RandyVue

To restate, or complement PK's response, you are conflating two questions. 1) is the friend racist, and 2) if so, what should he do. Yes, he was looking for advice, but only on the second question, he's decided on the first. You don't need to know what the racism was to provide advice on what to do. You can offer either an unnuanced answer, for example, 'He's a friend, look past it'. or 'He's racist, dump him', or a nuanced one, such as posing hierarchy of responses depending on the severity of the racism involved. To do the latter you don't need to know where on the severity spectrum this instance lies. It's certainly easier if you can pin down the 'how racist' question and offer specific advice, but an answer that simply says that it depends how racist covers it. If you wanted to be specific in the absence of knowing exactly what had happened, you could offer a range of examples and what your reaction would be to each.

Just like with seeing pornography, I know racism when I hear it. It is unnecessary for me to repeat it to have you agree that it was racist, or to have you disagree for that matter. It is true that there are things which can be said which most would consider intolerable. What is clear to me is that his comments in person and on Facebook are more racially charged over the last few months and the degree of venom seems to be increasing.

I assume that some people say January because they believe that a vaccine will be available by then. I think that's highly optimistic. I hope I'm wrong, though.

Just venting here
 
I am so sex starved and I’m going crazy. DIY is not working anymore

I'm getting the urge... I guess we all are.
This is hard and so am I!

Yes. The number of cases and deaths have fallen almost to zero in my area, so I'm having massages with my trusted favorites who know how to take care of themselves and I'm loving it. If I was in an area of the US where the number of cases and deaths are spiking and causing alarm, I wouldn't tale any risks.

I haven’t had a massage since February due to lockdown, but I haven’t had any human touch in 4 months and Im getting the urge and its becoming irresistible. I cant imagine waiting until January to get a massage. I know Im not the only one. Have any of you went ahead and hired?

I used to be one and I now hire

There is a noticeable difference in Dolly's first verse between the movie and the play. In the movie, Barbra's voice goes up in two places in the 1st verse. The last being on "...You feel as fine as you look." Both Bette Midler and Bernadette Peters go down on the word "look." I've more used to Barbra's version as I first saw the movie when I was about 8 or 9, and I've seen it multiple times since then. The more I listen to the musical soundtrack, the more accustomed I get to hearing a lower note on "look." But I still think Barbra's version sounds better. I wonder why they didn't use that in the revival.
 
Gman