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I'm sometimes nervous. Kissing and massage are what work best to calm my nerves. As backwards as it seems, I am usually most comfortable with the guys who are most forward and basically dive right in. You really can't talk me out of nerves when that pops up. Also, for me, nerves is a compliment as I usually only get nervous when someone is way out of my league.

I've been seeing an uptick in newbies as well. I met a couple and at this point have decided to assume that all newbies are either the local pimps new hires (I hope they are hired), cops, scam artists, or just flat out lame. If I want to try out someone without any reviews, I'll go to a bar or use Grindr. When I hire, I'm looking for a pro that can spoil me.

Facial recognition scanners don't work with 2D photos.

It's called the oldest profession for a reason. If they haven't managed to legislate it away yet, seems like it is time to throw in the towel. Looks like people are going to continue to pay for sex for the foreseeable future. The other thing that irritates me about this is that there is such a fine line. If I hooked up with someone at a bar, had sex, and then gave my new lover some kind of a gift that's completely OK, but if it is prearranged there is a problem. Sex is often involved in an equity trade anyway. A girl looks for a successful guy to have babies with, but being a gold digger is legal? The whole thing is crazy.

Every time I have paid up front, I have regretted it.

$400/hour for a massage?

RiuMelo - Male Escort - Orlando, FL | Rent.Men Very friendly, but his pictures are at least 5-10 years old. I'd put him in his mid to late 30's and he is even skinnier than the photos. Really kind, so I didn't leave a review on RM, but I'd avoid all the same.

I think the notion that you can accurately plan a session down to the minute is insane and it ruins the mood. I find the best escorts and clients understand that there's a +/- 10-15 minutes that just comes with the territory. If I have a great time and it's 50 minutes, why would I whine about that? Some escorts will cuddle it out, which is nice and all, but at this point I've got what I came for. However, if there's an abrupt ending at 60 minutes, that's not going to lead to repeat business. If an escort runs over, I'll tip extra for their courtesy; however, a good escort would be more interested in the repeat business or positive experience than getting paid for every single minute.

I really enjoyed my time with https://rentmasseur.com/Bodywhisperer

Not yet, but he's on my radar.

He was a great top.

My favorite masseur in SF is https://rentmasseur.com/Bodywhisperer

I ended up meeting https://app.rent.men/MaxValentino while in Boston. Not a kisser, but a great time otherwise.

Honestly, I'm waiting for the beard fad to die. I miss the clean shaven faces.

I agree and I have noticed the same. Many seem in a hurry To get it over with. There are still some that provide great service.

Orlando really is a wasteland most of the time.

Why not message them?

How do you get these young guys out of the hey, how you doing, hbu, pics, looking?, into?, where? sequence. Is it me, or is it really hard to get someone to say something else? Also, do you bother with ad copy? If so, what do you say in your title and copy? Finally, do you bother with the blank or faceless profiles?

Awesome advice! Thank you

I was 100% "straight" until about 4 years ago when I finally let myself admit I wasn't. So my guy relationships have all been paid, not so on the female side. I'm like a nervous schoolboy with some of these hot guys, so again... it is me.

Maybe it's a false assumption. I assumed it would be more awkward than an escort. I probably had a dozen or so reach out to me over the weekend. I have only been reaching out if they indicate older or bear. Most of the time, I've been pulling the plug, so there is far more potential than I would've guessed.

What's your approach at the meetup to help them let their guard down?

Awesome! Looking forward to my first grindr meet then. I appreciate the feedback.

I got bored and decided to give Grindr a go. 50 and “beefy”, I’m well past my prime and didn’t figure I would get any hits from fit younger guys <35, which is what I’ve hired in the past. However, one such guy was advertising that he liked big old guys, so I reached out and we are theoretically meeting in a few days. Is it my low self esteem, or is it a red flag for a young fit guy to be into older bears? What are the warning signs that someone should look for on Grindr?

Traveling to Boston soon. I like passionate kissers who top, and I'm considering the following: https://app.rent.men/Brazilian_beefXL https://app.rent.men/Jay_Boss https://app.rent.men/latin_Boy https://app.rent.men/MaxValentino https://app.rent.men/Rickyyboy Any recommendations?