A few years ago, I found an amazing tutorial online that discussed the most effective ways to flirt with guys who might or might not be gay. I spent about an hour last night trying to find it without any luck. Sigh.
The only thing I remember from that guide was that if you spot someone you like and they're not looking at you, don't start smiling right away, but wait until they look at you and then smile (slightly). This was to make it clear that your smile was because of them and not something else.
Anyway, I thought I'd throw the question out to the group here.
What are your favorite techniques to use when flirting with guys who might or might not be gay?
It obviously matters if you're hot and charming or not and who you're flirting with, but I'm thinking specifically about guys who hire who are flirting with guys who might be hirable.
Thanks in advance!