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Or could be really hot if he uses his moves on ya ? 450 for 2 hours does not seem bad. If anything else, you can spend the first few to get to know the guy and build that chemistry, and perhaps lower your anxiety about him being "ex-military." it also depends on how he is to you when you're texting him - if you feel a positive vibe, then would probably go with your gut...or loins ?

Haha, I thought about it. I feel like I have posted quite a few threads already in the past few weeks, so was going to start it in a couple of days.

I guess, for me, I just chuck it as part of the business. Here are my assumptions, which could be flat out wrong or spot on: Depending on how far the conversation went (e.g., hours requested, rate, payment method, repeat client), the provider may be looking for other potentially more profitable prospects (e.g., requests for overnight, cash, new client) If you are a repeat, and the provider knows that you guys have good rapport, he may simply be waiting out to get new clients and expand the market. Simply too many things going on...saw the texts, thought he'll respond later or thought he already responded but didn't. I have been in those waiting situations before, but I guess I have pivoted my behavior to the following: My time is also important. So if a reservation is not booked or am waiting for confirmation from the provider about a booking, then I am welcome to scout for alternative plans in case the original proposed booking falls through. If other providers are more responsive, then the original provider may have just lost business. If he is a repeat provider and you guys have a good time, the next time I meet up, I would try to understand his communication style so I can level set expectations going forward when he is slow to respond. I may be more patient with good, reputable repeat providers (as long as I am aligned with their communication style). Hope that helps a bit.

I feel you. I think it goes the same with with WhatsApp when providers say to go communicate with them through that platform. You see those 2 checkmarks amidst the conversation and no replies.

@jtaq1295 please provide a status report when you've done the deed. or you can PM me if too naughty for public consumption

good luck and wish you a bangin' time! ?

are you taking the plunge, @jtaq1295?

If you sign up to their mailing list, you should be informed of any new live events coming up.

nice, @easygoingpal! hot, were you being naughty during detention?

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Thank you folks for being open and sharing your experiences in this forum. I am learning a lot from this. As you mentioned, @westernsyd, some people manage this differently, but how does a couple guarantee that no jealousy would exist in the relationship? Wouldn't each individual have to be honest on their capacity or propensity to be jealous, or is this setup more of a ground rule? It may sound stupid, but should the partner be expected to stop engaging with another man if the other partner expressed his jealousy, even if such ground rule was previously established? I guess it would be to your first point that both should default to each other, although it sounds like to @Charlie's account, allowing someone to follow through on exploring that relationship could work as well assuming that the relationship base is secure enough to survive those circumstances.

@Coolwave35, apologies if the follow-up is intrusive and certainly do not intend this to be a public therapy session. However, was curious to know why one stays in a marriage if you think you're in a bad one. Is it the convenience of staying or inconvenience of not? Is it because you are able to self-provision the "missing stuff" with your current setup? Is it something that is openly discussed with the husband to figure out and solve for the root cause?

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I am imagining what this looks like but got lost on the last bolded part. Is there a clip you can share for reference?

How can I get this via Postmates or Doordash? Can I get a M4M forum discount?

Apologies in advance to those that may be offended by this thread. Being new to this journey, I am fascinated by the prospect of getting into a relationship, especially within a gay relationship. My only experience being in a relationship was when I was 12 - I courted my then girlfriend because that is what was considered the expected norm in a predominantly Roman Catholic country where I was raised back then. My perspective on relationships has been limited to that and to the experiences of my close heterosexual friends. I understand that experiences will be different, but certainly welcome all perspectives on the following questions: Is there a fundamental difference between a gay and heterosexual relationship? I would think not, but curious if some think there is. Are open relationships more acceptable among gay men, or is this a false presumption? What are the drivers for having an open relationship? Is it grounded on a belief that humans are not meant to be monogamous? Is it because one wants to compartmentalize certain aspects - like romance and companionship with the boyfriend and hot sex with a friend or stranger? Is it because everything one wants in a person is there but sexual compatibility (e.g., both bottoms)? Are there other reasons? [*]Is monogamous gay relationship an oxymoron, or can monogamous gay relationship exist? [*]Throupling...how does that work if it can work? How does one balance attention to two other men in that relationship? [*]Is building a family (i.e., having kids) more common or is the preference to grow old together? Thank you in advance for any experiences or insights you are willing to share.

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...yet?

*knock on wood*

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