tenderloin

Right - but with most lawyers you are not kissing and fucking them (though a few may fuck you...)

I think you are right, but even there, the trick is not to go to the next step: Me, thinking to myself: "gee, I had such an intense, emotional, real connection with this guy. Maybe he wants to grab a quick bite to eat -- my treat? " Him: "sure, that would be nice. I only charge you one more hour" Me: "back to reality"

As I am well into middle age and have hired more than occasionally, and I should know better, but.... My favorite experiences are with guys who can really seem to be into it, who act like they actually like me and are happy to hang out afterwards and chat and cuddle. The genuine BFE. I am amazed at how often I start to mistake a $$ transaction for friendship of some sort. I've just recently been reminded that, however convincing the act is, at the end of the day it is just an act, and our experience is, for him at least, ultimately a transaction. Time is money, and rates are rates, and he wouldn't even be talking to me if I wasn't paying him. That can be tough to remember. To be clear, that is not a complaint or a criticism of any particular pro - they are literally doing their jobs LOL -- but is more an observation about myself: how an ordinarily hard-minded businessman can be completely disarmed by a young, well-hung, sweet and friendly guy who is willing to fulfill my fantasies for a short time. Does that happen to others, or am I just a ridiculously naïve romantic?

I am always getting hellos from guys claiming to be from odd parts of the US (French Louisiana?) but whose profiles show them to be about 4,500 miles distant. Today's guy (walkingbasse123) had some great stats (I swear this is cut and paste): Who: Man Age: 29 Height: 6'8" Weight: 335lb Waist Size: 26" Dick: 18.5" , Uncut At 18.5 inches, I would hope it was uncut! Next he will announce that he is looking for love, and a plane ticket....

I second what Brosnan wrote. I've been having a run of bad luck lately, but this guy broke my losing streak -- truly a gem

I have not reviewed often in my many years on this site; generally, I have only tried when it was to warn y'all about the dishonest, the unkempt, and the appalling. But now I am done with even that. Why? 1. Most recently, I tried to post a review about an unsatisfactory meeting where the guy who showed up wasn't the guy in the pics and didn't deliver. The guy advertises on Adam4Adam; turns out that the folks who run the (completely unconnected to this site) website for escort reviews do not want to bother registering (for free) with A4A, so they won't post my review. A4A has dozens of pros advertising in NY alone, but.... 2. A few weeks ago, a different provider whom I engaged for an outcall gave me constant updates on his journey to me ("on my way!" "should be there in five...") and then never showed up. The folks who run the (completely unconnected to this site) website for escort reviews do not allow a review when the meeting didn't take place, so that little bastard got away with it despite my being able to produce lengthy text exchanges showing what happened. 3. Before that, I submitted a negative review on a different provider only to have it rejected because the provider had deleted his ad; he then recommenced advertising shortly thereafter and still advertises with no negative review connected to his id. attached. I know that the good people who run the review site don't get paid, so I am not going to criticize them. But until some of the "rules" are reexamined, it is not worth my time or effort to be an active participant here.

https://rentmen.eu/Amirdelrey/ https://rentmen.eu/whitecubanmix/ Both seem delicious - any experience? I couldn't find any threads on them....

Alright, I'll give it a shot. This is the guy: https://www.adam4adam.com/profile/view/Drive_you_crazy Caveat emptor

Yes, I am an idiot and a fool. For the second time, I let my little head do the thinking, and hired a guy whose pictures on A4A show a massively-hung, twinkish latino who was a versatile kisser. It was very late, I was horny, and he showed "available." The guy who showed up was not the guy in the pics, and would do very little of what was advertised (I won't go into detail or name him so as not to violate the rules here). I ended the session, he became vaguely menacing, and I was glad to have him gone without incident. I got took. My lesson is a simple one: if you consider hiring from A4A, ask the 'scort to do a three-finger selfie as confirmation of ID. Then get specific about your expectations. Those boys who won't comply are likely fakers.

