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[Mocha]

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Edited August 12, 2018 by Mocha

[bnm73]

Too many variables to make an educate guess, especially without having any idea where you may be located.

 

Is it the "off season" for tourists where you are, for example? (It's the wrong time of year for the Carribean, for example....hurricane season and everything.) Have regular clients gotten married or otherwise monogamously involved? Have there been a lot of home-town sporting events (baseball games, for example) during the weekends, or is a local team angling for the playoffs?

 

Another thing to keep in mind is that it is just now "post-pride" season for a lot if cities....people went wild for a while and may still be recovering or catching up on things they should have done had they not been partying.

[Mocha]

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Edited August 12, 2018 by Mocha

[DR FREUD]

Why are you always seeming to run late??? It doesn't take a lot of planning to arrive somewhere on time, even if it's an hour and a half away?

[FTM Zachary Prince]

Why are you always seeming to run late??? It doesn't take a lot of planning to arrive somewhere on time, even if it's an hour and a half away?

 

Not true. Escorts are constantly asked to visit places we have never gone before. Google maps travel estimates can be wildly inaccurate. Especially when you have a multi-hour drive during evening traffic. Mocha consistently offers to drive long-distance to meet his clients. I assume that’s why he’s frequently running late. I have worked many different business models over the years and there is always an increased risk of being late when driving between cities to meet a client, ESPECIALLY if we are unfamiliar with the exact route.

 

For example, imagine if an escort at BWI was contacted at 4pm about a meeting in DC at 8pm. He might think he has plenty of time to get there if he’s unfamiliar with the area. Obviously he has to shower and eat before he goes. Ok 8pm appointment... he checks google maps. Hmm ok it’s an hour drive to DC. He needs to leave by 6:30-6:45pm, right? WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG. But the escort doesn’t know that, because he’s not local. It’s very easy to end up late in situations like that.

[Mocha]

Why are you always seeming to run late??? It doesn't take a lot of planning to arrive somewhere on time, even if it's an hour and a half away?

 

Why do you have to be so fecking condescending ? I just emphasized WHY it requires a lot of planning. And please don’t come with mis-truths. It DOES take planning to arrive somewhere on time even it’s an hour and a half away and I’m not ALWAYS late, otherwise I wouldn’t of seen the 5 clients I’ve seen in the past week. There was 1 previous story about being late...and the reasons for it were assessed 1,000 times. Don’t twist it to make it seem like I’m always late.

 

But if technically I did ALWAYS arrive late, the reasons would be because it’s not like having a 9-5 job where you go to the same place day after day. I’m sure there’s people who drive to DC from Baltimore and vice versa. THE DIFFERENCE IS...they have a SCHEDULE. They’re not getting called the day of asking to go to a new location each time. Plus, it makes a difference when many clients aren’t willing to wait for a later arrival.

 

And don’t make it seem like I’m the only one. If I said I was hosting at a house/hotel an hour+ away and to come to me...most clients wouldn’t even think twice about doing it, so let’s be clear on that. I used to live a measly 6 miles west of downtown in Denver, and clients would occasionally still say I was too far away.

 

But I don’t mind doing it because 250-500... (one guy gave me 400, but he scheduled the day before (initially tried to schedule the day of), and I arrived on time...but he still had to rush and leave within 30 minutes)...is worth an hour drive and back for me.

 

Again, I don’t mind doing it the same day. But what I do mind is when someone says, “well if you don’t get here by X, cancel” and I’ve already driven 50 miles into the trip. That’s why I start to ask them, “I just want to make sure you’re not going cancel if it takes me until X to arrive”.

Edited August 7, 2018 by Mocha

[Mocha]

Not true. Escorts are constantly asked to visit places we have never gone before. Google maps travel estimates can be wildly inaccurate. Especially when you have a multi-hour drive during evening traffic. Mocha consistently offers to drive long-distance to meet his clients. I assume that’s why he’s frequently running late. I have worked many different business models over the years and there is always an increased risk of being late when driving between cities to meet a client, ESPECIALLY if we are unfamiliar with the exact route.

 

For example, imagine if an escort at BWI was contacted at 4pm about a meeting in DC at 8pm. He might think he has plenty of time to get there if he’s unfamiliar with the area. Obviously he has to shower and eat before he goes. Ok 8pm appointment... he checks google maps. Hmm ok it’s an hour drive to DC. He needs to leave by 6:30-6:45pm, right? WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG. But the escort doesn’t know that, because he’s not local. It’s very easy to end up late in situations like that.

 

Exactly, and like I said those hours go by very fast. If I’m wrapping up a gym workout, or checking into a hotel...that can really slow up time as well. Those are also considered “rush hour” times as well. In fucking Orlando, you can easily lose 1 hour of planning time sitting in traffic lights, avoiding/detouring around freak accidents and bullshit during rush hour. I’m glad most of my appointments in Orlando are at night when it somewhat settles down.

 

At the same time, sometimes I can get places faster when I’m traveling because I’m already living out of a suitcase, and already out and about. It’s easier to move around. Plus I have the option to lodge closer to where I need to be for appointments versus being in a fixed location. When I’m at home, I can’t sit around and vegetate and be primed for business 24/7.

 

I have known some escorts to run late and not even say anything, until they show up. I once had a 3 som appointment, I got there first...the lady escort showed up 30 min after, and simply knocked. Client was like, “I didn’t think she was still coming”. I wouldn’t necessarily condone that, but I can see why some escorts wouldn’t bother giving minute by minute updates. What’s the point when 10 minutes away, they’re saying, “get here by 10 or cancel”. Fuck.

