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OMG.... I just Googled it... Good Housekeeping... go figure.  Thank you Google.  Still would appreciate thoughts....
 

OMG.... I just Googled it... Good Housekeeping... go figure.  Thank you Google.  Still would appreciate thoughts....
 

Its weird.  I like seeing a provider with a few videos on RM; its like a demonstration of skills.  Recently I've had a 'crush' on a few guys and stumbled on to their OF pages some with some hardcore kink that isn't my kind of kink.
I know its a bit naive of me, but I guess I like a bit of mystery or the guys who lead 'double lives' - one kind of professional by day and a different by night.
Yes, I know... its like sleeping with a 'classic' porn star in many ways - but I've never been with a porn star.  For any guy in a video, watching them take two fists up the ass just kills it for me in my desire to have them top me.  Also watching guys openly participate in PnP sex is a huge turn off. 
I don't mean to be judgey here, just my personal preferences and curious how others feel about OF/JFF content in the context of a provider.

Totally don't have to answer this, but I've been dying to know... What's his dick like?

Its weird.  I like seeing a provider with a few videos on RM; its like a demonstration of skills.  Recently I've had a 'crush' on a few guys and stumbled on to their OF pages some with some hardcore kink that isn't my kind of kink.
I know its a bit naive of me, but I guess I like a bit of mystery or the guys who lead 'double lives' - one kind of professional by day and a different by night.
Yes, I know... its like sleeping with a 'classic' porn star in many ways - but I've never been with a porn star.  For any guy in a video, watching them take two fists up the ass just kills it for me in my desire to have them top me.  Also watching guys openly participate in PnP sex is a huge turn off. 
I don't mean to be judgey here, just my personal preferences and curious how others feel about OF/JFF content in the context of a provider.

https://rent.men/BROCK_SLATE

I'm seeing TommyColeXXL this weekend.  I think he can definitely scratch an itch.

Uh..... well.... damn this is going to sound like a know it all size queen...but what can I say, I like a big dick.
Pictures may need context.... People use different angles to make it look bigger.  There is also the size - height/weight/build - of the person in question.  
Case in point.... https://rent.men/MidwestHungJock - People doubted he was 10"+, but the guy is 6'6".  Just saying...
As for obsessed with penis size, yea... for me it's a definite fetish.... sorry for being stereotypical.  I also have had several experiences where I have cum without touching myself while getting fucked.... and almost all of those were with a bigger dick.  Could be mental or could be bigger dicks have more real estate to hit that prostate - but I know what I like. 
People get very judgey about this.... fascinating.... when those same people discriminate on age, build, race, masc/fem and hundreds of other factors.

https://rent.men/DiscoDick
I'd take a ride on that Disco Stick!

ok I want to set something straight - and this was my error.  I had a private discussion with @EastCoastBtmwho set me straight.   @EastCoastBtmwas referring to https://rentmen.eu/IvyLeagueEscort when he was recommending his favorite NYC top who has the standard rates.    
I mistakenly thought he meant https://rentmen.eu/HungVrsIvyLeague,  who has the $500 per hour price tag.  
I wanted to make this clear.   Sorry again for confusion.  

Moving into a new place and need to set the shower up for.... bottom preparedness ...any advice on what to buy?  Would also like a.... easy to remove and replace drain cover to help..... do everything in the shower.   Links to Amazon/Home Depot/Whatever appreciated!

Anyone have connections in the porn industry?  Or some aspiring stars from Only Fans, etc.?
I think there is a substantial void of younger tops/older bottoms pair ups in porn.
I have seen some twink top stuff... I want TWUNKS.... athletic guys in there 20s/early 30s pounding the hell out of attractive guys over the age of 45.
I feel like this is an under-served market.  If you can prove me wrong, please do.
Please feel free to post videos or pictures!

Stop talking about politics here.  Move it to the Politics thread. 
@RadioRob - Could you please close the thread?     
  
 

Stop talking about politics here.  Move it to the Politics thread. 
@RadioRob - Could you please close the thread?     
  
 

Not Connected at All
Why not?
As I am now firmly considered 'middle aged' (48yo - the gay elderly years), I look at things like Instagram and the 'gay press' and feel no connection to being gay anymore.  Gay bars and clubs, if even still in business, have lost their appeal.  Dating at this age, mostly feels a competition for consolation prizes.  Where do we derive our 'gay identity' from anymore?  I feel adrift. 
Part of me feels like it is too late.  I always felt ostracized by the 'mean girl body fascists' in the large cities I lived in my gay youth - DC, Philly, SF, NYC.  Looking down the road to my 50s, 60s, and hopefully 70s, I have a sense of fear and dread being alone or relying on my straight relatives for companionship.  
I'm coming off of a COVID 16 months of living with Mom in rural NC and its been wonderful connecting as an adult with her, but my return to the city looms.  For the first time in my life, I'm moving to the far suburbs to give something new a try.  It will be likely be harder to find other gay men, but I will give it my best try.  
I've read so many news stories about the epidemic of gay loneliness especially for gay Gen X men.  I apologize for the melancholia here, but just searching for like souls.  This forum is one of the few places, albeit small, where I find some connection still. 
 

I've gained 20 pounds during COVID by the scale and mostly entirely in my belly/stomach (by my assessment/looks in the mirror).  I'm meeting with a plastic surgeon next month.  May start with fat freezing.  I'll do some Botox again, dermabrasion... never tried fillers...
I'm never going to return to my muscle boy days; too many injuries.  My new plan is to try to get to lithe and lean - tons of cardio and low calorie diets.  I'm coming off a year of an ankle injury recently repaired via surgery.  Recovery is slow and frustrating.  I'm hoping a bit of 'light work' can jump start me in a better direction.  I hate what I see in the mirror after a shower.
Greatly appreciate this great advice.  Thanks to all who have taken the time to answer.

https://www.menshealth.com/fitness/a37081725/christopher-meloni-interview-law-and-order-organized-crime/

https://www.menshealth.com/fitness/a37081725/christopher-meloni-interview-law-and-order-organized-crime/

Do Olympic Trials count?

Do Olympic Trials count?

Anyone have connections in the porn industry?  Or some aspiring stars from Only Fans, etc.?
I think there is a substantial void of younger tops/older bottoms pair ups in porn.
I have seen some twink top stuff... I want TWUNKS.... athletic guys in there 20s/early 30s pounding the hell out of attractive guys over the age of 45.
I feel like this is an under-served market.  If you can prove me wrong, please do.
Please feel free to post videos or pictures!

Don’t we all go through shifts in our tastes over time? Not speaking about relationships and friends, but the more transient pleasures. I think if you had a “type” and never had a bad experience with that type, and limited experience with any other type, you might not change. “Only with facial hair, never taller than me, blah blah…” But, most of us have broader tastes (through experimenting) provided we haven’t remained in one location for life, nor been otherwise sheltered by location or cultural influence. 
Through work, I have been lucky in my life to be around men of all races, ages and types, from all over the world - some of them stunning in talent, appearance and charisma, and I can’t say that any personal encounter wanted to make me rule out any “type”.  Right here, are all sorts of men and various expressions of particular attractions, and I often learn from the way they’re discussed.
 
If a type catches my eye, it’s more likely the person wearing the type.
OK, fine. My type is beercan. 🤭