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My first erotic massage was also when I lost my virginity. I was fresh off of college so still unaware of many things about erotic massages. This was very many years ago. Email exchange (I still have the emails of my inquiry haha!). I went in expecting a massage with a usual handjob ending, but I just couldn’t say no to a hot guy who went on top of me and started rubbing his tool around my hole. He asked if I want it inside. I said no, and he said okay. He later tried again and asked with a sweet boyfriend tone in his voice. It swooned me and I said sure but be very gentle. He was careful and gentle and kissed me gently as he slowly went in.
It’s a moment I wouldn’t forget because too many firsts happened that night. Although as I got older, I found that other masseurs just couldn’t live up to that experience. And I just don’t hire for an erotic massage anymore. For some odd reason, I now just enjoy therapeutic massages with a mix of sensuality and standard HE. I no longer look to hire for sex. Sex is a bonus if it happens. But I am now the guy who’s happy with a great massage and even just a simple happy ending (aka HJ, MT). I actually enjoy it more that way now. It could be because the standard was just set so high.
I tried googling his email address to see if his ad still comes up, and I unfortunately couldn’t find him anymore. He’s most likely an older guy now who moved on from his massaging life.

I’m quite skilled at lingam massage, tantric edging and erotic massage. I also offer various bondage elements as part of the experience, if desired. It’s no rub and tug. It’s all about the buildup of sexual energy. Not those mechanical two minute hand jobs you will get on most masseurs’ tables.
I do more straightforward HE type stuff for the average guy, but for the clients who want it, appreciate it, and ask for it, I do really good lingam work. I have to know that’s what you want so I can program enough time for it and charge accordingly.
For those who book me specifically for it, I coach some of my clients on tantric edging and walk them through exercises to help them improve on premature ejaculation issues and teach them how to have multiple orgasms, longer orgasms, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and generally more powerful, full body orgasms. It’s nothing new or groundbreaking but surprisingly few men know about these topics and even fewer have the discipline to pursue this wonderful spiritual practice. It’s especially refreshing to have someone walk you through it so you not only have the enjoyment of the session but you get value of the educational info to take home and continue on your own.

I noticed the same from guys here in Vegas. Most of the expensive ones show “Available Now” more often. Not saying that it’s a good indicator but it could still say something about who’s getting work and who’s not.
As someone who gets 1-2 (sometimes 3!) massages a month, I have seen very many guys here both local and traveling, and I always ask them, “How’s business going for you?” Lo and behold, the ones who have affordable rates always say, that at the very least it’s been decent; and those with the more expensive rates say it’s been slow since the pandemic and that they wish they get more business. Go figure.
 

I noticed the same from guys here in Vegas. Most of the expensive ones show “Available Now” more often. Not saying that it’s a good indicator but it could still say something about who’s getting work and who’s not.
As someone who gets 1-2 (sometimes 3!) massages a month, I have seen very many guys here both local and traveling, and I always ask them, “How’s business going for you?” Lo and behold, the ones who have affordable rates always say, that at the very least it’s been decent; and those with the more expensive rates say it’s been slow since the pandemic and that they wish they get more business. Go figure.
 

In my experience, it's a mixed bag, some are trying to establish $200 as the new norm, but they seem to be getting less business here in central & eastern FL.
I refuse to try these two guys in Tampa because of their $200 rate, and I notice that they are often "available" on rentmasseur.
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I can get top notch massage from an insanely hot guy like Shea in Orlando for $150. Plus he gives a nice break on 90-minute massages, whereas those guys want $300. No way, I can give Shea a nice tip and still save money.
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Good you enjoyed your time with him. I didn’t. I got a weird vibe from all our conversation. Also I vividly remember the upselling was a mood killer.

Probably a different guy. Browsing through this person’s IG, it seems like he’s in Europe.
OP - you could use this to further your case with RM admin and get the ad banned. Use of fake photos is a definite bannable offense.

Probably a different guy. Browsing through this person’s IG, it seems like he’s in Europe.
OP - you could use this to further your case with RM admin and get the ad banned. Use of fake photos is a definite bannable offense.

Probably a different guy. Browsing through this person’s IG, it seems like he’s in Europe.
OP - you could use this to further your case with RM admin and get the ad banned. Use of fake photos is a definite bannable offense.

