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  1. Eye Roll
    Lord_Oliver got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in 411 on HotDentalStudent - I know this will be controversial thread.   
    He’s just a gay man in denial. 
  2. Applause
    Lord_Oliver got a reaction from Bluefin in Massage and sex   
    Which century of darkness these comments come from? 
    I believe all the ladies here are adults, and they are responsible for their actions, and choices. STI’s are spread in the gay community, and has different reasons. 
    One weird comment, calculating how many clients the masseur have sex with them daily…. Who the fuck provide sex 5 times a day, 7 days a week??  The iron man failed has no enough power to do that. 
    the STI can get you from anywhere and anyone. Start  checking with your boy friend as step one, if you have one. 
    one a second note, this is 2021! I think it’s time to wake up from this mental retardation, and labeling/judging/stigmatizing people, for having an STI, or HIV. 
    im not taking a side here… and I dnt care about the masseur and I dnt care about the client. But I just couldn’t ignore all these absurd comments and discussions. 
    I really wish to know who’s behind this darkness.
     
    get educated people, get educated…
    Education is enlightenment for the mind and soul.  
     
     
  3. Confused
    Lord_Oliver got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Stop gossiping   
    As a member and a reader, I noticed that the reviews here are more gossips, and unfair judgmental tool either to praise someone, or  infamy.
    Some of these guys has no roof above his head at night. And tries the impossible to survive. 
    let’s show some mercy, when giving our opinion in them. 
    there some reviews that are completely acceptable and informative. But the others are nothing than a cheap gossiping. 
    another thing I noticed… some people discuss  guys as if they were a product or a piece of meat. This is completely against human rights, and against any law. Sex work is a work, and nothing can downgrade these guys to the level of discuss them in this way.
    It’s good to remember that without them, some unfortunate men will stay virgin for the rest if their lives.
    With all my respect, my regards and appreciation for every guy fighting the world to keep standing on his feet and keep his head up. 
    You are phenomenal my dear, the work you do won’t change who really you are. Keep going! Keep fighting! You are Resilient. 
     
    J.M.
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    Lord_Oliver got a reaction from caliguy in Stop gossiping   
    As a member and a reader, I noticed that the reviews here are more gossips, and unfair judgmental tool either to praise someone, or  infamy.
    Some of these guys has no roof above his head at night. And tries the impossible to survive. 
    let’s show some mercy, when giving our opinion in them. 
    there some reviews that are completely acceptable and informative. But the others are nothing than a cheap gossiping. 
    another thing I noticed… some people discuss  guys as if they were a product or a piece of meat. This is completely against human rights, and against any law. Sex work is a work, and nothing can downgrade these guys to the level of discuss them in this way.
    It’s good to remember that without them, some unfortunate men will stay virgin for the rest if their lives.
    With all my respect, my regards and appreciation for every guy fighting the world to keep standing on his feet and keep his head up. 
    You are phenomenal my dear, the work you do won’t change who really you are. Keep going! Keep fighting! You are Resilient. 
     
    J.M.
  5. Confused
    Lord_Oliver got a reaction from jimbosf in Stop gossiping   
    As a member and a reader, I noticed that the reviews here are more gossips, and unfair judgmental tool either to praise someone, or  infamy.
    Some of these guys has no roof above his head at night. And tries the impossible to survive. 
    let’s show some mercy, when giving our opinion in them. 
    there some reviews that are completely acceptable and informative. But the others are nothing than a cheap gossiping. 
    another thing I noticed… some people discuss  guys as if they were a product or a piece of meat. This is completely against human rights, and against any law. Sex work is a work, and nothing can downgrade these guys to the level of discuss them in this way.
    It’s good to remember that without them, some unfortunate men will stay virgin for the rest if their lives.
    With all my respect, my regards and appreciation for every guy fighting the world to keep standing on his feet and keep his head up. 
    You are phenomenal my dear, the work you do won’t change who really you are. Keep going! Keep fighting! You are Resilient. 
     
    J.M.
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    Lord_Oliver got a reaction from + Lucky in Stop gossiping   
    As a member and a reader, I noticed that the reviews here are more gossips, and unfair judgmental tool either to praise someone, or  infamy.
    Some of these guys has no roof above his head at night. And tries the impossible to survive. 
    let’s show some mercy, when giving our opinion in them. 
    there some reviews that are completely acceptable and informative. But the others are nothing than a cheap gossiping. 
    another thing I noticed… some people discuss  guys as if they were a product or a piece of meat. This is completely against human rights, and against any law. Sex work is a work, and nothing can downgrade these guys to the level of discuss them in this way.
    It’s good to remember that without them, some unfortunate men will stay virgin for the rest if their lives.
    With all my respect, my regards and appreciation for every guy fighting the world to keep standing on his feet and keep his head up. 
    You are phenomenal my dear, the work you do won’t change who really you are. Keep going! Keep fighting! You are Resilient. 
     