I think so, yes. Good to have one who knows what makes you purrr

I understand what you are saying, but it is true only to a point. Sex is not just a physical/mechanical thing (at least good sex isn't) - it is a tangle of actions and responses: emotional, primitive, visceral, passionate, etc. There's sucking dick and sucking dick. Unless one is completely clueless, it becomes fairly easy to discern when one's partner is "into it" or not. And, to me, guys who position themselves as "straight" (regardless of whether they are or not) are less likely to be really into it. And for me personally, that makes all the difference. I have been with guys who positioned their phones on a nearby pillow so that they could glance over and keep an eye on incoming texts as I was thrusting into their darling tuchus. I have also been with guys who have wrapped their legs and arms around me and hyperventilated like a drowning man as I did the deed. The latter is who I want to be with. Or, to pick up on your metaphor, there just aren't that many good actors ready to go "knees up."

Whether they call themselves Gay, straight, bi, or omni, I just make sure that they kiss. Without deep, sincere kissing, it just doesn't work for me. It's one of the things that I make sure to check in advance, and I find (just my experience mind you) that guys who identify as straight, and a higher proportion of men of color (ie, Latin and Black) are unwilling to kiss.

He asked what happened, and I sent a brief note saying that he had been treated the same way he had treated someone else, and my hope was that he would think twice the next time he left somebody hanging.

Well, dick, you didn't read my posting very closely, did you? You know, the "made plans" part? My last action was to send a note explaining that he now understood what it was to be on the receiving end of cyber-rudeness. Yes, it's a little like junior high, but I certainly don't need your instruction re acting like a man.

I was home for a few days, so I spent a little bit more time on line than I really should have. Connected online with a guy via Adam4Adam - we exchanged notes, photos, and made plans. Got pretty specific and explicit. Then, all of the sudden, he stops replying. Still reading my messages, but just no longer replying. No explanation. Nothing. Ghost. Now, if I hadn't had time on my hands, I would have just moved on. However.... I created a fake profile with some sexy pics, got back on line, connected with him and made a date (of course, in my new profile I was younger, thinner, and had a bigger dick). He wanted to see me right away. He sent me all of his contact info, and then headed off to the loo to do some cleaning in anticipation of our big date. So after I let him know I was "just getting into my uber on my way to you," I just stopped communicating. ghost. : ) Yes, I know that was adolescent and immature, but lord it felt good to let a transgressor know what it felt like. It won't change the insane cyber jungle out there, but for once it felt gooooood.

Those are the bait and switch. Got that - it has happened to me. I am asking about the others - the dead ads that just sit there and look pretty. I was just visiting another city, and in the lead-up to the trip tried to reach some hot guys on RM. I emailed, texted, and called. From several of them, absolutely nothing. No response or acknowledgement. I just don't get it.

when you say that, what do you mean? what does someone gain? Again, not from the bait and switch, but the zombie ads?

Amen. The coy shit is really annoying. As I grow older I find myself really losing patience with those games. Establish your limits and your price up front, then put aside the calculator and have fun.

well, if there's gold in them thar hills i am going to find it! Hitching up my wagon now... thanks!

Thanks - is that ass as lovely as it appears in the pics? is he comfortable with letting one explore?

any link to pics? I am in Atlanta frequently on business

thanks - very helpful. I have sent you a pm

https://rentmen.eu/Markxabier/ Anyone have the scoop on this guy? That ass is driving me to distraction. Worth the plunge?

I think the problem is that too many guys just check everything, making that portion of the RM site unreliable. This leads to a lot of wasted time for everyone. For example, I have occasionally gotten curious about some edgy kink or the other and have reached out to an escort in NY who checked that particular box in their profile, only to receive an angry and even disgusted reply. I am not sure why people would check things that they are definitely not into, but they do -- over and over again. I have learned that I have to be very specific beforehand or I come away disappointed.

Sweet and sexy - can't recommend highly-enough https://rentmen.eu/alexUrFantasy