One week ago  today I had one of the worst experiences of my life. I have not posted about it simply because I have been debating how to go about it because I do not want to be banned from this site. I still don't believe I know all the proper procedures and rules for this site. I have decided to go ahead and tell what happened because if I do not I would be remiss. I absolutely cannot remain silent anymore and allow the possibility  to happen to another one of you gentlemen the experience that I had with Alex. And I am not going to offer the pm me for details.
The anger I have at myself is almost palpable. There were too many red flags and yet I went ahead and went through with it. His communication in setting up the appointment was awful. After a few texts between us I decided to hire him in spite of the numerous delays in his communication. We had the appointment set and then he did not show. He called me the next day elaborating that he had partied too much tonight before and he really needed to get his life together.The anger I have is because I keep questioning to what extent will I put up with crap just to experience a hot man. I have self-worth and self-esteem and at the same time still possess an amount of insecurities. I hired him. He showed up. I have never seen a more fabulous body. I was getting excited in my groins just when he walked in the room and hugged me. Then he asked for the money up front. Suddenly that excitement in my groins became very soft. We all know that this is a sign that he will probably stay for 15 and 20 minutes and just do a rub and and tug  then get the hell out. What happened next hurt my spirit and has left me in a position in which  I could not call legal authorities. I don't think anybody could call regarding what happened to the police because of the text messages that would be giving away what I was paying him for. I handed  him the $350 and he hugged me again then he said he needed to use the restroom. He told me to get undressed. I did. He came out of the restroom not once looking   in my direction and opened  the adjacent door to the hall and fled.  He robbed me of $350. I hope that what I am posting here will remain here as a warning because his appeal in the pics as well as first glance in person is astounding. I can't help but wonder however  how many other men he has done this too which would explain how a body like that has no reviews. 
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So is the guy in the pictures the same guy that showed up at your door?
If so, very surprising as he’s all over social media as “Alain”. Has almost 75,000 IG followers. 

EVDude must have meant this guy. Was this the same person that showed up to meet with you?  Because the photos used in his rm ad are also in this Instagram account. So it’s either a different person using this guy’s photos (which needs to be reported to this actual guy, and you also have much stronger case for RM to actually ban the fraudster’s ad), or the same person and needs to be called out!


 

I agree with OP’s $120-$180 is where it’s at.
Your $165 price for “strictly therapeutic non-nude” is what I also pay at 5-star hotel spas. But my $165 there not only gets me a great massage, I also get access to their facilities and amenities: sauna, steam room, hot bath, cold bath, cold room, salt room, meditation room, etc.

I agree with OP’s $120-$180 is where it’s at.
Your $165 price for “strictly therapeutic non-nude” is what I also pay at 5-star hotel spas. But my $165 there not only gets me a great massage, I also get access to their facilities and amenities: sauna, steam room, hot bath, cold bath, cold room, salt room, meditation room, etc.

I agree with OP’s $120-$180 is where it’s at.
Your $165 price for “strictly therapeutic non-nude” is what I also pay at 5-star hotel spas. But my $165 there not only gets me a great massage, I also get access to their facilities and amenities: sauna, steam room, hot bath, cold bath, cold room, salt room, meditation room, etc.

I’ll add:
Use recent photos. I see some who use the same photo for like 10 years now! Lol. Or if not very recent, at least ones that still look like you (ie., within the last year or two).
I’ve once hired a guy who was much much older-looking in person, but used photos when he was still in his 30s or 40s. Smh.

When prices are too low I am also wary… I don’t mind seeing 180-200 for 60 mins when there are lots of good reviews. Without reviews, 120-160 is the right cost for sensual/erotic. 
Agree with the remaining notes. Language that suggests comfy table, good vibe/space, interactivity, shower options and benefits for repeat clients sometimes peak my interests too. 

Some of the massage advertisements are pretty bad, more so on Rentmasseur but also on Masseurfinder.
 
Masseurs - if you’re looking to attract clients here’s some advice from someone who has booked a lot: 
 
1. Steer clear of the overly sexualized rentmasseur titles. “Top stud” “9incher” “sexybro”. These names belong on a different site and not for massage work.
2. Don’t lie about your age. The majority of us here have ways to research how old you actually are.
3. If you don’t have a face picture as one of your photos, most here will not even consider hiring you.
4. The sweetspot for rates for massage that most are looking for here is between $120 - $180. Anything over $180 for 60mins will make most of us not even consider booking with you.
5. Include a photo of your massage space and table in your ad. Make sure your table has sheets on it as nobody wants to see a bare massage table in an ad. If it’s bare in the ad, we expect it to be bare when we show up.
6. If you have a 30-minute option on Masseurfinder, most of us will not take you seriously.
Others - feel free to ad!

Yes. Never an issue. 

Yes. Never an issue. 

Yes. Never an issue. 

Yes. Never an issue. 

Yes. Never an issue. 

I like offering it to masseurs I connect with. And it’s been a very high acceptance success rate haha. 

I like offering it to masseurs I connect with. And it’s been a very high acceptance success rate haha.