EastCoastBtm

Simply the best...

Just some thoughts and observations from my own personal experience.... I've hired on and off for over a decade. I have found that I personally need a little 'chemistry' with someone to really 'get off'. As such, I'm enjoy engaging with someone, usually over text or chat on RM, to get to know one another a bit - and I'm willing to compensate for that time. Yes, it includes what we're both 'into', and can include any questions about actually meeting and anything that entails, but I also like to find what else we could enjoy together - food, movies, video games, theater, sexual fantasies, how to please each other. I think many guys are surprised I'm willing to pay for chat given the very understandable attitude about endless chatting that leads to nothing or a provider who feels like they are being used for just sex talk. I respect my possible provider's time is valuable and therefore I should be willing to invest in a lengthier discussion for a 'vibe check'. Its led to more repeat situations and some longer term regulars. Just wanted to give you what my expectations would be if I was the one approaching you.... Have a rate, just for chatting - I don't think the same rate as actually meeting should apply because we can both multi-task and you can continue to be available to 'meet' with another client. But if you're just hanging, and don't mind texting or messaging, I guess - why not? I'm respectful of your time, please be respectful of mine - The biggest turn off is agreeing to chat, but then having to wait several minutes or hours or DAYS for a response - not cool - especially if I establish an expectation to be responsive and you agreed. I also appreciate you have a life and others maybe approaching, but I don't think its a bad expectation that we can at least chat 20-30 minutes uninterrupted. I'm not expecting instantaneous responses, but more than like 5 minutes can kill the vibe. That being said - life happens - if you need to leave or I need to pause the chat for any reason, its cool. It also doesn't mean it has to be a hard 'time allotment' either - I have a few guys that I text with often, and just shoot them something for some 'digital companionship'. Given the likelihood of electronic funds transfer for chat... - Although I'm not super paranoid about sending something on something like CashApp, the digital world we live in is changing. Visa walking away from RM is a perfect example. Do you really need a CashApp name like "PoundYou4$$$"? I made that up to be funny, but have had a couple that are similar. May be a personal thing, but lets not make it obvious! Don't make me do all the talking - Hopefully you feel comfortable enough to ask me questions. Be engaging. Take an interest. I'm willing to invest to get to know you, but hoping you will want to get to know me. Certainly open to advice or suggestions, but thought I would share my experience! Also wouldn't mind paying a provider I might want to hang with IRL to play video games with online - if you are out there, hit me up! Will compensate you for playing time!

Curious if this topic has come up before, but maybe under porn? These recent police dance videos make me think closer than what we realize to hardcore, made to order, brought to you by AI porn. Porn drove the home video electronic market - VHS beat Betamax because there was more porn for VHS! I would guess porn is somewhere out there, pushing AI to new heights as well. (Personal note - addicted to AI - both at work and personal. Really helping me!) The guy on the right.... WOOF. Wonder how many of us will take the plunge and become AI porn producers...... Why this is AI... Look at their chests.... The word I assume is for 'Police' is different and looks like it morphs a bit..... Guy on the far left.... Gloves keep changing. Both guys.... Something, like a headset maybe, kind of appears and disappears from their ear. [[Reason for edit]] And is that a minivan sitting in the tree? Upper right corner? And then of course... a very similar video with different guys - The channel has a TON of police dancing, mostly to the same song doing the EXACT same dance routine.

I digress... but this thread made me remember this TikTok/Short....

Based on the story of the Mitford sisters, six sisters who refused to play by the rules and whose often-scandalous lives made headlines around the world. Set in the 1930s, it is a tale of betrayal, scandal, heartache and even imprisonment. The Sisters included a famous author, a communist, a Nazi sympathizer, and a smattering of British fascists. Oh, and the only boy in the family, also Nazi sympathizer, had an affair with a boy at Eton and then went on to have affairs with women later in life until dying in the war fighting for Italy against the Allies - although I'm not sure he's in the show in a major way.

Bumping this thread.... Looking to treat myself for a birthday. Recommendations on Manhattan or Borough hotels with suites, preferably with a big shower or tub - two room suite or good layout - bed area, couch area? Where sex wouldn't bring a manager knocking on the door.... LOL I always think I'm going to want to have sex on the couch, but the damn bed is just so comfortable. Usually hang out for an all day session.... so nice to have hang out space. I like W style. Old Starwood. Stayed at Royalton crazy suite once - nice layout, horribly overused/dingy.

I was just in NYC for work. Stayed at Motto Times Square. I think on the corner of 7th maybe, there is a very nice looking store touting itself as the 'first legal weed store on Times Square'. Think it just opened.

Do legal places in NYC now carry THC infused cocktails? I've had CANN a few times.... its really nice..... eases me into an evening.

Is this confirmed? Trying to find the earlier post that may say that. I mean he looks like he could be given the attention he gives to his body, but he's also a bit of a 'nerd eccentric' and the younger set certainly are more body vain than older generations.

Come together on healthcare? Good luck with that. Some here and in the broader ecosystem are either already turning him into a folk hero or a hated 'leftist' - although the whole Japanese society thing sounds like forcing people to have kids.... so..... If I had to guess, similar to mass shootings, this type of 'political statement' killing will become just another 'that's too bad, but there's nothing we can do about it, thoughts and prayers' approach to discussing the issue. This will become normalized just like mass killings in the United States.

I didn't get the 'back' reference earlier.... but this is from his X.com page

Yep.... He's the one I 'bought'.

Totally bought one by the way.

This apparel site and its companion video brings back memories of fantasizing about guys in catalogs. What was that one that had a clothing catalog? But then had like a little companion underwear, swimsuit, and sports gear catalog? Undergear? How did I not know I was gay? I mean come on - BAERSkins ? I suggest watching the video first. The BÆRSkin Hoodie 4.0 BAERSKINTACTICAL.COM The ultimate outdoor hoodie. Waterproof shell outside. Heat-retaining fleece Inside. The BÆRSkin Hoodie 4.0 is waterproof, heat-retaining, and designed for extreme...