Cure69

47 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

I'll also endorse getting that crack (and hole!) fully smooth before the big day....find a place that'll do it that you'll be comfortable at (primarily gay guys as customers??)......your provider will probably be grateful and more, uhhh, aggressive, too, as a result of the clean and smooth skin down there......

soldier thru the brief waxing pain.....

They do the hole, too!? 😳

Well, I do want to go all out! I know of a place near me in Chelsea, Manhattan (I've walked past it many times), they cater to the gay community here, I think they'll be a bit more experienced in that area below 😁

As for sugaring, okay ... Say no more, if there's less pain as you suggested, I'll most definitely inquire. 🙂

1 hour ago, jeezifonly said:

You’ve come this far. You’re planning this as a party for yourself, and the extra dollars and effort will leave you with the confidence you need to enjoy it. 

Go back and get the crack waxed, and then the rest you can shave. Btw, smooth cracks attract more tongue action, so be extra clean on the day of. You won’t regret that, believe me. So either you call that waxing studio right now or I’m going to do it for you. Do it! Get a move on!! 
The pain profile in the crack is about the same as the stomach. Much bigger payoff. You won’t be able to keep from feeling it once it’s smooth. Neither will he.

Wow, thanks a million @jeezifonly !!

You know what, you're absolutely right, I'll be making a phone call to a different location, though, since the place I just visited will likely have a heart attack if I were to bend over spread my cheeks and ask them to go ahead and get waxing! (They're a more traditional establishment with a team of Indian women.)

Oh! And uh, if the pain level is about the same as the stomach (which I handled quite well) I think I can do the crack just as admirably 🙂.

Thank you for the motivation 😜 I sincerely want to make this first hire a memorable one 🥰

11 minutes ago, purplekow said:

My interest in waxing is waning, but if you do not want a totally smooth nether region you may just go with a buzz cut or a shave which you can do yourself.  Just take your time and if you are shaving, shave the day before to avoid nicks and cuts interfering and before the stubble becomes an issue.  

Thanks! I think I'd go with a careful shave (front area and balls). My only problem is getting in that hard to reach area (between the crack). I would love it if it were smooth, at least this time. (Am I over thinking it?) I just want to make sure I feel confident and he feels good looking down as he goes inside me.

I just had my first waxing yesterday, wow! One caveat: I couldn't go further south than my waistline!

So, because I'm preparing for my first Rent Men experience, I love to take a little pride in making sure I'm as well-groomed as I can be. I plan on (and I love to) bottom so I want the man who will eventually top me (he will be my second experience and it will be my second time bottoming ever!) I want to make sure that he have as nice of an experience as possible, too.

That said: I was able to wax my ears, armpits, chest and stomach (I can't believe how good it looks and feels [to me]!!) ...

... But I was afraid to go further south past my waistline!!! Does it hurt? Is there a particular technique? Can anyone recommend someone they've gone to here in the NYC area? Help!

1 minute ago, Hlparx said:

In terms of cutting down on the number of visits to the ATM, you might want to consider opening a separate bank account.

Hmm, that would really be ideal. 🤔

3 hours ago, Pensant said:

Always cash, except for three long-term regulars. Zelle.

One day, maybe I can develop long-term regulars 😩

11 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

If they are window shopping, I'll definitely leave them alone.  if they ask for private photos, I'll tell them the photos should now be unlocked and also I'll flirt briefly and provide email and text information.

As someone who is still trying to figure out these waters, I would definitely appreciate this. I've looked at so many profiles but just don't conjure up the nerve to contact someone. If a provider were to reach out to me, that would mean so much to me and I'd definitely hire. (Still hoping to hire soon!)

3 hours ago, IronMaus said:

If they've viewed my page a lot and have descriptions and such in their profile I I'll strike up a conversation. I don't really see it as window shopping when they can see my butthole. It's more like they are picking up the sweater and I'm asking them "Is there anything I can help you find today?"

