Rocca

I don't mean to be indelicate,I identify as Black, not a person of color  and I do not know what everyday activities are more uniquely hazardous today for Black people specifically (I cant speak on any other demographics).  I know there is a narrative out there but it isn’t supported by statistics. Regardless, as a masseur, you have to take precaution no matter what, regardless of your color. Bad things happen to providers and masseurs all the time, from the mundane, to sexual assault, and even murder. Stephen Port, a white man   murdered  at least 4 gay white escorts between to 2014 and 2015, and his victims being caucasian did not protect them from getting murdered. And that's just one example of countless of these things happening that are underreported, frankly. So, I never  suggested  anyone should not be cautious. Everyone has to be, because bad things can happen to all of us, but there is absolutely nothing to support the idea that a Black escort would be exposed to anymore danger than a white one.
 
Im speaking from my own experience that I have not had  problems with racism when 'Ive traveled. I still have to fly out of  state for some overnight clients, and I will continue to  do that, and I’m not going to employ a “unique” or special caution specifically for racism, as if the prospect of racism is worse than any of the many other bad things that could happen to a massuer. Im judicious and cautions, but I don't live in fear or make decisions rooted in it. The minute you do, is the minute you give your power away. Hell,  If I let the concern for racism deter me,  I would probably never leave the house, since you  could encounter that at your local grocery store. If I’m asked to travel somewhere and it makes sense business wise and I want to go, then I go. Rest assured, I am more than prepared for anyone who would be trouble for me regardless of the motives and I would encourage others to take their own precautions and use discernment  as they ALL should with ANY client.

A couple of people have messaged me privately to ask how the trip went, so I’m updating this here. It was absolutely marvelous! We spent a week in Hawaii, had an amazing time and the masseur who accompanied me is wonderful!!!! So much so that I plan to do it with him again as soon as my schedule permits, and he said he’d love to Join me again.  I’m so glad I did it!!!

A couple of people have messaged me privately to ask how the trip went, so I’m updating this here. It was absolutely marvelous! We spent a week in Hawaii, had an amazing time and the masseur who accompanied me is wonderful!!!! So much so that I plan to do it with him again as soon as my schedule permits, and he said he’d love to Join me again.  I’m so glad I did it!!!

A couple of people have messaged me privately to ask how the trip went, so I’m updating this here. It was absolutely marvelous! We spent a week in Hawaii, had an amazing time and the masseur who accompanied me is wonderful!!!! So much so that I plan to do it with him again as soon as my schedule permits, and he said he’d love to Join me again.  I’m so glad I did it!!!

A couple of people have messaged me privately to ask how the trip went, so I’m updating this here. It was absolutely marvelous! We spent a week in Hawaii, had an amazing time and the masseur who accompanied me is wonderful!!!! So much so that I plan to do it with him again as soon as my schedule permits, and he said he’d love to Join me again.  I’m so glad I did it!!!

Just to update: i asked and he said yes????????????????????????????????????
I’ll let u guys know how it goes. I can’t wait. After how 2020 went. I really need this.

I see it as win/win too. All expenses and meals paid in addition to a per diem fee to make it worth his while. Ill update you all if he accepts or declines the offer.

A couple of people have messaged me privately to ask how the trip went, so I’m updating this here. It was absolutely marvelous! We spent a week in Hawaii, had an amazing time and the masseur who accompanied me is wonderful!!!! So much so that I plan to do it with him again as soon as my schedule permits, and he said he’d love to Join me again.  I’m so glad I did it!!!

A couple of people have messaged me privately to ask how the trip went, so I’m updating this here. It was absolutely marvelous! We spent a week in Hawaii, had an amazing time and the masseur who accompanied me is wonderful!!!! So much so that I plan to do it with him again as soon as my schedule permits, and he said he’d love to Join me again.  I’m so glad I did it!!!

A couple of people have messaged me privately to ask how the trip went, so I’m updating this here. It was absolutely marvelous! We spent a week in Hawaii, had an amazing time and the masseur who accompanied me is wonderful!!!! So much so that I plan to do it with him again as soon as my schedule permits, and he said he’d love to Join me again.  I’m so glad I did it!!!

I don’t know if my experience is typical but I personally have never encountered racism while I’ve been working. Although, I’m aware you can find racism in any state, and any city if you look for it. I dont tour cities anymore but when I did, I had no concerns about going to any city, I just went where the clients were, regardless of the demographic makeup. I have clients on all ends of the political spectrum. A good client is a good client, so I never judge a city by its politically leanings or demographics. I selected the cities based on which areas would be most profitable for me and never experienced that kind of negativity. 

Disclaimer: I'm only speaking from my experience, LA could be someone else's favorite place to work, and my favorite city could be someone else's least favorite. I chose LA as my least favorite because  there are cons in the business like any other business, but in my experience, the cons are much more prevalent in LA in comparison to the other cities I've worked in. Business is great in LA, and the weather is beautiful, and some of my best clients I've met in LA, but I have encountered more unstable people (literal crazies) than in any other city. There is an expression that LA is the land of fruits and nuts, and I totally see what they mean. Also, LA is kind of known for having a lot of flakes just in general, so it was working in LA that taught me that I had to learn how to screen out those people within the first 1 or 2 messages in order to avoid them. With that being said, I just don't have to filter out as many people in other cities, whether its New York, London, Phoenix, Denver, Dallas, Palm Springs, Seattle, Utah, or Sydney, Australia.

I am so fascinated by what Calvin Klein saw in Nick Gruber. I mean what was it about Nick that made Calvin say, “i want you to be my boyfriend and im going to buy you plastic surgery, and buy you a bentley”?

My vote would’ve been for Chadwick Boseman. Everyone knows the best performer doesn’t always win those things though. Unfortunately. Also award shows are lame because art is so subjective

My vote would’ve been for Chadwick Boseman. Everyone knows the best performer doesn’t always win those things though. Unfortunately. Also award shows are lame because art is so subjective

Well, what did you write to them?

You are not going to be able pinpoint a general time frame that companions are most arroused. There are wayyyy too many variables.

Just to update: i asked and he said yes????????????????????????????????????
I’ll let u guys know how it goes. I can’t wait. After how 2020 went. I really need this.

Just to update: i asked and he said yes????????????????????????????????????
I’ll let u guys know how it goes. I can’t wait. After how 2020 went. I really need this.

I see it as win/win too. All expenses and meals paid in addition to a per diem fee to make it worth his while. Ill update you all if he accepts or declines the offer.

I see it as win/win too. All expenses and meals paid in addition to a per diem fee to make it worth his while. Ill update you all if he accepts or declines the offer.

Im paying him for everyday that he’s there, he will have his own alone time too. As long as i get my massages and H/E at the end of the evening, I’ll be happy ?. Im low maintenance.

Go for it man. Let us know how it goes.

Im paying him for everyday that he’s there, he will have his own alone time too. As long as i get my massages and H/E at the end of the evening, I’ll be happy ?. Im low maintenance.

Im paying him for everyday that he’s there, he will have his own alone time too. As long as i get my massages and H/E at the end of the evening, I’ll be happy ?. Im low maintenance.