I'm semi-retired, and my regular monthly expenses are mostly covered by Social Security and drawing down my retirement nestegg. So the money I am earning from work mostly goes to vacations and hiring. In 2025, I had 3 vacations (2 European, 1 domestic) and spent about $14,000 on guys. I consider myself lucky to have found a great regular masseur, with plenty of mutually enjoyed benefits, so I spend about half of that on him, and the rest on other masseurs and a few full-service escorts.