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Who is into this scene? It is similar to muscle worship. While the worshipee is often muscular it is not a strict requirement. Very often they have a dangerous occupation or are naturally bad boys or come across effortlessly confident and extremely so. They often go under the radar and may not oresent themselves as available. There used to be sooo many good guys in this scene but its the season of the twinks. Speak up if you got leads.

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Who is into this scene? It is similar to muscle worship. While the worshipee is often muscular it is not a strict requirement. Very often they have a dangerous occupation or are naturally bad boys or come across effortlessly confident and extremely so. They often go under the radar and may not oresent themselves as available. There used to be sooo many good guys in this scene but its the season of the twinks. Speak up if you got leads.

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If you’re looking for an “alpha” escort, the Deli is probably a better place to ask than the Lounge where the other post is.

 

I’ve spent quite a bit of time in alpha/sub porn and writings, most of the latter fictional fantasy. There are also submissive men who identify as “faggots” in real life (not just fantasy life) and identify some men (usually, but not always, straight-identifying) as naturally/genuinely superior “true alphas,” and who see their place as serving an alpha.

 

It’s pretty clear that for some it’s not role-play with enthusiastic consent, it’s actual willing, on/going submission. And it’s distinct from master/slave relationships (although there’s overlap in the cultures) in that while master/slave relationships can be affectionate and loving, the alpha/faggot dynamic (at least at its extreme end) is rooted in superiority/inferiority and humiliation of the “faggot.” I’ve seen taxonomies of don/sum relationships where “faggots” are ranked lower on a scale (of masculinity? of worth?) than “slaves.”

 

This seems to become an actual reality for some guys. For me, it’s sometimes an arousing space for fantasy and role play—a place to visit rather than a place to live.

 

I imagine that some of the escorts into BDSM can do the alpha thing, but that’s probably not what you’re looking for, if you’re just looking for a natural, genuine alpha whose not necessarily into BDSM. Certainly there are a lot of escorts who can be very dominant. I’m not aware of any specific one who identifies as a “true alpha” as it seems to me to be understood in the alpha/faggot subculture. But there may be some, and you may hear from them.

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If you’re looking for an “alpha” escort, the Deli is probably a better place to ask than the Lounge where the other post is.

 

I’ve spent quite a bit of time in alpha/sub porn and writings, most of the latter fictional fantasy. There are also submissive men who identify as “faggots” in real life (not just fantasy life) and identify some men (usually, but not always, straight-identifying) as naturally/genuinely superior “true alphas,” and who see their place as serving an alpha.

 

It’s pretty clear that for some it’s not role-play with enthusiastic consent, it’s actual willing, on/going submission. And it’s distinct from master/slave relationships (although there’s overlap in the cultures) in that while master/slave relationships can be affectionate and loving, the alpha/faggot dynamic (at least at its extreme end) is rooted in superiority/inferiority and humiliation of the “faggot.” I’ve seen taxonomies of don/sum relationships where “faggots” are ranked lower on a scale (of masculinity? of worth?) than “slaves.”

 

This seems to become an actual reality for some guys. For me, it’s sometimes an arousing space for fantasy and role play—a place to visit rather than a place to live.

 

I imagine that some of the escorts into BDSM can do the alpha thing, but that’s probably not what you’re looking for, if you’re just looking for a natural, genuine alpha whose not necessarily into BDSM. Certainly there are a lot of escorts who can be very dominant. I’m not aware of any specific one who identifies as a “true alpha” as it seems to me to be understood in the alpha/faggot subculture. But there may be some, and you may hear from them.

 

Thanks for insight. The bdsm scene is a bit more staged so to speak. A true alpha many times doesnt know he is playing that role and he doesnt understand the complexities. That is what makes it hot. I was watching some ufc the other night and many exemplify what i mean. The bouncer outside the club with a bald head n a scowl. If you can get him back to ur ppace he orob wont understand worship but he may well do it better than everyone who knows the scene

 

Here is a good idea of types of guys i am referencing.

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Just in case you don’t know already, Tradehunter, there are a lot of “alpha” guys on Tumblr, where this scene seems most active. A lot of them are obviously playing a role, of course.

 

Sounds like you are looking for a “natural alpha” who doesn’t necessarily use that label. Some of the guys on Tumblr who are into serving alphas have written at length about their techniques for spotting an alpha guy and gradually developing a relationship in which they do increasingly significant favors/services. Over time they become a kind of servant who sometimes is used by the alpha for sexual release, usually for the alpha’s pleasure, maybe occasionally as a reward for the “faggot.” (Interestingly it’s almost always “faggot” and almost never “fag.”)

 

That’s a big time/energy investment. If you just want a basically straight guy whose dick you can suck (“rough trade,” as your screen name suggests you are “hunting” for) I’m not sure the best place to look. Used to be street hustlers (my first hire decades ago, which introduced me to a part of myself I didn’t know was there), more recently Craigslist.

 

I had an older friend years ago, before the Internet age, who was a genius at finding straight guys to let him suck their dicks. Somehow, from his little assisted-living apartment in a small town, he’d find guys to service. Must have been classified ads. As an aside, he seemed uninterested in anything other than their cocks, which he’d describe and rate. “One of the best I’ve ever had,” he told me about one, referring to the cock and not the rest of the guy or his body.

