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I always preferred an escort who could host, simply because that made it easier for me to just leave if things did not go smoothly.

For me it's simply because when the escort hosts it's always the cheaper option. If I book a hotel room I'm literally doubling the cost, with the price for the hotel and the upcharge for an outcall (all escorts where I live offer lower prices for incalls). There's no real "cheap" hotel options where I hire. Booking a hotel room is often the same price as 1 hour incall.
 
Also I don't really like the idea of an unknown escort (or hookups in general) to know my home address.
 
Do you offer a lower rate for outcalls? This would be one way to attract more clients who are able to host.

I have to add:
Mike Austin https://rentmen.eu/MikeAustin
Knows how to use big tool, passionate,  great kisser and cuddler

Seconding TommyColeXXL - he is very very handsome and hows how to use his very very large tool.

Is he worth the price though? That's high.

LOL.. in my defense - it's ALOT of name changes. The name change thread was hilarious... thanks for pointing it out. This forum is so fun. Thanks guys.

I'll be in NYC this summer and was wondering if anyone would have any suggestions for me.
 
In the past, I've hired escorts when traveling. My interests have most often been very tame ... mostly into affectionate play. Kissing, touching, jerking. Oral and anal activities were never really what I was looking for.
 
Over recent years, I've hired masseurs, as I really enjoy a good massage ... mostly on the sensual side. But I have missed the 'affectionate' interaction with an escort.
 
So, I'm wondering if there are any sensual/erotic masseurs out there that are good at integrating some affectionate play into their massage.
 
Any suggestions are welcome and appreciated.

My RM profile doesn't contain photos, but the name suggests body type and indicates that I'm of color, as does the text that describes what I'm looking for. I can only guess that to be the reason for the strange response, but irrespective of the reason, Conner's conduct exhibited unprofessionalism and plain old lack of manners.
 
Some escorts are true courtesans and treat all clients (prospective and consummated) well because they view this as their job or profession. Others may do so just because they're classy and respectful in all of their dealings, even if they view escorting as a fleeting side gig. Men of such character are hard to find in general, so when I find a good escort, I try to maintain that relationship. I'm grateful to the great guys I've found in this business who've enriched my life, as all good sex workers do.

Best Text I gotten from a new client " HOW LONG IS YOUR 1 HOUR MASSAGE"  ????

Which is why I always create a new contact in my address book, then copy and paste the number into it.

If i can hijack this thread slightly - most of my hiring sprees occurs when I'm on the road ( international ). I typically contact providers 1-2 weeks before to check in with them on availability. 
Most will let me know their availability but will  ask me to text them the day before to check in, which I do. But because of my travel, and tight schedules - planning is required.
I've been taking a very direct approach, but in my experience is most providers really don't want to hear from me 1-2 weeks before, but days before. That may impact speed of response. 
To the poster that mentioned deposits : There's a very lively thread about deposits which I will describe as "fierce" 

I have a thing for the trojan warrior on the front of American Express cards...but that brings us to fetishes 
I never leave home without it . For travel and entertainment😋😈

my biggest fear being that forward in the first text is my fear i transposed a number 

Have AMEX Centurion Card in hand. Come to Daddy. . .

“Sup” always works for me! 

@Benjamin_Nicholas The reason why I hire is because I don’t enjoy the chase. If  i did I would just work Grindr and Scruff .   
I want to have the best kind of hot sex at a time window of my choosing , with someone who is a 10/10 in both physical appearance and technique . 
Providers should figure out the rest 
I think providers should keep it simple - there is enough drama on this forum already and in the gay world in general - i don’t need it when i’m hiring a professional 

You shouldn't need to put on your best hoop-skirt to get a man's attention, especially when there's money on that table.
A simple text is enough.  
Do you really enjoy the chase?

Wow! I didn’t know that! Thank you. This forum has been far more educational than any school I have been to ?

Well I decided to take the plunge and it was easily one of the hottest experiences I've had (free or paid) in 2019. He's sexy as fuck, has a killer body and wowed me in every way over multiple rounds.
 
He's total boyfriend material; a sweet guy, smart, wild in bed and open.
 
I asked him about types he's generally into and he has a wide range of guys he's attracted to. He mentioned that one of his best regulars is African American so the hearsay that he's not into people of color is inaccurate.
 
Conner is a hot wholesome guy just doing this part time while he goes to school, so get him while he's available!
 
WOOOOOF

The profile dates from October 2019. That is a long time for 'trying this out' as he states ...
 
I guess it has been a good experience for him so far.

Not the body I'd expect from someone who goes to the gym 5x/wk but YUM!
Beautiful Colombian specimen, he can breed me any time, we won't have babies.
The neck tattoo is common among the working class in Latin America.
That and the trades pic wearing his helmet made my pussy wink

As always great advice from theotherguy. Keep it professional, brief, to-the-point. Don't associate money with acts. Be polite and respectful. Look for guys with positive reviews at daddysreviews dot com. Don't rely on RM reviews at all. Ask here for comments if you zero in on one or two guys who appeal to you.
 
At the meeting, smile, talk slowly, firm handshake, look him in the eyes, chat a bit. Don't rush, but keep an eye on the clock so you get all you want before time's up! Stay in control and don't let him delay things. Ask what he likes, too, and accommodate that if you're ok with it.
 
Very personal habit, but I like to give gift cards as a small tip. I ask what their favorite food store or similar is and pick one up as an extra thank-you.
 
Lots more hints are possible. I hope others offer ideas. Also, use the search box at upper right for other newbie hints

https://rent.men/NicoBellic
 
short, balding, 3 legs...i'm in

Huge third leg!

at those rates, I'm just wondering why he doesn't just go for $525/90 minutes??!!.......