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I have. Mixed. PM for details.

I am a dad via surrogate and it is the best thing I ever did.

Writing as a client and not a provider: Few of us are good at being "self-aware," and we are often surprised at how others view us and the things we do. If I were in this line of work, I would want to know what my clients think about what I do well and what I don't -- it would make me a better provider. If someone gave feedback in a rude and/or unproductive way, just block 'em and move on.

No, there is a fairly consistent pattern: The profiles always have bizarre stats (6'10, 130lbs, 14 inch penis, 42 waist...), hot photos, and statements saying that he is looking for one true love, a guy who will cherish and care for him all the days of his life.... I think that they are non-native English speakers struggling with non-metric measurements and looking to get an email so they can send a photo that will have malware embedded.

Here are the stats of a guy who reached out via A4A and asked me for my email so he could send me some sexy pics. How can he not already be taken?? Who: Man Age: 33 Height: 6'10" Weight: 220lb Waist Size: 43" Hair: White Body Hair: Shaved Body Ethnicity: Latino Dick: 13" , Uncut > Sexual orientation: Straight Curious

Thank you! Very helpful. A big dick will get you only so far LOL.

Thank you! Very helpful. A big dick will get you only so far LOL.

Agree on your taste. I tried texts and RM email on multiple occasions and never got a reply or even an acknowledgement. Not sure what his deal is....

They are the same pics, but notice the different telephone number. There is a guy in NYC who has just taken those pics but doesn't look like him nor does he provide any of the services.

https://www.adam4adam.com/profile/view/Papicox The guy in the pictures is not the guy who shows up

Any experience? I did a search and didn't find any threads https://rentmen.eu/BigDcKVTOPTJAY

I didn't measure him -- at least not his height, but yeah he's around that size. I like a short guy with a big dick : )

Lovely guy. Met him a few weeks back. Very verse, very hung, good kisser, and cute. PM me if you want the gory details

Sure, in any big city you can do that...as long as you have an unlimited budget and are not choosey about size, looks, topping/bottoming, safe/no, etc.

Thank you for this. Perfect.

No, my friend. I try to follow rules, including those that say "don't post reviews in the message center." What is frustrating is that there remains no logical explanation for seemingly arbitrary rules. To the extent we are a community, these things can be discussed.

No, my friend. I try to follow rules, including those that say "don't post reviews in the message center." What is frustrating is that there remains no logical explanation for seemingly arbitrary rules. To the extent we are a community, these things can be discussed.

No, my friend. I try to follow rules, including those that say "don't post reviews in the message center." What is frustrating is that there remains no logical explanation for seemingly arbitrary rules. To the extent we are a community, these things can be discussed.

Gee, Ben, I thought that this was a place to have thoughtful discussions on these topics. That is what keeps this site alive and lively. Is that okay with you? Or does blind allegiance to Dear Leader require no dissent or other opinions under any circumstances?

I agree. I was and still am dumbfounded but Daddy was adamant that the review could not be posted unless I could find some other ad by the same provider. Makes no sense at all.

Considered seeing him in Chicago. Wanted $500 for his "time" - a bit above my budget even if he was real

Not true. We rent hotel rooms, take time off of work, re-arrange schedules and turn down other opportunities in order to have time to pursue this hobby. When a provider flakes, you can't just sent a text and have another in his place in 20 minutes.

That you don't consider such an attitude a character flaw or immaturity speaks volumes about you

Seems a dubious assertion. On what grounds do you base this conclusion? You are tarring most white gays with the racist label, and then profess your annoyance because we won't just admit that you are right. BS

Sorry, not buying it. You attempt to offer a lengthy excuse for what are simply immature, unreasonable actions. My comments are not "super-speculative" They are reasonable assumptions based on available evidence. What you don't seem to understand is that it's not just ghosting. That is bad enough, but sadly part of our culture now. It is the intentional misleading of a client clearly designed to cause annoyance and inconvenience (in my case, I said "thanks but no thanks" to two other providers once I had reached agreement with the one in question. By the time the charade was exposed, it was too late to go back to the others). To what end? What is the motivation to make an extra effort just to annoy? You may like being a defense attorney for assholes, but there is no other way that the person's actions can be explained. if you disagree, then give me a plausible alternative, don't just say "there are lots of them." Why would a person lead a client on, send communications leading the person to believe that he was just moments away, and then not show, not respond to further emails or texts, and never offer any explanation?