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Let's not forget Trent Olsen, who has now pled guilty to raping his 8 year old brother and trying to sell the video. No worries about hiring him, he'll be behind bars for at least 15 years.

Never met him, but based on what I have read thus far, Billy Santoro.

Hi Rudynate!
 
I can try to answer this from the perspective of somebody who buys flexing vids from guys who I've found on IG or who advertise on TheBestFlex. These days, partly because of the OF phenomenon, guys charge a wide variety of rates for flexing vids. I mean, they are literally all over the place. But based upon my own experience and from what I've read in message forums that cater to that scene, here is a range of rates that most customers would consider reasonable for 10-minute shows or custom videos. (Rates per minute are often discounted for shows or videos that are longer than 10 minutes; also, live shows tend to be priced at the lower end of the below ranges, while custom videos tend to be priced at the higher end of those ranges.)
 
Basic Flexing: $3 – $5 per minute
This would be just basic flexing. Nothing really spicy. Nothing that probably couldn’t be posted on IG or YouTube. Clothing would likely consist of shorts.
 
Sexual Flexing: $5 – $7 per minute
This would be flexing that also involves catering to more specific sexual interests of the person buying the video. For example, it might include wearing special clothes that are a bit more revealing, having an erection under those clothes while flexing, talking in a cocky or dirty or dominant way, or doing things that go beyond flexing (such as role play, dancing, etc.).
 
Erotic Flexing: $7 – $10 per minute
This would be flexing that could involve the above and, additionally, would involve nudity and, often times, orgasm.
 
Again, rates are all over the place these days. (One fitness “influencer” recently quoted me $50 for a 30-second video and $100 for a one-minute video. Needless to say, he didn’t get my business.) But what I’ve written above would be considered reasonable to the vast majority of potential customers out there.
 
I hope this helps!

To get pooped on/in mouth. Beat someone up.
 
Didn’t go for either but have been asked multiple times for both.

This is one of the biggest benefits of being into "daddies". They know what they want, they're gracious and graceful, and not caught up in the character of being hard-to-get.
 
Younger guys need to understand that I'm just not into cardio. I ain't gonna chase nobody.

This is one of the biggest benefits of being into "daddies". They know what they want, they're gracious and graceful, and not caught up in the character of being hard-to-get.
 
Younger guys need to understand that I'm just not into cardio. I ain't gonna chase nobody.

Bingo. Works both ways.
 
If a client made me jump through those hoops, I'd expect the exact same paperwork in return.

As long as you financially compensate the time to fulfill these request it is perfectly reasonable

You hire. You dictate the rules.
As long as they are clear and given well in advance before hiring I don’t see a problem. They can also decline or accept your proposal.

Shout it from the rooftops! Hearing this repeated kills me. Cops are 100% allowed to lie in the pursuit of their duties. How else would they stay "undercover"?

Never have I ever: topped anyone!

Never have I ever been able to perform autofellatio. I wish I had the talent and flexibility to do it.

I take Cialis, but I do that for for-fun hookups, as well. No one likes it when their dick doesn't work due to pressure to perform, or other stressors.
 
Largely, I focus on the sensations that I feel. And as the top, it's pretty rare that I don't get to guide the experience by picking the position that provides the best sensations. Outside of that, if the guy is doing something that almost feels right, I guide him to what really gets me going. If they're doing something that is distracting, I explain that as well.
 
Spoiler alert: getting rimmed and fucking are my favorite sensations (followed by having my balls played with and getting fucked), though there's something to be said for jerking off into a guy's waiting mouth. ?‍♂️
 
I think it's most about having fun. I can have fun regardless of what the guy looks like or my physical attraction to him. I mean, I could jerk off next to anyone and I'd eventually get off.

Reminds me of a scene in the web series "Hustling". The main character's bestie, a personal trainer, begins to escort. He meets a guy, they each do some drugs, and presumably have sex. Afterwards, as the trainer is ready to leave, he asks for his money. The client, takes out his badge, and arrests him.

Shout it from the rooftops! Hearing this repeated kills me. Cops are 100% allowed to lie in the pursuit of their duties. How else would they stay "undercover"?

Shout it from the rooftops! Hearing this repeated kills me. Cops are 100% allowed to lie in the pursuit of their duties. How else would they stay "undercover"?

Shout it from the rooftops! Hearing this repeated kills me. Cops are 100% allowed to lie in the pursuit of their duties. How else would they stay "undercover"?

It actually wasn't all that worth it, it was more flirting in the open shower but the attendant caught us both with hardons. I chatted with the guy in the parking lot after, I can't remember WHY we didn't go find someplace else to play.

Video game designer. My very first passion. I would love to be in charge of a team with a big ol' budget to realize this one game idea I've had and improved upon since I was a child.

Video game designer. My very first passion. I would love to be in charge of a team with a big ol' budget to realize this one game idea I've had and improved upon since I was a child.

Video game designer. My very first passion. I would love to be in charge of a team with a big ol' budget to realize this one game idea I've had and improved upon since I was a child.

Video game designer. My very first passion. I would love to be in charge of a team with a big ol' budget to realize this one game idea I've had and improved upon since I was a child.

I had a trip planned this last weekend and had six people contact me to book across Friday and Saturday - none of which I could take.
 
My prior trend (having lots of days where there's only 1 client) has continued. I have had a single client lined up for yesterday, tonight, tomorrow night, and Thursday night. Nothing for the weekend yet. Maybe this is the new normal? Let's hope not. I can't imagine living in a smaller city and trying to make ends meet.
 
Luck to you.

Video game designer. My very first passion. I would love to be in charge of a team with a big ol' budget to realize this one game idea I've had and improved upon since I was a child.

...or, your home can go up in value so much that you live for free for many years, then sell and still take away a hunk of cash. When the market was booming, that often happened.