Danny-Darko

Sorry, I don't follow your reasoning. Or I'm just "none of the above". I like what I like because I like men! I don't know how else to explain it. In no moment am I delusional to think that they are going to fall in love with me and ride off into the sunset with me! They are HIRES and simply that! And I'm a CLIENT and simply that to them. In another thread I explained how I came to realize that there is never (rarely?) a connection between escort/client other than financial and often a very temporary one because of their "needs" for the present moment. At least for the ones that are "straight". Yes, there are some career courtesans who are a cut above the rest and have taken their craft seriously and made it an art form that has been around since man has become civilized. There is a reason it's called the world's oldest profession. A few are even here on this forum! But not ALL are "professionals". And most aren't especially these younger generations that have very short-sighted goals. Sorry, I don't know how else to explain it, but I am none of the above you've mentioned!

Sergey Yesenin (1895-1925). The Russian poet is a classic, had stormy affairs with both men and women, committed suicide at the age of 30.

Nick Bosa

For decades now since Jeff Styker and maybe even before, Gay4Pay men have been the top selling porn stars. A gay man that says he hasn't fantasied ever in his life about a hot pop idol or movie star is lying (and yes some celebs are closeted, but most are straight as far as we know). Who didn't have crushes on the straight guys in school when we started to become sexually aware? Who hasn't wondered about a hot guy at work in a sexual way? Transvestites pride themselves on being able to pick up "straight men" too! I've never seen or heard of one going out with a flaming queen. I could go on and on with examples. Yet for some reason to admit to this reality isn't politically correct in the "all-inclusive and embracing" LGBTQ+ "community". Yes, there are some men that enjoy soft, passive and even effeminate men, and nothing wrong with that. But to asume or suggest that we that prefer our men "straight" are in a different world or category is fooling themselves. And yes, maybe some of us actually do fetishize straight men more than others do. But if you think about it, it's almost normal and natural for a homosexual to be attracted to masculinity and manliness and most things about men. And most men out there in the world are straight/heterosexual and to different degrees. Us homosexuals/gays are a minority no matter how visible we now are. And finally, if most gay men who hire weren't attracted to straight men, why would so many escorts lie about it or even state that they are straight or bi on their profiles as a marketing ploy? Just some food for thought. We all like what we like even if different than what the next guy likes!

Nick Bosa

So that means everybody should or would mention every provider brought up here for any reason their personal political views among other ones, to make members aware of them so to make sure they align with theirs views and values??? Maybe you should suggest it to RM to make it a profile option! Though I suspect most would make theirs as "ask me" since "none of your business" probably wouldn't be an option choice.