I love it 🙂

1 hour ago, robberbaron4u said:

I tricked with a man who tricked with a lad who tricked with a man who tricked with Ramon Novarro. . .working on my memoir to be  entitled "I cannot begin to tell you...."

And I'm still working on my first trick! 😞

On 7/9/2021 at 9:36 AM, jjkrkwood said:

 

 

I love him! Marry me please!!!!!!!!

8 minutes ago, justdevil120 said:

Thanks @Cure69 and @Redwine56. Spent an hour or so on a slow work afternoon browsing the forum

 

I just moved to the east side so ideally UES all the way down to LES if possible. Saw some posts about Shangrila which is close to me so specifically eyeing that one. No real preferences to ethnicity, but definitely love a muscular masseur... 

Let us know how it goes if and/or when you visit. 😁

1 hour ago, IronMaus said:

Of course! Photos aren't necessary. Just describe who you are, what you are looking for, and use the "physical" and "preferences" sections to be more thorough. This lets us know what you are looking for, removes a lot of pretense, and will attract more desirable attention for you.

Thank you! This is great. Descriptions I can do! 😁 I'm really looking forward to this.

3 hours ago, justdevil120 said:

New here... Googling massages have led me here

Anyone have any overall recommendations on which spa to try for a newbie?

From one newbie to another — Welcome! I recently found this Forum, too, and it's an incredible resource 👍🏼

Has anyone visited Babylon Spa on 6th Ave near Bryant Park, recently?

I'd like to finally make my first visit for a massage but I'm carefully reviewing my options. Help! 😁

On 7/23/2021 at 8:28 AM, Whitman said:

This would be my dream come true!

On 7/27/2021 at 7:12 AM, Whitman said:

I wish I were the one on his knees!!! Mmmmmmm!!!!

On 4/17/2021 at 11:58 AM, jjkrkwood said:

I would pay anything for him to top me, omg!!!!!

1 hour ago, Axiom2001 said:

EAGERLY!

OMG the way it bounces, yum!!!!!!

15 hours ago, Trick said:

Has anyone discovered a fool-proof way to send funds absolutely anonymously? By this I mean no cash or paper trail that can be linked back to you.

I tried looking up Cash App and funding it with prepaid cards.  It doesn’t work. I don’t want to dabble in cryptocurrency.

This is tough and almost an impossibility. But worth investigating.

I know for me, if thinking about hiring an escort, I normally withdraw unsuspicious amounts of cash every couple/few days or so until I receive the desired amount (I'm currently married and I'm also not out) but I've always opted to using cash since it isn't traced back to anything.

Not sure if this helps.

On 8/9/2021 at 11:46 AM, Mjonis said:

I agree, TOTALLY hot!

Me too! I've yet to experience a load exploding in my mouth but when I find the right guy, he's gonna be one lucky man!!!!

1 hour ago, Danny-Darko said:

As common as oral sex is, some guys take Cock Worship to whole different level which I feel makes it a fetish. It's hard to explain the fine line that defines it. Some are simply obsessed with it and it's all they want or only way they get off.

Once a long time ago I picked up a hot young cute very masculine English guy, who was visiting for a week in San Francisco. He was into watching straight porn while he sucked cock and swallowed cum. That was ALL he like and all he wanted. Suck cock and swallow load after load and he didn't seem too very selective about who it was either as long as the guy had a cock and shot a decent load. He spend day and night of that week on his knees at the bookstores with gloryholes and at the Windmills in Golden Gate park at night. I'd say that guy has a Oral Cock Fetish and he wasn't just another cocksucker either!   

 

He's my hero. (Only kidding ... but not really — but I am.)

23 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

I wonder if it’s actually a fetish. Most every sex advice writer out there, straight or gay, considers oral copulation a standard-issue activity. It has been for ages, especially sucking cock, because neither party has to be undressed to engage in it. 
Now, the boundless erotic pleasure you get from giving it in spectacular fashion is more specific. Can you get off without a dick in your mouth? If no, then maybe it does belong on your fetish list.
For the recipients, it’s seemingly a reason to keep your number handy! 