 

I’ve hired sex workers in person and on the phone to role play alpha/faggot stuff with me, and it’s been really powerful and cathartic and energizing. (At present I’m staying out of that head space myself.) I’m sure you can find an escort to role play it with you while, if that’s what you are really looking for, you wait to find and cultivate a real-life alpha.

 

Are you looking for an ongoing serve-and-service-an-alpha relationship or just hookups? (Or something else?) Interesting topic (to me) which doesn’t come up here often.

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Just in case you don’t know already, Tradehunter, there are a lot of “alpha” guys on Tumblr, where this scene seems most active. A lot of them are obviously playing a role, of course.

 

Sounds like you are looking for a “natural alpha” who doesn’t necessarily use that label. Some of the guys on Tumblr who are into serving alphas have written at length about their techniques for spotting an alpha guy and gradually developing a relationship in which they do increasingly significant favors/services. Over time they become a kind of servant who sometimes is used by the alpha for sexual release, usually for the alpha’s pleasure, maybe occasionally as a reward for the “faggot.” (Interestingly it’s almost always “faggot” and almost never “fag.”)

 

That’s a big time/energy investment. If you just want a basically straight guy whose dick you can suck (“rough trade,” as your screen name suggests you are “hunting” for) I’m not sure the best place to look. Used to be street hustlers (my first hire decades ago, which introduced me to a part of myself I didn’t know was there), more recently Craigslist.

 

I had an older friend years ago, before the Internet age, who was a genius at finding straight guys to let him suck their dicks. Somehow, from his little assisted-living apartment in a small town, he’d find guys to service. Must have been classified ads. As an aside, he seemed uninterested in anything other than their cocks, which he’d describe and rate. “One of the best I’ve ever had,” he told me about one, referring to the cock and not the rest of the guy or his body.

 

I’ve hired sex workers in person and on the phone to role play alpha/faggot stuff with me, and it’s been really powerful and cathartic and energizing. (At present I’m staying out of that head space myself.) I’m sure you can find an escort to role play it with you while, if that’s what you are really looking for, you wait to find and cultivate a real-life alpha.

 

Are you looking for an ongoing serve-and-service-an-alpha relationship or just hookups? (Or something else?) Interesting topic (to me) which doesn’t come up here often.

 

Thanks fot articulating this fetish as accurately as you did. Trade hunting is a dying art. Plus i think most ppl are quite content with betas imitating alphas doing roleplay(which is all i see). I tend to have better luck in person. Many guys outta jail are perfect for this. Can u imagine having gay men doting on u while u just kickback vs having to be on the block selling god knows what. I always felt like if the hustler scene got developed it could keep the rentboys honest. If you were with guys lije the ones i posted ur not going back to imposters.

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Thanks fot articulating this fetish as accurately as you did. Trade hunting is a dying art. Plus i think most ppl are quite content with betas imitating alphas doing roleplay(which is all i see). I tend to have better luck in person. Many guys outta jail are perfect for this. Can u imagine having gay men doting on u while u just kickback vs having to be on the block selling god knows what. I always felt like if the hustler scene got developed it could keep the rentboys honest. If you were with guys lije the ones i posted ur not going back to imposters.

 

Oh, man, if you are into genuine rough trade, you aren't going to find from advertising escorts. Seek and ye shall find, and please remember that it's a really, really dangerous hobby. That power/exploitation dynamic can fuel violence, and there are plenty of sociopaths and psychopaths out there.

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Oh, man, if you are into genuine rough trade, you aren't going to find from advertising escorts. Seek and ye shall find, and please remember that it's a really, really dangerous hobby. That power/exploitation dynamic can fuel violence, and there are plenty of sociopaths and psychopaths out there.

 

Its not for beginners. Its a trained specialty. The same way u cant try to do what cobra charmers do. Exposure to violence is almost non existent if you exercise patience. I am looking to connect with ppl in this scene. I am well aware you cant find this on sitea. Maybe in the old days. Nowadays exceptionalism is now longer of value. Anyone can be an escort in the old days they all looked like gi joe face body n attitude. The guys i see nowadays would not have survived. Tbh only a handful of guys who advertise can even be called hot.

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There are a couple of guys in the US who might qualify, but I find the guys in other countries more in line with that.

Nonetheless, you might consider these guys if out west coast:

 

https://rentmen.eu/RuggedForRent

 

https://rentmen.eu/jasonslooking

 

Def not either. You can always tell when a man is posing for a pic vs being himself. He is projecting his idea of an alpha. An alpha is just himself n the world around him crowns him with that title. Alphas are not self aware and rarely use that term.

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Lol im losing the batyle in my own thread. Its like u guys are doing satire of alphas lol.

 

 

I agree with the you. Highly unlikely you will find your type of man here or on RM.

Also highly unlikely that a man who says he's an alpha is truly an alpha. I don't particularly value alpha men so I don't share your interest. I correspond with a guy on Recon who picks closeted guys up at Home Depot. That's more your venue.

They're guys who are mostly straight but who have a lititle itch that needs to b e scratched.

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So what exactly is "alpha worship?" I like alphas. I like masculinity. Natural masculinity. But I also get pissed off real easily at assholes and douches. Cool confidence is a real turnon, arrogance isn't. Real alphas don't have to prove anything. If I get with an alpha, how do I "worship" him?

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