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InChiTown

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    InChiTown reacted to MTnyc in Eugene in Chicago   
    I’ve had a few massages from him in the past 5-6 months. Really solid massage, no draping, HE and he massaged without a shirt on. I’d recommend.
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    InChiTown reacted to Whitman in Must wear a jockstrap!   
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    InChiTown reacted to Whitman in Must wear a jockstrap!   
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    InChiTown reacted to 56harrisond in NEIGHBOURS SON !!   
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    InChiTown reacted to Medin in Real Talk on massage rates - let me know your thoughts   
    I do the same.   Works perfectly.   
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    InChiTown reacted to PoundMeOnaPlane in Why do you pay for sex?   
    For me, a provider is like having a GPS for dating—always reliable and almost never lost in the woods of awkwardness.
     
    Going on a date without a provider is like trying to assemble IKEA furniture without instructions—fun and exciting at first, but soon you’re questioning your life choices and wondering if you’ll ever escape the maze of flatpack chaos. Many people have forgotten how to converse, turning a nice dinner into a therapy session where I’m the therapist, the waiter, and the bill payer. And let’s not forget the manners—or lack thereof—that can turn a rock-hard erection into a limp noodle faster than you can say “table manners.”
     
    A provider, on the other hand, is that steady guide, keeping everyone entertained and comfortable. They know exactly what I expect, which is usually a good time and maybe a little dinner—though I often find myself making a meal out of the provider instead. 
    That’s why. 
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    InChiTown reacted to Simon Suraci in Is working as an escort very risky?   
    Personally, I think you’re going about this line of work for the wrong reasons.
    Monetizing your sex life, for one. This phrase neatly summarizes the sentiment discussed in so many other threads on these forums. It just doesn’t work. A much larger number of men would do it if that’s all it took.
    For another, your primary interest is in the income, not meeting needs you personally are well suited to fulfill. Nothing wrong taking a fair income for delivering high value services to a willing clientele; however, it takes a lot to provide m4m services effectively and be successful. More than looks, and certainly you need experience and talent either on the massage table, in the bedroom, or both. Plus marketing and business savvy, patience, emotional maturity, boundaries, people skills, and many other soft skills.
    You’re going about it quite casually. This is serious work. To do it well IMHO, you need to do it for the right reasons (beyond a quick buck). This is about meeting very real human needs, not Grindr with the slight caveat of money changing hands. It takes empathy, compassion, and a selfless, service oriented mindset to do a good job. Missing these big picture items, you will likely burn out, and not succeed. Then you’re just another mediocre provider of many, the likes of which the men here pick apart mercilessly and publicly for both shallow and legitimate reasons. Then you inevitably fade into the background and quit 6-24 months after starting. Don’t be that guy.
    To succeed and sustain, you need to keep on your best game and continue to grow and get better. A short sighted, half ass effort in this biz is immediately apparent to everyone, from the ads you post to the first impression you impart to every new client in person.
    Lastly, I personally feel you are already in a much too vulnerable position being in the US on any visa, student or otherwise. It’s one thing being a US citizen and kicked out of your apartment lease because your landlord knows or suspects you are a masseur or sex worker. That sucks, but it’s quite another scale of consequence to be kicked out of the country for the same. I wouldn’t jeopardize your life. I need to refrain from saying anything further to expand this point, because it wouldn’t conform to the forum guidelines.
    Be careful, is all. You already have an excellent opportunity studying here doing something you presumably have a long term goal to fulfill. I would hate to see something bad happen to you or to miss out on your dreams over a quick buck side hustle your heart was never truly into in the first place.
    Just my take. Do what you will. If you want to do it anyway, some of the others here have already made some good points about not showing your face, not using your real name, taking steps for plausible deniability, shifting some risk onto others by tagging along on 4-hand gigs, etc.
    There’s more to it than all that, for instance how to properly declare your income and pay taxes, and how to set up a business entity to do so legally. In the end, it’s not always about what you are actually doing, but what Uncle Sam discovers about his missing slice of your pie that catches up to you and ruins you, but that’s a whole other subject. My advice is don’t go there. Be safe. Enjoy the incredible opportunities you already have. I too was a dirt poor college student many moons ago. I was disciplined. I budgeted. I made it work. Money won’t always be so tight.
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    InChiTown got a reaction from polysome in Dubai spas with sexy men   
    I’ve been very happy with cool aroma spa in oud Metha Dubai, and with ocean waves men spa in Abu Dhabi. The latter will send you photos of the therapists in advance on WhatsApp if you request. 
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    InChiTown got a reaction from thomas in Dubai spas with sexy men   
    I’ve been very happy with cool aroma spa in oud Metha Dubai, and with ocean waves men spa in Abu Dhabi. The latter will send you photos of the therapists in advance on WhatsApp if you request. 
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    InChiTown reacted to Radames in Mirko - Chicago   
    Mirko is my go to masseur for therapeutic massage. I have seen him post pandemic and his technique just gets better each time.
    If you are looking for a deep tissue or sports massage that is complete with stretching he is the best in the field. 
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    InChiTown reacted to MassageDrew in Mirko - Chicago   
    He'll definitely be my go-to for therapeutic.  No one else compares.
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    InChiTown reacted to bfig in Mirko - Chicago   
    Confirming that he is still strictly therapeutic with covers.  And, it is an incredible massage!
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    InChiTown reacted to ketut in Chicago Erotic Massage? Who’s good? 😉   
    Will is very good. 
    https://rentmasseur.com/WillRP
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    InChiTown reacted to dclurker in RichardatClassic in Philadelphia?   
    What happened to him? Seems his RM is frozen?
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    InChiTown reacted to jvanchicago in 411 on Trevor in Chicago   
    I’ve just recently had an appointment with Trevor. Seen him on RM for awhile and finally booked. He looks absolutely phenomenal, and has such a great personality! Massage was pretty good (was looking more for a relaxing massage, not anything real deep, and he delivered). I’ll definitely see him again!
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    InChiTown reacted to bichiguy in 411 on Peter in Chicago   
    If you have a nice ass he’s gonna spend a lot of time with a glute massage 😊
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    InChiTown reacted to + Jamie21 in Irishsensuality: $555/session   
    Each to his own. I’m sure there’s people who will be up for @Devah services and who will get something out of it. I find that if you’re looking for something Orphic there’s always people who are willing to provide it for you. If it helps you then it works. 
    I get asked by clients for Tantric sessions. I say I don’t do them. I’ve attended Tantra workshops out of curiosity and I find it impenetrable: too couched in obscure language and insider speak. I ask clients who want a Tantra session to describe what they’d like without using ‘tantric’ language. Turns out they want to feel approved of. I can do that. 
    I think these services that offer to unlock secrets and awaken consciousness etc is like religion: if you want to believe then you will find it. If you aren’t bothered then it’s just another snake oil salesman’s pitch or fairy story. Nothing wrong with believing, it meets a need for those who are searching. I just don’t buy the pitch. Call me cynical! 
    As for the price. He can charge whatever he likes. No one is forcing anyone to pay it. If it’s more money than you want to pay, don’t buy!  
     