I honestly believe I cannot get off if a cock had not entered my mouth. In all honesty, I'd rather provide a blowjob, or play with a cock than touch myself. I sometimes forget who the person is behind the cock. Imagining cock going inside me is pretty much all I think of. I sincerely believe I fall under the cock fetish category. I'm trying to control it or be a bit more balanced. I don't know.

On 1/10/2021 at 3:20 PM, sbguy said:

Anyone have prior experience with Persian_PrinceXL? Offers both massage and other services.

 

https://rent.men/Persian_PrinceXL

Wow! I would love to spend time with him but I'm in NYC 😭😭 He's perfect!

On 8/11/2021 at 4:30 PM, IronMaus said:

M4Mforum and RentMen can work well for this. When a client puts enough information in their profile for me to understand whether I could offer what they want, I'm inclined to message them and say just that. Many of my long term clients began with me messaging them first.
The reviews used to work for this when people reviewed more - based on who you review and what you say, escorts can get a good sense of your desires and whether we'd get along.

Your advice is very helpful. But what about men like myself, I'd love to add images of myself but because I'm new to exploring my sexuality (unknown to everyone in my family), I'd refrain from posting a photo but would likely include lots of information about my likes and dislikes ...

... So, would an escort ever consider profiles without photos?

3 hours ago, Mjonis said:

Definitely possible.  If it's truly 100% oral (ie, no hands, 100% mouth) I can see that being the case.  I personally like a combo of hand/mouth, but everyone is different.

I think, unfortunately, in the gay community there's an expectation of certain things ("bottoms, tops, etc.")

Everyone is different.  Or as I like to say:  People are people.

 

So true.

18 hours ago, JoeMendoza said:

So...is it weird if someone, say, a friend of mine, has never gotten off from receiving oral? My friend also has not found that much enjoyment giving it either but the bitch is a total bottom. Does said friend just need to keep on this oral journey till he ends up enjoying it or maybe, if it is a fetish, maybe my friend just doesn't have this as one?

Your friend is pretty interesting, I gotta say 🙂 I don't think I can contribute much but I think I understand him.

Me, 100% bottom, I totally have a cock fetish, but I never used, and don't have any interest in using, fake cocks (dildos). I don't know why but it may be the same reason your friend is a bottom but does not like receiving or providing oral enjoyment ...

... One of those unexplained things I guess. 😌

On 8/8/2021 at 6:34 PM, Axiom2001 said:

I would like for my favorite go-to-guy who has an ad and photos and one video to change his ad on RM.  In his doing that, he would receive more clients. 

After we were together the first time, I wrote some highly favorable reviews at daddysreviews as well as on Rentmen.  After our third or fourth time being together, he thanked me profusely, for he'd received additional clients as well as reviews.  Even at this site-- some men inquired about him via PM's.  I chose to be frank in what they received from me.  

I'd pay for the ad, but I don't know whom to contact regarding the price.  Since this is sort of a gift from me to him-- I hesitate to ask him the cost.  When I find out, I'll discuss with him and proceed from there if he's amenable to it.

I'd suggest fewer and up-to-date photographs and perhaps more than one video.  I'd suggest that he include that he's been vaccinated.  If need be, I'd edit some of his wording.

He's a wonderful man, one whom I'd been seeing regularly for almost three years, the last time being in February of 2020.

In May of this year, he and I had an appointment, and although he'd mentioned that he'd received one of the vaccines, I was nervous and cancelled.  But in my doing so, I gave him his fee that he would have received if he'd given me his usual hot and stellar time that I'd received from him previously. 

I like this man, for he and I have connected, and when I've been with him, I've been candid in our various conversations.

This is a wonderful post, I love how the both of you connected. I long to have that kind of relationship with a provider.

May I ask, is he in the New York City area?