    J.M.
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    Lord_Oliver reacted to Jarrod_Uncut in Made the decision to go on partial "Rentamental" Shutdown(private pics)   
    A little play on words, but not necessarily one that's been averted with a signature from the president 😄
    But I have decided to remove all nude pics from my RentMasseur private gallery, and move all my nudes on RentMen to FULL private. I’ve toyed with this before previously, but this time I’m leaving it for good.
    I feel I’ve done enough, too much free advertising to people out here who have 0 respect for my time or craft. I have been generous long enough, sharing my photos with potential “suitors”, but the time for that ends today. I’m not doing it anymore. If someone wants to see my private pics, they will need to:
    1. Have an appointment, and/or
    2. Pay a deposit
    I’m just not doing it anymore. I don't feel people out here aren't considerate about the work and advertising that goes into being on the site. I’m only dealing with clients on a very “reserved” basis going forward. As in, those who are reserved will receive the material. The rest don’t appreciate it and I’m tired of having my time wasted and disrespected week, after week. Day after day. Over and over again. 
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    Lord_Oliver reacted to Jarrod_Uncut in What Makes you STOP Responding to Client's Messages?   
    Well do you mind if I give YOU some "unsolicited" feedback? lol
    It sounds like you have good intent, but you may be coming off like a jerk about it. Just by calling him a "slick fucker" in itself, demeans the sex worker. What was this suggestion really for? Was it to say you didn't have a good time, or was it to better him and see him be a bit more successful? Because if it's the latter, you accomplished your goal. He probably assessed the advice, though unwarranted, and is trying to take it in stride versus taking it as a jab. And if you gave him some initial feedback, why follow up with more feedback later? And then you're going to go and tell/ask your "regular" provider about him? What more do you want?
    This reminds me of a client I met the other week. He was polite and fun, but he kind of went on and on about other escorts/massage guys he's hired. Including his partner, which he wanted to take a picture of me and send to him (I countered and gave him my biz card instead). I appreciate the comfort they find to talk about it, but at the end of the day: you don't really know this guy. You're not his father, or business manager, or advertising consultant. You're a client. If you're not trying to hire him again, don't berate him with advice...otherwise it'll just come off pushy and unappreciative. 
    I think clients need to be mindful not to fall into a habit of being gossipy. It's okay to share and discuss a provider you're interested in, but some people really take it to a whole other level. Like one client in Kansas City annoyed me by talking about 3 other providers, and I've not even met him! And he's already not kept 1 of his appointment requests. Then he later tells me of an escort/porn guy who came to town, saying that he came by but didn't meet him. I didn't even bother responding to it, I just skirted the comment all together. This person who was in town had nothing to do with me or me meeting him, so why bring it up?
    Stuff like that makes me not only stop responding, but all together blocking them and putting on the DND list. When someone starts purposely and willfully wasting my time, they lose their place as clients, and simply become nuisances. 
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    Lord_Oliver reacted to NYCMassageFan in Spas in NYC   
    Sergey is lean, a little on the short side, very athletic (gymnast type build?), lighter hair, very well groomed. Smooth/shaved look. Found his technique strong, with good integration of sensual and technical aspects.
    Shane is taller (to me at least), medium/athletic build, long hair/beard, fuzzy body hair. As someone noted, he does smoke.
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    Lord_Oliver got a reaction from new yorker gay in Spas in NYC   
    Oh Shane… excellent skills! But if he take care of the hygiene, he smells like a cigarette 🚬 
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    Lord_Oliver reacted to SoSoSoHo in Kareem in NYC   
    Keep us posted! He’s also on my list to try
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    Lord_Oliver got a reaction from + glutes in 411 on HotDentalStudent - I know this will be controversial thread.   
    He’s just a gay man in denial. 
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    Lord_Oliver reacted to + EVdude in 411 on Amir from WEHO coming to NYC   
    He’s coming back to NYC soon.
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/19256/
  14. Haha
    Lord_Oliver reacted to urbanfetish in 411 on spa 27   
    @HungreeMunkee69 I tried Mark yesterday. Pretty good massage. His hands moved fairly quickly for the first few minutes for the initial "head to toes" once over, but he slowed down as he concentrated on various areas (shoulders, lower back, legs, etc.) and gave a nice massage. I would repeat. 
  15. Verbose
    Lord_Oliver reacted to DJ Brum in 411 on spa 27   
    Seekers should give Mark a try.  He was great (as Max) at Super Men's and has just returned to Spa 27 (the #105 location).  Great massage, nice disposition and very easy on the eye (well-built Asian man)
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    Lord_Oliver reacted to JUWS in 411 on spa 27   
    I found his massage lacking in skills, very average, my experience ....
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    Lord_Oliver got a reaction from RBENJI in Recommendation for Spa in NYC   
    You have to select one and try it by yourself. All reviews are subjective and depends on the individual’s taste and standards. Add to that, some masseurs find this forum an opportunity to praise themselves thru creating fake accounts and fake names. It just happened to me last week, when I posted a review about someone really talented, and his massage was different from all the others that i have worked with. 
    and suddenly two or three members who obviously they work at the same spa where the guy is, to comment on my review and mocking me. It seems they were very upset because I mentioned how excellent the guy is, and how much I enjoyed my session.

    This incident, leaves me questioning every single review. And wonder if it’s a real one and if it’s based on an experience with an X or Y or Z masseur? Or it’s just a looser wants to get more clients…  
     
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