NikoLeto

My method is very tailored to the vibe I get from the client. If we've met before, especially several times and he has a spat of no-shows, I don't hold it against him, I carry on in good faith that his reasons for cancelling last-second (or whatever may have happened) were legitimate and move on. An established client would need to make a habit of this behavior before I would take a precaution that would very likely damage our business relationship. For clients that I have not yet met, I allow them two 'grace appointments' where we set up an engagement, agree upon a time and the person falls silent. After that, I demand a deposit of $50 (which is applied to the cost of the encounter) before I consider taking them seriously. At this point in my "career", I don't need the stress of someone reaching out to me last-minute then hearing back from an escort they contacted 4 hours ago and ghosting me. Prior to enacting this policy, I had a following of approximately 20 guys who would reach out to be across a three-month or so time span and set up appointments only to fall silent. I have no way of attempting to divine why this was a pattern for so many people, as I have several friends in the industry and they report a similar problem but with a number of people closer to but less than 10. Anyways, since I started telling people this, it just doesn't happen. I still get plenty of new clients, and they never learn about this policy unless they make a habit of failing to meet at the last second. As a client, contacting a provider who just NEVER contacts back, I can't possibly make up an excuse for that behavior. It could only be a naive misunderstanding that your personal habits around clients is your brand. If you fail to meet someone, then you're damaging your brand in a way that could be easily resolved by even the flimsiest excuses. "Sorry, running late/flat tire/car exploded/girlfriend needed something/boyfriend needed something/personal emergency/developed a cough." the possibilities are endless.

I was just discussing this with a friend who is a provider: perhaps bottom escorts end up moving out of the market as the majority of clients are bottoms - at least that's been my experience. Without hard data, I'd expect that upwards of 90% or more of my clients across 5 years have been bottoms. In the last 5 months, I can remember less than six clients who were tops (COVID probably contributing to this low number).

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For me, it completely depends on the aesthetic of the guy. A guy that swings more toward twink status, I want him to have less hair. Muscle guys and daddies, I need a thick pelt I can nuzzle against. Myself? I wish I had more hair. I have, what I consider, a weird configuration of hair on the bottom 75% of my pecs, a little bit around the naval, a small bit around my actual hole, and then the "normal" spots (crotch, legs, forearms).

That is some incredible choreography. Holy fuck!

I think this is very specific to the escort. Across the handful of years I've escorted, I've taken friends as clients. My only concern is that they can keep the interaction secret to the broader spectrum of people we know. If you can find a way to approach, start by making it clear you don't intend on revealing the information to anyone else and that you want to make sure that the experience won't be awkward for them.

This has been my practice so far. I've jumped on Chaturbate a handful of times, and I open up a handful of the top male models (and a few that are just genuinely hot), and I try and assess what they're doing, why they're doing it, how they're pricing things, why they're pricing certain things certain ways. When I saw a straight guy have a tip menu that included "bicep flex" and "pec flex" I rolled my eyes and left. Nickel and dimeing your customers for every little interaction cannot possibly be a good business model to follow. Randomly, I just bought a prostate toy vibrator-thing because I've been so curious about them for so long and I've been wanting to be a better bottom, and yada, yada, yada. Wellp, I bought it only to realize that I need the special pink one that reacts to tip noises. Bleeeeh. Lesson learned. Market research first, business purchases second (this one will fall under personal research ).

This has been exactly my experience. People reach out to me and they say they saw my ad from a site I've never even heard of. I really wonder what drives these sites to do this. They can't possibly know my business volume or whether I'm a "good" provider. Why would they just steal random people's ads and host them?

This is exactly how I do it. RentMen even sends you an email every time someone views your private gallery, so if I see >3 messages saying they've looked at me, I send a general "thank you for looking at my ad, let me know if you have any questions", but my experience has been that some more 'vanilla' clients find my ad to be a little too hardcore, so putting forth the effort to illustrate how approachable I can be has net me a few clients. I would always value critical feedback of my business operation, however, I think it would appear desperate to reach out to someone after a single click. Sustained interest, it makes sense to reach out (having viewed your ad several times across a wider timespan), curiosity (a single glance), not so much.

This mirrors my experience, though only through 'feel'. That is, I only charted my earnings for a year and even Sunday beat out Monday/Tuesday/Wednesday.

Thank you so much for the kind words! I'm astonished someone recognized me so quickly. It's good to be here! I look forward to learning and chatting with you guys. Already picked up a ton of things just by observing. <3

Have you seen anything from a Chaturbate model that you consider "the next thing"? Asking as a guy that's looking to get into live camming, I have strongly looked at getting one of those things. Seems like it's practically required to join the site.