     
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    InChiTown reacted to m4same in LeviHunter in Chicago   
    I saw him yesterday.  Nice chill guy with a great body. He knows his way around a body. MT was great.
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    InChiTown reacted to Trey in Axxxelboy in Chicago   
    I met with him several weeks ago now. He has a nice massage environment on a table in Edgewater. He sure is a sexy guy and his pics are accurate. I would say the massage was just ok. It did not take real long before the massage became interactive. I don't know what the limits would have been. If you are looking for the full hour before you are finished, you will prolly have to make that clear. It was a nice time with a nice guy. I haven't been back but I might sometime.
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    InChiTown reacted to MTnyc in Jose/Bryan at Tao BV in Chicago   
    Concur with all of the above - have seen him three times since last year.
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    InChiTown got a reaction from bichiguy in Jose/Bryan at Tao BV in Chicago   
    Agree with @Chads - interesting technique.  Hot and cold stones. Eye covering. Sensual / hi-touch experience throughout more than a typical therapeutic massage. MT/HE ✅. Recommend and will return. 
     
    https://x.com/bvvaladez1996
     
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    InChiTown got a reaction from bullfrog2017 in Jose/Bryan at Tao BV in Chicago   
    Agree with @Chads - interesting technique.  Hot and cold stones. Eye covering. Sensual / hi-touch experience throughout more than a typical therapeutic massage. MT/HE ✅. Recommend and will return. 
     
    https://x.com/bvvaladez1996
     
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    InChiTown got a reaction from + claym in Jose/Bryan at Tao BV in Chicago   
    Agree with @Chads - interesting technique.  Hot and cold stones. Eye covering. Sensual / hi-touch experience throughout more than a typical therapeutic massage. MT/HE ✅. Recommend and will return. 
     
    https://x.com/bvvaladez1996
     
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    InChiTown got a reaction from + 7829V in Alejandro on MFinder 40080   
    I saw him recently. Excellent session.  Great technique. No draping. We were both very happy. 😃 recommend. ✅
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    InChiTown got a reaction from Redwine56 in Alejandro on MFinder 40080   
    I saw him recently. Excellent session.  Great technique. No draping. We were both very happy. 😃 recommend. ✅
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