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This feature is pretty worthless. I have had several occasions where I reached out relatively late night via text, phone, and email to guys in NYC who indicated "available now" -- some simply didn't answer, and the few who did responded with an incredulous "do you know how late it is???" to which I wanted to respond "do you know what "available now" means?" but I didn't.

I second. Very nice personality, well-endowed, and talented in the arts....

I agree with much of what you said, but I think you miss an important point regarding the escort's stated preferences: clearly, the preference indicator is no guarantee of any particular behavior, and one would be foolish to assume it is. But if I do not want to deal with a drugged up escort, where are my odds better: the escort who says "no pnp" or the one who says "pnp" or "leTs parTy all The Time" ?

To stigmatize means "describe or regard as worthy of disgrace or great disapproval." Do I disapprove of escorts who attempt to do their job and PNP at the same time? Yeah, and in this case I am ok with that. It is most certainly not bigotry. Is it bigotry to avoid an uber driver or a surgeon who boasts about his heavy drinking? What is wrong with stigmatizing people whose behavior directly impacts their ability to provide the service for which they are being paid, or who may very well pose a danger to themselves or their clients? Do they need and deserve help and understanding? Yes! Are we clients, as a community, allowed to discuss whether or not to hire them when they openly advertise their proclivities? YES.

I am NY-based consumer so have never really looked at your profile before - I think it is well-written. Although I don't think your profile has either issue, I would say that my two big pet peeves in profiles are: 1. Excessive claims or offers unless you REALLY mean it. For instance, countless guys say "available 24/7" or "call anytime" and then you reach out to them and find out they are at work, or complain about how late you are calling. 2. Guys who tick all the boxes in the Rentmen "I am into" section without meaning it: guys who tick the box for kissing but don't kiss, or rimming but don't rim, etc. etc. I think that just making sure that your profile accurately reflects your services is key.

It's good for Mocha that this site is not his only source of clients. His posts have convinced this client to stay away....

Really useful, cogent comment. As has often been discussed, the frustrations go both ways, and unfortunately are probably inevitable in a surreptitious business where much communication has to be cloaked or implied/inferred. You are a wise man.

Thanks - I will check it out

Hmmm on what road?

I have. Mixed. PM for details.

I am a dad via surrogate and it is the best thing I ever did.

Writing as a client and not a provider: Few of us are good at being "self-aware," and we are often surprised at how others view us and the things we do. If I were in this line of work, I would want to know what my clients think about what I do well and what I don't -- it would make me a better provider. If someone gave feedback in a rude and/or unproductive way, just block 'em and move on.

No, there is a fairly consistent pattern: The profiles always have bizarre stats (6'10, 130lbs, 14 inch penis, 42 waist...), hot photos, and statements saying that he is looking for one true love, a guy who will cherish and care for him all the days of his life.... I think that they are non-native English speakers struggling with non-metric measurements and looking to get an email so they can send a photo that will have malware embedded.

Here are the stats of a guy who reached out via A4A and asked me for my email so he could send me some sexy pics. How can he not already be taken?? Who: Man Age: 33 Height: 6'10" Weight: 220lb Waist Size: 43" Hair: White Body Hair: Shaved Body Ethnicity: Latino Dick: 13" , Uncut > Sexual orientation: Straight Curious

Thank you! Very helpful. A big dick will get you only so far LOL.

Thank you! Very helpful. A big dick will get you only so far LOL.

Agree on your taste. I tried texts and RM email on multiple occasions and never got a reply or even an acknowledgement. Not sure what his deal is....

They are the same pics, but notice the different telephone number. There is a guy in NYC who has just taken those pics but doesn't look like him nor does he provide any of the services.

https://www.adam4adam.com/profile/view/Papicox The guy in the pictures is not the guy who shows up

Any experience? I did a search and didn't find any threads https://rentmen.eu/BigDcKVTOPTJAY

I didn't measure him -- at least not his height, but yeah he's around that size. I like a short guy with a big dick : )

Lovely guy. Met him a few weeks back. Very verse, very hung, good kisser, and cute. PM me if you want the gory details

Sure, in any big city you can do that...as long as you have an unlimited budget and are not choosey about size, looks, topping/bottoming, safe/no, etc.

Thank you for this. Perfect.

No, my friend. I try to follow rules, including those that say "don't post reviews in the message center." What is frustrating is that there remains no logical explanation for seemingly arbitrary rules. To the extent we are a community, these things can be discussed.