MysticMenace

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Ben Higgins

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I did wonder about this specific "RentMen of the Day" ad. So to clarify, it is something that a provider pays for versus someone from RentMen actually vetting someone based on a specific criteria. I guess the rate for getting that type of ad is more expensive than that of getting a platinum boost.

https://rent.men/Diego_Stud Anybody met with him recently? I believe he was in Philly and NYC for the majority of this year, so curious to know if you recommend or nah with this guy.

I am sorry to hear about your situation, while I do not know the feeling of being a friend to someone that battles depression, I have been battling with chronic depression myself. What I can tell you is that during the worst times I have tended to close myself from others and shut myself in - nothing anybody could say or do would get me out of that dark place. It was something I had to realize and do for myself. I cannot say this is what is happening to your friend, but it may be a possibility. However, what you said about him expressing not to wake up the next morning appears serious enough to warrant intervention. Unfortunately, I have not been in this situation to offer advice that works, but perhaps some things that could help: Do you know of any neighbors or mutual / common friends that can easily go and reach your friend? Perhaps they could check up on him in person just in case the potential suicidal tendencies worsen? Perhaps somebody in this forum has an idea, but I would think there are sites and hotlines for those who suffer from depression or those who have families and friends of someone who deals with it to solicit advice and guidance for this type of situation. If you think it is serious enough to warrant police intervention, calling 911 might still be an option. I wish I could help any further, but that is all I could think of at the moment. Sending you and your friend positive vibes that this sad episode has a happy ending.

If someone wants to take this on, perhaps there could be an M4M Library, where members can donate or dispose of their collection for other forum members to peruse and check out in the future.

right... says one with girthy... I mean, lengthy conversations with at least a certain individual during the halloween party ?

It sucks I was not able to log in and join in the festivity - I was waiting in bed for 11p to hit and next thing I know I woke up after 3a. @sam.fitzpatrick - did @Coolwave35 and the-one-that-everyone-kept-lusting-over Joey behave and only spilled the tea and nothing but the tea?

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it sounds to me that in both explanations from @xyz48B and @former lurker, the resulting outcome would be the same - to move on. the difference may be how much value we ascribe to the same behavior. one may just think it is inconsiderate but others might feel it is more than just that, and we are all entitled to feel how we feel. regardless of how we classify the behavior, sounds like moving on is the expedient option.

I can suggest what I'd want for that show but I'd like for the Property Brothers to build it and try out the dramatic play space with me ?

Thank you for sharing your observation, and if for some reason, my posts have contributed to that frustration, I apologize. I commiserate with your sentiments, and at times, I observe the same things you outlined. I personally felt attacked a couple days from joining the forum simply by the virtue of my newness but I slowly realized that came with the territory. I had since sought counsel from some individuals in the forum and it made me realize the following: My truth is not invalid just because an individual or group of individuals attempt to invalidate it. Somebody in the forum still can and does value your perspective in the forum. I certainly do value your perspective and do not consider you a waste of time. Please continue to contribute. The concept of "assume positive intent" would be a nice tenet for all of us to follow, but something we unfortunately cannot expect everyone to embrace. What we can expect is how we individually embrace the tenet and how we respond. As @Daverwr said, I have learned to let comments "roll off my back" as well. I have found this forum to be a safe space for me to voice my thoughts, opinions, and to solicit advice. I also have to realize that with any communication vehicle, whether it be an online forum (like this one), or others, group think is unavoidable and all I could do from my end is to acknowledge my own biases and try my best to understand the perspective of an individual or group of individuals and objectively identify what biases might underlie those perspectives and respond accordingly (e.g., question perspective, clarify, roll of my back and move on). Just like with any social scenario, I cannot vibe with everyone and not everyone will vibe with me. I hope you can find some individuals in this forum that you vibe with and still feel a sense of community and belonging. Just know @xyz48B that your voice is heard and I value what you bring to the forum, for what that is worth.

Matt Lauer

Is it just me - why can't I find any shirtless pics of David Muir?

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Just realize the sexy exhalation bits of the video definitely want me to wear a mask.

A provider-turned-friend helped me with installing the shower shot at my place. I still find it inconvenient to keep hopping in and out of the tub to clean out. Then it got me thinking if there currently is a best gay-friendly bathroom set up that would just make things more convenient. Then it also got me thinking about other areas of the house that might be good to have, such as a sound proof "play room" a la Fifty Shades of Grey, easy entry and exit to a basement glory-hole or cum dump setup, and even an in-house spa room for all that erotic massage needs. Maybe it's just me, but it got me excited to think about what that dream house could be. Does anybody have concrete ideas / plans (or actually followed through and implemented those ideas) on building their own dream house?

surprise "poking" either by finger(s) or morning wood while still "asleep" on an ON - yay or nay?

Have karaoke bars not been a typical gay venue? Would love to get back to it after this pandemic ends.

In my humble opinion, I do not think we can control nor should we attempt to control other people's actions. We can only control what we do and how we respond to other people's actions. This is what works for me: If the person matters to me... The next time I have a conversation with that individual, I would express the importance of communication and how you receive or consume that from others. Other people have different communication styles or have different value systems for how timely they respond to messages, but if you express how importantly you want or need that response, they may be receptive to changing behavior. If I consistently do not receive the attention or the type of response I need and there has been no effort to try to prioritize or engage me in actual conversation (i.e., i cannot even get to have that live conversation from the above), then I would reconsider the balance over how much I value that relationship as that other individual does mine and determine if it is even worth keeping the relationship. [*]If the person does not matter to me (e.g., prospective providers, repeat providers, acquaintances, other folks one classifies in this category), I would re-calibrate how much I would care for their response or non-response. To me, if I set little to no expectations for a response and I do not hold that much value to the level and timeliness of the response, then I do not set myself up for too much disappointment.

He will be visiting the DC area from this Saturday to Thursday (I mean, Sunday to Thursday ?) for those interested.

I'm A Slave 4 U, Britney Spears

Never have I ever made a guy cry.

Never have I ever had a free hookup with someone in public areas (e.g., cruising spots, bars) or from online dating (e.g., Match, Tinder) and hookup (e.g., Grindr, Scruff) apps.