Crushing on RonnieJ

[Njguy908]

I've been a lerking here for years and I'm getting closer to taking the plunge. I have a huge crush on RonnieJ. He doesn't come up often.

 

It is just like a normal grinder hook up? What advice can someone offer that doesn't get posted on the board.

 

Thanks guys I appreciate all the posts.

 

https://rent.men/RonnieJ

[good ol boy]

I remember when he used to dance at Key wEST in Philly .... a LOOOOOONg time ago....

If he would bottom I would have hired him

He has also done some lite porn some wrestling vids etc

[Guest TheOtherGuy]

he's super hot. I have a crush on him too. I wish he would come to LA!

I've been a lerking here for years and I'm getting closer to taking the plunge. I have a huge crush on RonnieJ. He doesn't come up often.

 

It is just like a normal grinder hook up? What advice can someone offer that doesn't get posted on the board.

 

Thanks guys I appreciate all the posts.

 

https://rent.men/RonnieJ

What kind of advice are you looking for specifically? How to go about contacting and meeting a guy?

[Njguy908]

I would bottom for him. I just want to kiss him and see that face in person. Adorable guy.

 

I've never reached out to a rent guy before. I don't know the terminology. I would tell him what porn scene i want to play out and go from there. Idk I'm easy going.

[Guest TheOtherGuy]

My "script" usually goes something like:

"Hey Ronnie, my name is Chris and I saw your ad online. I'm definitely interested in spending some time with you, can I ask you a few questions over text to make sure we're the right fit? If it's easier to discuss this over the phone, then I am happy to chat with you too"

 

If I get an affirmative response then I proceed with being direct about what I am looking for, something like:

"I'm a late 30's gay guy who has a thing for muscular guys. I have a fantasy of a scene like _______. I like giving oral, muscle worship, top/bottom, massage, body contact, and blah blah blah. Is this something you are comfortable with?"

Also the important question "What is your rate for an hour of time?"

 

I find that as long as you are considerate of their time and make your questions pretty straight forward you'll get a good response.

Also, I have found that when hiring guys (especially those who identify as straight) you need to be very clear about your expectations and what you want from them.

For example: "I see in your ad that you are straight, I respect your boundaries and want to know are you ok with french kissing with tongue? Also when you are receiving oral are you able to perform and reach orgasm? I really like when a guy climaxes when I am servicing him orally"

 

Obviously you'll use your own words. I have found that providers who are genuinely interested in their clients having a good experience will be happy to answer a few questions as long as you keep it short and to the point. I am sure other people on here have their own ways of checking out if someone is a match and you'll probably get some additional suggestions. Good luck!

[Njguy908]

How do u know I'm Chris and late 30s?? I'm not a fan giving head though nor care if the other person cums he can save it for the next dude.

 

Thanks for tips!! Espeically about the kissing thing I would have just said kissing.

[Guest TheOtherGuy]

How do u know I'm Chris and late 30s?? I'm not a fan giving head though nor care if the other person cums he can save it for the next dude.

 

Thanks for tips!! Espeically about the kissing thing I would have just said kissing.

LOL! Um, my name is Chris and I am in my late 30's. I was giving you an example of MY script so you could get an idea of what to say.

[+ azdr0710]

As always great advice from theotherguy. Keep it professional, brief, to-the-point. Don't associate money with acts. Be polite and respectful. Look for guys with positive reviews at daddysreviews dot com. Don't rely on RM reviews at all. Ask here for comments if you zero in on one or two guys who appeal to you.

 

At the meeting, smile, talk slowly, firm handshake, look him in the eyes, chat a bit. Don't rush, but keep an eye on the clock so you get all you want before time's up! Stay in control and don't let him delay things. Ask what he likes, too, and accommodate that if you're ok with it.

 

Very personal habit, but I like to give gift cards as a small tip. I ask what their favorite food store or similar is and pick one up as an extra thank-you.

 

Lots more hints are possible. I hope others offer ideas. Also, use the search box at upper right for other newbie hints

[Njguy908]

Thanks!

 

Chris #2

[+ ProGay]

From Ronnie J's ad:

 

"Many of my clients I see more than once... what I'm saying is no need to look any further.... Ronnie J to the rescue!"

[Njguy908]

Sounds like a threat ha