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If you haven’t been “on the edge” of orgasm for several minutes at a time, you should try and you too would be addicted to it. Imagine how hot am orgasm is. Then imagine being on that level for a half hour.

I think you do know how to deal with it if it happens again. In fact, you even told us:
 

 
Yeah, it'd feel shitty saying that to someone, but it would need to be said in that situation. In the long run, I bet the client would appreciate your honest reality check.

Regardless of if you discuss more payments or not, you should definitely pay more if you are getting more.
 
Often times guys on these forms complain that it “kills the mood” to discuss further payment. Yet a ton of y’all want more than a massage.
 
Masseurs, no doubt, pick up on these two things as well, which give of mixed signals. This puts them in a position Where they have to gamble. Perhaps they do more and get a tip, or perhaps they do more, and don’t get compensated. (Based on the posts in the thread so far, y’all are celebrating the latter)
 
So, when a client wants more, and the masseur doesnt want to “kill the mood” and doesn’t secure a tip, It ultimately ruins it for the rest of us who acknowledge that it’s work and who do tip.

I really liked the Labrinth Jealous song so much I had wondered if anyone else has done it and found another version that I found lovely and heartfelt.
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eHiH1NytwjM:325

Gold-diggers are everywhere -- even here in the USA! I have friends in Brazil, India, and Philippines who are gay locals there and tell me their dating pool for LTRs tends to be tiny there compared to what they see in the US or other western countries. I met all of them here in the US while they were getting their MBA here.
One friend even told me he prefers to date gay men who live in the same neighborhood as he does so at least they're both in the same socioeconomic class.
Anyways, love is love and I hope you find what you're looking for, V-Vhitner!

Why is it that suggesting an Asian boyfriend brings up calls to watch your wallet? Yes, we have set up a system in Asia, mainly Thailand, where Asian men who would otherwise not get near you will have sex with you for money. That's the deal and you subscribe to it when and if you enter the market.
But to suggest that Asian men in general are out for your money is no truer than any other group of people. Eastern European? Hispanic? White? They all have gold diggers, but they are not the dominant representatives.

@MarkNY
Thanks for the details. I won't do the rental places anymore. They're just not worth it, no matter how hot the guy is. You can never really let go with other people around, and lord knows what's crawling around on the floors.
 
A work space has an effect on the masseur, especially if he loves the space he's working in. Given my former employment in high-end spas, I can't tolerate even a hint of filth. I also know how challenging and expensive it can be to maintain a clean environment. Hats off to all the guys who take their business seriously, and maintain a love for the sensual. They're not easy to find, but they deserve our loyalty.

I am a masseur and I save their phone numbers (I don't delete messages so it's there when they text), name, where they are from (especially when they have same names like James, Mark) only after they come back for the second time. I also like to remember their preferences: type of massage, pressure, what body parts they like and don't like to be massaged. Some love head and foot massages and some don't. When they come back multiple times then it's easier for me, the settings are already in my mind.
 
Some married guys want to be discreet and don't want to be texted back so I definitely keep their request until they text back again.

Which 'head'? ?I'm good with either one.

I am a masseur and I save their phone numbers (I don't delete messages so it's there when they text), name, where they are from (especially when they have same names like James, Mark) only after they come back for the second time. I also like to remember their preferences: type of massage, pressure, what body parts they like and don't like to be massaged. Some love head and foot massages and some don't. When they come back multiple times then it's easier for me, the settings are already in my mind.
 
Some married guys want to be discreet and don't want to be texted back so I definitely keep their request until they text back again.

i love head, and foot massages ?

I'm a masseur not an escort. I offer therapeutic, sensual, erotic massages. The word "Erotic" here has different meaning for every guy and on the rentmasseur website, it is explained explicitly, most guys don't read that. So when I offer erotic, they expect full service like an escort. So some red flags for me, would be:
- I can't see your dick pic, can you send me?
- Are you a bottom?
- Are you a top?
- Calling me when I wrote no phone calls (so they don't read my ad entirely or just skipping to the parts that they want to read). Annoying when I'm with a client and I forgot to turn on "do not disturb".
 
P.S. I like your text. That's what I want in a new client.

I'm a masseur not an escort. I offer therapeutic, sensual, erotic massages. The word "Erotic" here has different meaning for every guy and on the rentmasseur website, it is explained explicitly, most guys don't read that. So when I offer erotic, they expect full service like an escort. So some red flags for me, would be:
- I can't see your dick pic, can you send me?
- Are you a bottom?
- Are you a top?
- Calling me when I wrote no phone calls (so they don't read my ad entirely or just skipping to the parts that they want to read). Annoying when I'm with a client and I forgot to turn on "do not disturb".
 
P.S. I like your text. That's what I want in a new client.

Had one great conversation with him and was very hopeful about scheduling -- but since then really hard to get him to respond to texts.

Wow! Looks very promising!!