Edited August 8, 2018 by Mocha

[DR FREUD]

If you have agreed to a time possibly 4 or 5 hours in advance then you have done the calculations already. Why would you then run late by going to the gym or any other errands outside you plan? You have more excuses than Carter has pills when it comes to hating escorting. Why not just get into a field of work you can enjoy and not bitch about for years and years on end.

[bnm73]

Well, if the appointment is a 90 minute drive away, why would you wait until an hour and a half before the appt. time to leave? Any little thing means you're going to be delayed and therefore late. Any hitch in traffic, etc...but that's a bit of a digression.,

 

If the time and traffic and such are problematic, maybe your ads, postings, etc. should reflect that "I'm a 90 minute drive in the best of circumstances from Tampa and/or Orlando....please take that into consideration." Just as clients need to express their expectations, escorts should also make be clear about any extenuating circumstances.

[MiamiLooker]

[bnm73]

 

I counter that with a quote from Grandpa Simpson: The good Lord lets us grow old for a reason; to gain the wisdom to find fault with everything He’s made.

[DR FREUD]

Joey has never had chips, but boulders on both shoulders.

[Mocha]

If you have agreed to a time possibly 4 or 5 hours in advance then you have done the calculations already. Why would you then run late by going to the gym or any other errands outside you plan? You have more excuses than Carter has pills when it comes to hating escorting. Why not just get into a field of work you can enjoy and not bitch about for years and years on end.

 

Why, why, why. Why, why why. Why don’t you Shut the f**k UP and mind your own?

 

If you are going to make statements, why not just say something uplifting instead of talking out your f-ing ass and trying to criticize and put down someone?

 

Well, if the appointment is a 90 minute drive away, why would you wait until an hour and a half before the appt. time to leave? Any little thing means you're going to be delayed and therefore late. Any hitch in traffic, etc...but that's a bit of a digression.,

 

If the time and traffic and such are problematic, maybe your ads, postings, etc. should reflect that "I'm a 90 minute drive in the best of circumstances from Tampa and/or Orlando....please take that into consideration." Just as clients need to express their expectations, escorts should also make be clear about any extenuating circumstances.

 

You’re not hearing what I’m saying. You’re misinterpreting what im saying, and trying to insiniuate it to be what you’re thinking. Put your thinking cap on. I’m not SAYING that I wait until an hour and a half to leave. I’m NOT saying that I do other things in between the time of the call and the appointment.

 

What I’m saying is, if I get a call AT A TIME THAT I AM doing something, and that person is in the mindframe of expecting that I can come right away just because they’re ready, then by the time that I finish and get ready for the session, it can easily turn into being that I only have the travel time to spare. Therefore, I’m rushed to arrive to the session.

 

I’ve had to turn down about 3 appointments this week, because they contact at the last minute and expect me to show up at their doorstep within a couple hours. I had one today who contacted to meet. It was almost 6:30 pm. I told him I could meet between 8 and 10 pm. Apparently for him, that would be too late. Well if he really wanted the session right when he got off the plane at his hotel, why couldn’t he plan the session before he got to town?

 

People just need to be realistic with themselves and stop being illogical when it comes to planning things out. Clients here talk about escorts cancelling on them, well I wonder why? Clients don’t always mind our time, why would an escort mind theirs? People nowadays don’t want to wait. It’s always a burden. Common sense would tell someone that if you decide to call an escort out of the blue, expect that that there needs to be a bit of coordination and compromise when it comes down to it. Or expect to get flaked on.

 

I can also understand if a client gets flaked on or catfishes, and decides to contact another provider at the last minute. But even still...don’t put me in a bind, just because another person didn’t live up to your expectations. I’m nobodies last minute backup plan.

Edited August 12, 2018 by Mocha

[bnm73]

My mistake. You just wanted to rant/bitch. Never mind.

[Mocha]

My mistake. You just wanted to rant/bitch. Never mind.

 

Yes, your mistake. I corrected you. And instead of saying, “ah okay, that’s a different point of view I didn’t consider”, you want to make some ignorant, conceited, self-centered comment about someone bitching.

 

Shut your mother fucking ass up bitch.

[bnm73]

Yes, your mistake. I corrected you. And instead of saying, “ah okay, that’s a different point of view I didn’t consider”, you want to make some ignorant, conceited, self-centered comment about someone bitching.

 

Shut your mother fucking ass up bitch.

 

....because the internet doesn't have enough people trying to inflict their drama on everyone else....

[Mocha]

....because the internet doesn't have enough people trying to inflict their drama on everyone else....

 

Speak for yourself...yet you seem to keep coming to engage.

 

That’s exactly why I can’t come on here and share anything about my doings. I regret it every time. Every time I come on here. All y’all do is criticize, attack, and demean someone and twist shit around to favor your own judgmental bias.

 

I’m out!

[bnm73]

What does that even mean? And why do you have to take any comments/questions like a personal insult? *sheesh* /ignore

[Mocha]

What does that even mean? And why do you have to take any comments/questions like a personal insult? *sheesh* /ignore

 

Because you’re being a fucking asshole about it, that’s why. Ignore your damn self.

[Mocha]

 

You always have something inconsiderate to say, don’t you?

 

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[bigvalboy]

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