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Brad Patton, without a doubt.  And Tyler Torro.  

Is it still meeting?  Where?

Agree it is messy, but I did not find it overly long.  And I quickly developed a crush on Diego Calva. 

Anyone else think that Diego Calva, the Mexican actor making his big Hollywood debut in “Babylon,” is super hot.  I was blown away by his performance. 

I work out early in the morning, so I wear my workout clothes in bed.  When I wake up, I just have to put on my sneakers and I’m good to go.  

He may have “two degrees” but grammar is not his strong point.

Getting a senior discount for a movie.

Missionary!  With a blond Mormon missionary topping me!  (I wish!)

Straight guy who wants you to look at him?

6 hours ago, Unicorn said:

I remember his ads from over 2 decades ago. He was charging some ridiculous amount, if I'm recalling correctly, maybe something like over $300, which was unheard-of at the time. I probably would have enjoyed meeting him. He seemed like an interesting man. But I remember seeing his rates and thinking "Geez. He's not that good-looking!"

He accelerated his rates before he disappeared from the scene. I never paid 300 in those days for an escort.  

There are young men out there who are attracted to older men.  Don’t assume that connecting with somebody is an impossible task.  Get out into the world and be open to opportunities. 

Aaron Lawrence.  There is a blast from the past.   I actually had some play dates with him.  A gorgeous twink back in the day, and very entrepreneurial.  I suspect he made his pile from escorting, invested well, and retired to do other things.  

He is definitely a very handsome man, and his bravery enhances his attractiveness.  But I do not find him particularly sexy.

As with most things having to do with sex, it is more about your brain than your body.  If you really want to surrender control to a man who turns you on, getting fucked is the way to do it.  I savor that root connection, man to man.  Nothing feels more fundamental than that to me.  Foreplay helps, but the hottest fucks I can recall did not necessarily involve lots of foreplay.  It is all about wanting a hot guy to be inside you, deeply connected. 

Would love to find a hot guy in NYC who would put me through that edging experience as described by Mjonis!

I once had an indifferent experience with a traveling provider who had made an appointment in advance on his travel day to NYC.  He was clearly tired from travel and it was low energy.  He was very apologetic and said if I was willing to give him another chance he would make it up to me on his next trip to NYC.  I took him up on it and the experience was fantastic.  I ended up having wonderful times with him over the next several years until he stopped visiting NYC when he retired from the traveling part of the job.  

Bare-handed is more erotically stimulating, IMHO.  

He is just a beautifully handsome man with a huge endowment and definitely worth a visit if you are a flexible bottom.

Nipple play definitely a turn-on!

A fantasy I have enjoyed thinking about, but have never taken the step.  I remember getting hard seeing pictures of muscular trans military men.  But I am a gay bottom so I am not sure how this would work in real life.

A major turn-on!

I met up with him a few times many years ago.  Yes, it is huge, but he wields it skillfully and I really felt fulfilled!  He is also movie star handsome and very kind.

Forget scripture and just go for it!

It helps to start with a patient, sensitive top who will enter you gently the first time to give your body a chance to stretch to accommodate him. Then he gradually increases the depth of penetration and the speed while paying close attention to your reactions. I was lucky to find such a sensitive mentor when I was young and just coming out. Once you relax into the feeling of being penetrated and connected to another man at the root of your body, the feeling is sublime.

So sorry to hear about this. I hope some way can be found to keep this valuable site going. RIP.