpaid sex more.

[Rudynate]

Why would one treat sex you get paid cash for in a different way than sex you don't get paid cash for? Good sex means clients will come back. As I used to (and still do, from time to time) say, escorting is a service industry in more ways than one. If you want repeat clients, you should put your best, er, foot forward.

 

 

That's why I qualified my remark by saying that I didn't know because I had never been a sex worker. Just because I suppose something to be true for another person, doesn't mean that it is. When he told me that his work was completely fulfilling, I took it at face value. He's a smart, aware man who can certainly decide what's best for him.

[bnm73]

Because one might enjoy the unpaid sex more.

 

I can appreciate that some people take that stance, but it was never mine. I liked sex too much, maybe. It's difficult for me to understand that people would approach "paid" vs. "unpaid" with a different attitude other than "fuck yeah!"

[+ Avalon]

Though the techniques may be the same I think there is a difference between having sex and making love.

[Rudynate]

Though the techniques may be the same I think there is a difference between having sex and making love.

 

 

It's all sex. Making love is just extra good sex.

[escortrod]

I can appreciate that some people take that stance, but it was never mine. I liked sex too much, maybe. It's difficult for me to understand that people would approach "paid" vs. "unpaid" with a different attitude other than "fuck yeah!"

Fair enough. I also feel able to be a little more selfish when having unpaid sex. There’s usually less expectation on my partner’s part.

[+ Avalon]

It's all sex. Making love is just extra good sex.

 

But emotionally, mentally I think there is a difference between having sex and making love.

 

I think it odd the use of the conjunctions "have sex WITH" but "make love TO". I think it should be the opposite.

[bnm73]

Fair enough. I also feel able to be a little more selfish when having unpaid sex. There’s usually less expectation on my partner’s part.

Well, it's true that some clients are all about "my pleasure," and what they are into is just so different from your own personal kinks and preferences that you don't have as much fun as you could.

 

Then again, some clients are all about pleasuring someone else. One memorable time, I had a client who literally got off without touching himself .... while blowing me. (Talk about an oral fixation.)

[bnm73]

But emotionally, mentally I think there is a difference between having sex and making love.

 

I think it odd the use of the conjunctions "have sex WITH" but "make love TO". I think it should be the opposite.

Zapp Brannigan calls it "making love at" a person....

[Rudynate]

Well, it's true that some clients are all about "my pleasure," and what they are into is just so different from your own personal kinks and preferences that you don't have as much fun as you could.

 

Then again, some clients are all about pleasuring someone else. One memorable time, I had a client who literally got off without touching himself .... while blowing me. (Talk about an oral fixation.)

 

I'm an easy client. I don't need to get off and I don't expect him to, either. I just like to play and play and . . .. One guy not long ago asked me if my nips were sensitive, and I said "occasionally, but mostly not." He started stroking them really softly. At first it annoyed me and I was going to make his stop, but I began to enjoy the sensation a bit, so I thought "ok, a little more." It felt better and better and before long, I had an explosive orgasm.

[bnm73]

I'm an easy client.

 

I must remember that if I ever get back into the industry.....*chuckle*

[Rudynate]

I must remember that if I ever get back into the industry.....*chuckle*

 

If you were in the biz in the 90s you might be just the right age. I'm big into daddy escorts.

[mike carey]

Fair enough. I also feel able to be a little more selfish when having unpaid sex. There’s usually less expectation on my partner’s part.

Self-awareness is always an attractive trait. Now if only I could understand a Glaswegian accent.

[marylander1940]

And sometimes the money is bad

 

the money comes sooner or later, what annoys them are the cheap asses, and teasers. They happen in all professions/activities.

[escortrod]

Self-awareness is always an attractive trait. Now if only I could understand a Glaswegian accent.

Ha. I moved to London at 16, so my accent is very mild. Americans tend to think I'm Irish, and Scots think I'm English. I don't know what Aussies think... I should ask.

[marylander1940]

If you were in the biz in the 90s you might be just the right age. I'm big into daddy escorts.

 

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[mike carey]

Ha. I moved to London at 16, so my accent is very mild. Americans tend to think I'm Irish, and Scots think I'm English. I don't know what Aussies think... I should ask.

I'll volunteer to be your test case, although I suspect you'll find one sooner.

[beachboy]

Ha. I moved to London at 16, so my accent is very mild. Americans tend to think I'm Irish, and Scots think I'm English. I don't know what Aussies think... I should ask.

Always sounded sexily Scottish to me !